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Post by slappy on Oct 2, 2009 21:15:50 GMT -5
I can just imagine the replies, so don't disappoint WF.
To make a long story short, this guy likes me, I don't like him, he keeps begging for me to go out with him, he is getting his own place next month and wants me to move in with him. I keep telling him that I don't have feelings for him, that I don't like him, yet he doesn't understand that.
So, how do I just stop all of this and get through to him that I don't want to be with him?
I'm so conflicted, I'm thinking about doing it because he's the first person to actually like me, so I might just fall for it. GOSH I need help.
I know, lump me in with the others asking for help in this area.
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Oct 2, 2009 21:25:55 GMT -5
Seriously Slappy, you've got it easy communicating with guys. Try talking to girls. They don't get it. Just tell him flat out that you don't like him and that you're not into him. Sometimes you just have to be blunt. Guys are stupid.
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Post by slappy on Oct 2, 2009 21:26:59 GMT -5
Seriously Slappy, you've got it easy communicating with guys. Try talking to girls. They don't get it. Just tell him flat out that you don't like him and that you're not into him. Sometimes you just have to be blunt. Guys are stupid. I've told him as bluntly as I can that I don't like him, but he doesn't get it. He still thinks we have a shot. But I guess that's because I'm doubting myself and thinking that maybe I should just go with it. I'm so ing confused.
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Post by inrogers29 on Oct 2, 2009 21:30:36 GMT -5
If you don't want this, then don't do it. You can't just hope things will develop, if you don't have any feelings to start, there is nothing either of you can do about it, your just simply not gonna happen. Tell him no, and if he is persistent, be an ass and tell him how much of a prick he's being about this.
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Post by extreme on Oct 2, 2009 22:51:13 GMT -5
Tell him you don't want to see him anymore and ignore him. I mean, he can't force you to move in with him. If worse comes to worse, lie to him that you turned straight
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Post by Keyboard Cat on Oct 3, 2009 5:35:12 GMT -5
inb4 rko him
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Post by White Trash Lucha on Oct 3, 2009 7:43:10 GMT -5
Diamond Cutter him.
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Oct 3, 2009 9:10:25 GMT -5
Well, you could always push him down and throw mud on him. Sometimes that gets the point across when nothing else will.
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Post by The Mountain King on Oct 3, 2009 10:29:42 GMT -5
get caught with a woman.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 3, 2009 13:45:43 GMT -5
Three-quarter facelock bulldog him.
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Post by carly1988 on Oct 3, 2009 13:54:16 GMT -5
Just tell him he's so ugly you went out and slept with a girl.......and enjoyed it
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Post by Sam on Oct 3, 2009 14:00:44 GMT -5
Just ignore him, if he keeps asking, don't talk back to him, he should get the message then.
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Post by J-Swift on Oct 3, 2009 14:06:41 GMT -5
Show him your man boobs.
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Post by wf13 on Oct 3, 2009 15:06:01 GMT -5
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Post by KeBen Owens on Oct 4, 2009 0:11:04 GMT -5
just dont talk to him anymore. make excuses why you cant talk to him, hang out, or anything else. say you cant move in with him because you have other responsibilities to where you live now. if you've already bluntly told him you can always try what Hulk said about the mud...i think that would work. even though my first instinct was to lie and say you went straight and now have a girlfriend. -ashley
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Post by Doomrider on Oct 4, 2009 1:05:13 GMT -5
Fart in his mouth, then give him a mushroom stamp.
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Post by eddie eddie on Oct 4, 2009 2:22:07 GMT -5
you don't want him to like you anymore? stop talking to him. it's the only way.
if you don't want to lose this guys friendship or something, i'm sorry, but its already been spoiled by him crushing on you.
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Post by lancewiget on Oct 4, 2009 7:33:55 GMT -5
RKO him. Anyway... now that's over... Seriously Slappy, you've got it easy communicating with guys. Try talking to girls. They don't get it. Just tell him flat out that you don't like him and that you're not into him. Sometimes you just have to be blunt. Guys are stupid. I've told him as bluntly as I can that I don't like him, but he doesn't get it. He still thinks we have a shot. But I guess that's because I'm doubting myself and thinking that maybe I should just go with it. I'm so ing confused. Doubt is one of the worst things in a potential relationship. You've told him no, stick with the god-damn no. Either that or murder him. He's probably playing the "50 No's and 1 Yes means Yes" rule.
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Post by officespace on Oct 4, 2009 10:09:38 GMT -5
Ask him if he's ever seen the movie He's Just Not That Into You.
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Post by Kody on Oct 4, 2009 10:12:54 GMT -5
Grow a set.
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