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Post by MichaelTheMartian on Oct 21, 2009 2:56:27 GMT -5
God I feel horrible. He had been in hospital/rehab for 8 weeks with all sorts of stuff, chest infections, urinal infections and more. He was 85 and last night and around 12 we got a call from the rehab facillity saying he is unwell and we should come. So we went and we were too late, he was dead in the bed, his tounge was out. We didn't know if he was breathing so I took the responsibility in checking if he is, and he wasn't. His face was litrelly grey  Then my uncle and his son & daughter, who my family aren't on good terms after my aunties death, came along with my grandpa and they all couldn't stop crying. It was so sad, I really can't belive I'll never see him again, he was such a great man, litrelly. He loved his family and always cooked and would fix his garden and everything, he was very active until the last year or so and he reached depression because he knew he couldn't do anything anymore. |
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Post by KeBen Owens on Oct 21, 2009 3:18:28 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss, man. I know how you feel. I felt emptied of all human feeling after my grandma passed away. My prayers go out to you and yours.
-BEN
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Post by The UndyTaker on Oct 21, 2009 3:18:31 GMT -5
Oh man. Be strong. He lived a long life and sounds like a good man. R.I.P. God bless.
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Post by legionofsemidoom on Oct 21, 2009 5:08:51 GMT -5
Sorry to hear man, My grandfather is around the same age and isnt doing well himself. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Be strong man
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Post by mrwest on Oct 21, 2009 5:40:21 GMT -5
Sry to hear my grandpa passed away too but he live to see the new millenium.R.I.P
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Post by MC2 on Oct 21, 2009 6:16:08 GMT -5
That is terrible to hear, I feel so bad, it really is a hard thing to deal with when you lose a family member. I wish the best for you and your family.
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Post by Lemmy on Oct 21, 2009 6:18:43 GMT -5
RIP.
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Post by rkolegacy29 on Oct 21, 2009 11:44:28 GMT -5
R.I.P Your grandma will be in my prayers. Hope your ok stay strong'  |
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Post by Deleted on Oct 21, 2009 12:25:53 GMT -5
R.I.P I'm sorry for your loss, God bless.
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Post by Tasker on Oct 21, 2009 12:42:07 GMT -5
I lost my nan in 05 and my dad in august,and i know what your feeling.
Its just horrible and empty. Just be strong man,remember the good times,you'll see him again and he wont have nothing wrong with him,he'll be in his prime again.
god bless,hope all goes well for you and your family.
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Post by Unleashed in the East on Oct 21, 2009 14:05:19 GMT -5
That's terrible if my grandparent passed away. I'd cry. I hope you're ok. Be strong
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Post by *Ricky Spanish* on Oct 21, 2009 14:23:34 GMT -5
I am really sorry for you loss when mine died I got a tattoo in his honor
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Post by twinn on Oct 21, 2009 16:43:45 GMT -5
I especially know what you're going through man.... My grandma (who I was very very close to) passed away from lung cancer less than a month ago... It still kind of blows my mind how fast everything went... She found out she had cancer and was told she had 6 months to 1 year left; and she ended up dying the next week because of how aggressive the cancer was... It was the absolute worst time of my life.... I cried everyday from the time that I found out she had cancer until we buried her... The only thing I can think to say is that it will get easier.... I found myself remembering nothing but the good times after the funeral was over... I think about her everyday and am still kind of blown away that this person I loved so much is gone forever...
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Post by BigDaddyChacon on Oct 21, 2009 18:28:09 GMT -5
Sorry about your loss.
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Post by "The Visionary" Eldniw on Oct 22, 2009 2:52:51 GMT -5
My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours during this rough time man. I went through this a little over 3 years ago with the loss of my own grandfather, and it's rough. The worst I took any family death, tbh. It just wasn't the same, going to their house and him not being there on the front porch, waiting for us. It's been so hard.
Take care of yourself, though man.
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Post by King Silva on Oct 22, 2009 16:31:06 GMT -5
Damn that really sucks. I might have to make one of these sad threads soon because my Great-Grandma Rose just broke her femur and had surgery. She is currently doing physical therapy but I don't know if she will live much longer.  She is about 86 so she has lived a long life but it will still be sad. |
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Post by ygb on Oct 23, 2009 9:30:14 GMT -5
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you ever need anything or want to talk you can send me a pm. I know how you feel I lost both my grandfathers. Remeber one thing though he might be gone but he will never be forgotten as long as you keep his legacy alive in 1 place. He will live always in your heart. God Bless You.
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Post by MichaelTheMartian on Oct 24, 2009 6:30:11 GMT -5
Thank you all for the sympathy, I really appreciate it. His funural was yesterday, very sad especially seeing my grandma cry for 4 hours. They had been together for 60 years and never once were they apart.
Thank you all guys.
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Post by ygb on Oct 24, 2009 9:32:54 GMT -5
Thank you all for the sympathy, I really appreciate it. His funural was yesterday, very sad especially seeing my grandma cry for 4 hours. They had been together for 60 years and never once were they apart. Thank you all guys. No Proble. I know how it is to loose someone that was special to you. Stay strong. It going to be difficult but you'll get through it |
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Post by Liam on Oct 24, 2009 9:50:49 GMT -5
Sorry about your loss man, i too know how you feel cause i have lost my Grandma and Auntie in this past year. Be strong man
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