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Post by HHH316 on Jul 9, 2014 0:13:44 GMT -5
Based on your original post, I wouldn't. Only because it sounds like wrestling is "your thing," & she just embraces it. Typically, a wedding is the most important day in a girls' life. You should make this moment about her & what she loves.
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Post by DgenerationX092 on Jul 9, 2014 6:27:05 GMT -5
My honest opinion is that since she has gone out of her way to do all kinds of wrestling related things for the two of you to make you happy. Maybe you want to make this one thing that have nothing to do with wrestling. Something speical , that she would love and remember forever. How can you make it unforgettable for her while getting her favorite things involed. [/quote] Based on your original post, I wouldn't. Only because it sounds like wrestling is "your thing," & she just embraces it. Typically, a wedding is the most important day in a girls' life. You should make this moment about her & what she loves. My thoughts exactly. Shes an amazing girl for being so receptive and supportive of your love for wrestling, but proposing at a WWE event is a moment for You, not for Her. The only was I can deem this somewhat acceptable is if you find a super sappy way to do it like others said, PR style and in the ring or something. But still, it just doesnt seem fitting. Dont do it in your car. Dont do it in the crowd. But make it a moment for her man. Dont include wrestling. Because if you do this, then you'll think its Ok to keep it up like having Howard Finkel do your wedding introductions or wearing a belt at the wedding or something like that. These are things that have actually been done. Show her SHE is your life, not Wrestling. Just get more creative. It doesnt have to be on a birthday, or anniversary or some day of significance. You create that day of significance. |
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Post by CMPUNKISGOOD on Jul 9, 2014 8:23:10 GMT -5
Maybe you could work a thing out with WWE and the arena so you could put marry me (her name).
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Post by Zigzag on Jul 9, 2014 9:42:32 GMT -5
My honest opinion is that since she has gone out of her way to do all kinds of wrestling related things for the two of you to make you happy. Maybe you want to make this one thing that have nothing to do with wrestling. Something speical , that she would love and remember forever. How can you make it unforgettable for her while getting her favorite things involed. I understand that, yet what makes me lean this direction at all, is that essentially, the organization and creation of the wedding is totally up to her, her mother and her sisters. They tell me I'll be able to get a say on a few things, but I don't really care, as long as I have my groomsmen. That said, the actual asking is my job. I should be able to do it however I want (within reason of course). As I've said, she doesn't care how I do it, as long as it happens. I know one of her sisters told her now-husband, that she didn't want her proposal to be on a holiday. He didn't listen, dressed up as Santa, and surprised her. She was upset for a little while after that. Anyway, I figure during a live TV broadcast would be a pretty neat way to propose, and could lead to a story-told-around-a-holiday-table for years to come. That's just where I come from on it. Thanks for all the feedback. Unless I hear back from WWE, I think I may do it after the show, if I do it that night at all. |
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Post by Zigzag on Jul 9, 2014 9:51:03 GMT -5
]My thoughts exactly. Shes an amazing girl for being so receptive and supportive of your love for wrestling, but proposing at a WWE event is a moment for You, not for Her. The only was I can deem this somewhat acceptable is if you find a super sappy way to do it like others said, PR style and in the ring or something. But still, it just doesnt seem fitting. Dont do it in your car. Dont do it in the crowd. But make it a moment for her man. Dont include wrestling. Because if you do this, then you'll think its Ok to keep it up like having Howard Finkel do your wedding introductions or wearing a belt at the wedding or something like that. These are things that have actually been done.
Show her SHE is your life, not Wrestling. Just get more creative. It doesnt have to be on a birthday, or anniversary or some day of significance. You create that day of significance. Sorry for the double post, the quotes weren't cooperating... Don't worry. I'm not that hopeless of a mark. It's just that since we started dating, attending WWE shows have been a constant in our relationship. I thought proposing in Miami before or after (or during) Raw would be something cool to do. |
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Post by MrPerfect25 on Jul 9, 2014 10:07:29 GMT -5
Never ask the girl how should I propose. That's cheese mania. Just make it special and all about her. I think that's an intimate, private moment. My wife actually said later that she was glad I didn't do it at a bball game or in front of a bunch of friends and family. Good luck buddy!
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Post by T R W on Jul 9, 2014 10:12:09 GMT -5
Unless you can get WWE PR to assist you with something awesome like in the ring after the show or something, then NO, don't do it there.
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Post by Zigzag on Jul 9, 2014 10:17:35 GMT -5
Thanks everyone. You've all been a big help.
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Post by ICW on Jul 9, 2014 11:18:28 GMT -5
My honest opinion is that since she has gone out of her way to do all kinds of wrestling related things for the two of you to make you happy. Maybe you want to make this one thing that have nothing to do with wrestling. Something speical , that she would love and remember forever. How can you make it unforgettable for her while getting her favorite things involed. I understand that, yet what makes me lean this direction at all, is that essentially, the organization and creation of the wedding is totally up to her, her mother and her sisters. They tell me I'll be able to get a say on a few things, but I don't really care, as long as I have my groomsmen. That said, the actual asking is my job. I should be able to do it however I want (within reason of course). As I've said, she doesn't care how I do it, as long as it happens. I know one of her sisters told her now-husband, that she didn't want her proposal to be on a holiday. He didn't listen, dressed up as Santa, and surprised her. She was upset for a little while after that. Anyway, I figure during a live TV broadcast would be a pretty neat way to propose, and could lead to a story-told-around-a-holiday-table for years to come. That's just where I come from on it. Thanks for all the feedback. Unless I hear back from WWE, I think I may do it after the show, if I do it that night at all. I'm telling you, man, I wouldn't do it. Most girls dream about the day that the love of their life proposes to them. It's really, really special to them. Proposing in front of hundreds of screaming people, many of whom are children, is not exactly the most romantic way to be married. I would think of something else, bro. |
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Post by Zigzag on Jul 9, 2014 11:20:17 GMT -5
I understand that, yet what makes me lean this direction at all, is that essentially, the organization and creation of the wedding is totally up to her, her mother and her sisters. They tell me I'll be able to get a say on a few things, but I don't really care, as long as I have my groomsmen. That said, the actual asking is my job. I should be able to do it however I want (within reason of course). As I've said, she doesn't care how I do it, as long as it happens. I know one of her sisters told her now-husband, that she didn't want her proposal to be on a holiday. He didn't listen, dressed up as Santa, and surprised her. She was upset for a little while after that. Anyway, I figure during a live TV broadcast would be a pretty neat way to propose, and could lead to a story-told-around-a-holiday-table for years to come. That's just where I come from on it. Thanks for all the feedback. Unless I hear back from WWE, I think I may do it after the show, if I do it that night at all. I'm telling you, man, I wouldn't do it. Most girls dream about the day that the love of their life proposes to them. It's really, really special to them. Proposing in front of hundreds of screaming people, many of whom are children, is not exactly the most romantic way to be married. I would think of something else, bro. Fair point. Thanks! At this point, I'm feeling that as it gets closer to our birthdays, she could suspect something. No matter when I do it, I want it to be like the Diamond (ring) Cutter, she doesn't see it coming. I was thinking sometime during Raw, but now I'm not sure. I just want it to come when she'd least expect. |
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Post by HVMMONS on Jul 9, 2014 11:52:27 GMT -5
Go with your gut. Congratulations.
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