Thunder Chunky
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Post by Thunder Chunky on Apr 8, 2017 1:59:47 GMT -5
I hate to break it to you, but she was most likely seeing other guys during the time you took her out. More than likely, she was just using you for the dinner. That's how casual dating works.
She doesn't owe you anything.You went on three dates,move on man. You sound completely hung up on this girl.
These women advice threads are hilarious.
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Negan™
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 8, 2017 6:28:27 GMT -5
I hate to break it to you, but she was most likely seeing other guys during the time you took her out. More than likely, she was just using you for the dinner. That's how casual dating works. She doesn't owe you anything.You went on three dates,move on man. You sound completely hung up on this girl. These women advice threads are hilarious. Nah we dated three times in three consecutive days. So I doubt she was seeing anybody else. She might have been texting them though. And yet another guy that thinks I'm not owed an explanation. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say the people who say that are just like her. Try putting yourself in my shoes and maybe then you'll understand.
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Post by Thunder Chunky on Apr 8, 2017 10:10:52 GMT -5
I hate to break it to you, but she was most likely seeing other guys during the time you took her out. More than likely, she was just using you for the dinner. That's how casual dating works. She doesn't owe you anything.You went on three dates,move on man. You sound completely hung up on this girl. These women advice threads are hilarious. Nah we dated three times in three consecutive days. So I doubt she was seeing anybody else. She might have been texting them though. And yet another guy that thinks I'm not owed an explanation. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say the people who say that are just like her. Try putting yourself in my shoes and maybe then you'll understand. I have been in your shoes. It's called ghosting. Look it up.
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Post by Triple S: POOR on Apr 8, 2017 17:06:49 GMT -5
Even if it's not "ghosting", we've all been in your shoes. It's NICE to get closure and an explanation, but nobody is ever owed anything in these situations.
She was single, you weren't a couple. Nothing is owed.
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Post by @.@ Hempsterdance @.@ on Apr 8, 2017 17:31:15 GMT -5
Why do people feel this is the best place for girl advice?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2017 13:47:55 GMT -5
If you guys were married, living together, had kids or maybe even dated for years then she would owe you an explanation.
You hung out 3 days, you don't even know each other
The explanation is that you weren't her cup of tea. If your gonna keep dating people then honestly , do yourself a favor and understand your not gonna be everyones cup of tea brother
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Post by Alittlefloki on Apr 11, 2017 14:05:57 GMT -5
Bro, just find another girl on said dating site. If that fails, buy a hooker.
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Post by motleyspoisongun on Apr 11, 2017 14:08:31 GMT -5
I hate to break it to you, but she was most likely seeing other guys during the time you took her out. More than likely, she was just using you for the dinner. That's how casual dating works. She doesn't owe you anything.You went on three dates,move on man. You sound completely hung up on this girl. These women advice threads are hilarious. Nah we dated three times in three consecutive days. So I doubt she was seeing anybody else. She might have been texting them though. And yet another guy that thinks I'm not owed an explanation. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say the people who say that are just like her. Try putting yourself in my shoes and maybe then you'll understand. its was 3 days out of your entire life. you are making a huge deal about nothing. you sound like a stage 5 clinger to me so no wonder this girl dropped you. people date around, i highly doubt you were in an exclusive relationship after 3 days, maybe in your mixed up head you were but the reality of your situation is, you went out with a girl a couple times, you probably gave off a creepy vibe to her & her friends & she decided she didnt wanna mess with you anymore. it happens, its life, get over it. wanting an explanation after 3 days not only makes you look pathetic & it makes you look obsessive & if i were her, id block you every way possible whether it be my phone or social media & if i saw you in public, id go the other way but you'd probably run after her yelling her name...this all may sound harsh but its reality of how things go with women sometimes
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Post by Lorenzo Alcazar on Apr 11, 2017 14:16:45 GMT -5
Who really knows why people do what they do. But the fact that you didn't kiss her multiple times....probably thought you were too wishy-washy or not into her. Why would a dude not kiss a girl if he's into her, right?
No excuses, gotta play like champion.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 12, 2017 10:42:40 GMT -5
Nah we dated three times in three consecutive days. So I doubt she was seeing anybody else. She might have been texting them though. And yet another guy that thinks I'm not owed an explanation. I'm gonna take a wild guess and say the people who say that are just like her. Try putting yourself in my shoes and maybe then you'll understand. its was 3 days out of your entire life. you are making a huge deal about nothing. you sound like a stage 5 clinger to me so no wonder this girl dropped you. people date around, i highly doubt you were in an exclusive relationship after 3 days, maybe in your mixed up head you were but the reality of your situation is, you went out with a girl a couple times, you probably gave off a creepy vibe to her & her friends & she decided she didnt wanna mess with you anymore. it happens, its life, get over it. wanting an explanation after 3 days not only makes you look pathetic & it makes you look obsessive & if i were her, id block you every way possible whether it be my phone or social media & if i saw you in public, id go the other way but you'd probably run after her yelling her name...this all may sound harsh but its reality of how things go with women sometimes You are a ing clown. How about actually reading the thread before offering crap advice.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 12, 2017 10:47:21 GMT -5
If you guys were married, living together, had kids or maybe even dated for years then she would owe you an explanation. You hung out 3 days, you don't even know each other The explanation is that you weren't her cup of tea. If your gonna keep dating people then honestly , do yourself a favor and understand your not gonna be everyones cup of tea brother Yeah, no problem but why ask me out and dump me there? She met me THREE TIMES. She should know after the first time whether she was into me or not! Man, some people will do anything to defend bitches. I guess all guys are creepy and obsessive and deserve to be treated like crap and if we find a problem with it, we're "pathetic" or "obsessed" The truth is, I wasn't even super into the girl. I just found a massive problem with how she dumped me like that. That's all. A text would have been fine but apparently it makes me a creep that I was mad I had to walk out of the club ALONE at 11:55 and spend New Years Eve ALONE like a ing loser. Would I invite an ugly bitch out only to dump her and run off with my friends? no. And I bet if I posting this from her perspective, I would be called a dick for doing what she did. You can't win with some people. Just lock the thread. I wanted advice on what to do and stuff as I thought maybe some other dudes have shared a similar experience. But all I'm all getting is insulted by a bunch of 12 year olds.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 12, 2017 10:54:06 GMT -5
Who really knows why people do what they do. But the fact that you didn't kiss her multiple times....probably thought you were too wishy-washy or not into her. Why would a dude not kiss a girl if he's into her, right? No excuses, gotta play like champion. Probably. But maybe I was right to not be "too into her" The result would have probably been the same cause I'm convinced she was using me to buy her drinks. A friend of mine says she sees her out all the time with a different guy by her side. So yeah.
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Post by Lorenzo Alcazar on Apr 12, 2017 10:57:35 GMT -5
Who really knows why people do what they do. But the fact that you didn't kiss her multiple times....probably thought you were too wishy-washy or not into her. Why would a dude not kiss a girl if he's into her, right? No excuses, gotta play like champion. Probably. But maybe I was right to not be "too into her" The result would have probably been the same cause I'm convinced she was using me to buy her drinks. A friend of mine says she sees her out all the time with a different guy by her side. So yeah. True. Sometimes a hoe is a hoe and there's nothing you can do.
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Post by ET had AIDS on Apr 12, 2017 11:10:50 GMT -5
Advice: DON'T COME TO WF FOR GIRL ADVICE. I'll share my experience from a similar situation though. I wasn't hung-up because we were both in open-relationships and ing multiple people etc. at the time. I met a girl in 2010 or so, we were friends for like a yr. A year later we went on a dinner date, some fancy thing after going out for some drinks. Got really loaded and went back to my place and suddenly we hooked up. The next day I took her home and we acted like nothing happened. A day later, we went out shopping to some market that she had told me of, but she was pretty weird. Stand-offish. She also had tickets to go see a show with some guy she was sorta seeing at the time the following day and was to hang with him that weekend (it was a Thursday). I didn't end up seeing her until the following week, sometime later in the week at that. I had texted her once or twice, heard about the show and this kid she was seeing or ing or whatever, and then she came over one day and we hooked up again and from there it went really really fast. I had kind of pushed it before then, though, and when we had just been hanging out the day we went to the market I went right into "would you be interested in splitting rent/getting a place" mode. I was looking for a roommate and moving at that point in time, but asked out of nowhere and spooked the out of her I'm sure. After this other guy wasn't much or was a drag (as she later went on to describe--I guess he was just a buzzkill and had extreme OCD that bugged her out). Anyway, I persisted but did it from a distance. I let her play her thing out with that guy. Even when she did move in with me and we planned our move into our new place, we hadn't become monotonous yet. We were still technically open. About 2wks into that we closed the door. My advice is #1 don't come here for advice, and 2# the dating game is a TOTAL crapshoot and especially if you met her online or something. Had I not been friends with this person for about a yr prior and known about them enough to get to a point where there was mutual attraction and not just in fleeting moments, I probably would have given up after she went to that concert the Friday after the day we spent at the market. Like I said, I didn't even see her until the next week or weekend maybe and then we lived together for a long time until inevitably hitting the skids hard. Good luck and women suck.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2017 12:56:01 GMT -5
If you guys were married, living together, had kids or maybe even dated for years then she would owe you an explanation. You hung out 3 days, you don't even know each other The explanation is that you weren't her cup of tea. If your gonna keep dating people then honestly , do yourself a favor and understand your not gonna be everyones cup of tea brother Yeah, no problem but why ask me out and dump me there? She met me THREE TIMES. She should know after the first time whether she was into me or not! Man, some people will do anything to defend bitches. I guess all guys are creepy and obsessive and deserve to be treated like crap and if we find a problem with it, we're "pathetic" or "obsessed" The truth is, I wasn't even super into the girl. I just found a massive problem with how she dumped me like that. That's all. A text would have been fine but apparently it makes me a creep that I was mad I had to walk out of the club ALONE at 11:55 and spend New Years Eve ALONE like a ing loser. Would I invite an ugly bitch out only to dump her and run off with my friends? no. And I bet if I posting this from her perspective, I would be called a dick for doing what she did. You can't win with some people. Just lock the thread. I wanted advice on what to do and stuff as I thought maybe some other dudes have shared a similar experience. But all I'm all getting is insulted by a bunch of 12 year olds. You didn't have to leave the club and you didn't have to spend new years eve alone
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Thunder Chunky
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Post by Thunder Chunky on Apr 12, 2017 13:00:36 GMT -5
This is hilarious.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 12, 2017 13:52:04 GMT -5
Yeah, no problem but why ask me out and dump me there? She met me THREE TIMES. She should know after the first time whether she was into me or not! Man, some people will do anything to defend bitches. I guess all guys are creepy and obsessive and deserve to be treated like crap and if we find a problem with it, we're "pathetic" or "obsessed" The truth is, I wasn't even super into the girl. I just found a massive problem with how she dumped me like that. That's all. A text would have been fine but apparently it makes me a creep that I was mad I had to walk out of the club ALONE at 11:55 and spend New Years Eve ALONE like a ing loser. Would I invite an ugly bitch out only to dump her and run off with my friends? no. And I bet if I posting this from her perspective, I would be called a dick for doing what she did. You can't win with some people. Just lock the thread. I wanted advice on what to do and stuff as I thought maybe some other dudes have shared a similar experience. But all I'm all getting is insulted by a bunch of 12 year olds. You didn't have to leave the club and you didn't have to spend new years eve alone I wasn't gonna stay in the club alone. Would you?
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