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Post by Darkhawk on Apr 1, 2017 14:02:06 GMT -5
Dude if you see her every time you go to the store just talk to her for a bit and then when you're about to leave just say if it's cool if you can get her number and then there you go.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 1, 2017 21:11:57 GMT -5
Sometimes messages from people not in your friends list go to a filtered inbox. Something like requested messages or something. I've had old friends write.me back 6 months later wondering why they just got the message.
Don't sweat it. There's no harm in adding someone on facebook , just be cool about it
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Post by theMOESIAH on Apr 2, 2017 1:52:37 GMT -5
As someone who doesn't use FB, this whole thread is bizarre to me lol Why can't you just go ask her out in person? If she says no, so what, nothing changes. No one is gonna talk about you. No one gives a fig about you, and I mean that in the most benign way possible. I worked retail for years, I never gave any customer a second thought, cared even less about co-workers' lives. Walk up to the counter and say to her "Hey, what's up Suzie? Alrighty, I'll take a bottle of whiskey, 2 Slim Jims, a pack of Magnum condoms, and your phone number, babe." And if she acts all weird and offended, she's just playing hard to get. Lean in slowly closer over the counter and in your sweetest voice say "It's alright, maybe it didn't work out today, but I'll get you someday..." Then wink and walk away all smooth as hell. Best thing I've read all day!
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Post by Triple S: POOR on Apr 2, 2017 7:16:58 GMT -5
Oh, I'll be reading this later.
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Post by StylesClash on Apr 2, 2017 7:44:29 GMT -5
If it was me I would take a shot in person, I don't have a Facebook so I can't say what any of that stuff is like. If the object is to get her in real life, then I would talk to her in person. I wouldn't do it on Facebook.
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Post by jayrod2009 on Apr 2, 2017 7:56:42 GMT -5
As someone who doesn't use FB, this whole thread is bizarre to me lol Why can't you just go ask her out in person? If she says no, so what, nothing changes. No one is gonna talk about you. No one gives a fig about you, and I mean that in the most benign way possible. I worked retail for years, I never gave any customer a second thought, cared even less about co-workers' lives. Walk up to the counter and say to her "Hey, what's up Suzie? Alrighty, I'll take a bottle of whiskey, 2 Slim Jims, a pack of Magnum condoms, and your phone number, babe." And if she acts all weird and offended, she's just playing hard to get. Lean in slowly closer over the counter and in your sweetest voice say "It's alright, maybe it didn't work out today, but I'll get you someday..." Then wink and walk away all smooth as hell. Take me big boy!!!! Best advice yet.
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Post by Triple S: POOR on Apr 2, 2017 16:20:55 GMT -5
Are we just gonna ignore that homeboy straight Facebook stalked the poor girl...?
Meh. Oh well.
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Post by ET had AIDS on Apr 2, 2017 17:39:18 GMT -5
this kind of paranoia from social media has completely detached me from using it as a dating service. i did everything old school with the girl i'm currently seeing - i've seen her for a few months and i still haven't added her instagram or facebook. to me those things are simply for comforming the user into escaping their insecurities through being the same as everyone else. lol
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Post by theoutlaw1999 on Apr 3, 2017 16:52:23 GMT -5
Dude if you see her every time you go to the store just talk to her for a bit and then when you're about to leave just say if it's cool if you can get her number and then there you go. That's my goal but I want to be more friendly before I do so because it is her workplace and I don't want to make her feel awkward in it.
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Post by Henchmen4Hire on Apr 3, 2017 18:46:05 GMT -5
That's my goal but I want to be more friendly before I do so because it is her workplace and I don't want to make her feel awkward in it. How much more friendly do you have to be, short of sticking your tongue in her ear? lol If you don't ask her out I'm gonna do it, and then you're gonna be mad that we're enjoying her freaky ear fetishes without you.
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Post by Nivro™ on Apr 3, 2017 20:34:39 GMT -5
So its been a couple days, whats the deal? You got a date or a restraining order?
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Post by k5 on Apr 4, 2017 1:36:14 GMT -5
this kind of paranoia from social media has completely detached me from using it as a dating service. i did everything old school with the girl i'm currently seeing - i've seen her for a few months and i still haven't added her instagram or facebook. to me those things are simply for comforming the user into escaping their insecurities through being the same as everyone else. lol ? i think it's pretty easy to see the massive trends that a lot of social media encourages through likes and follows etc and that it can have a conforming effect. just look at all the girls with the dogface effect for their Instagram pics...i just choose not to be part of it the best i can and focus on other things. i miss the 90s
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Post by Triple S: POOR on Apr 4, 2017 7:52:42 GMT -5
For the record, after reading your responses... you have no intentions of being friends with this girl.
EDIT: Nevermind. I got the OP mixed up with the other creep with a similar situation in the replies. Haha
Still though. If she accepts this petty "friend request", I fully expect a thread soon about how your friend doesn't like you the way that you like her... and I look forward to it. See ya then.
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Post by Triple S: POOR on Apr 4, 2017 8:01:07 GMT -5
A day? Jesus Christ dude, give it time. This is so weird because I'm in a similar situation! I've seen this woman over the last few months who works weekends at my local Tesco and I think she's really cute but I've always been too shy to talk to bother. I'm just not bold enough to chat to a girl I like while she's at work, I'd feel too creepy. Well I recently found out her first name and used the information I had to find her on Facebook... well actually my friend did it for me when I told her about the girl and described what she looked like haha! Anyway, I sent her a friend request yesterday morning and am currently waiting to see what happens. She probably won't know who I am as my profile photo is a selfie of a t-shirt that I'm wearing, but doesn't show my face. She has hundreds of people on her Facebook though so I'm sure she's likely to accept my request. I'm hoping that she might message me asking if she knows me and then I can introduce myself to her and just say that I recognised her photo(I'm not going to tell her I ing looked her up!). I'd honestly just like to get to know her, even as a friend. I just really want her to know how beautiful I think she is... even if nothing ever comes out of it. Just knowing that I made her smile or feel appreciated would make my day. I know I would be so flattered if I found out that a girl I didn't even know, had a crush on me. You never know just how much you mean to someone. More curious to see how this one turned out. C'mon guys, UPDATES! While harmless, this is just creepy. Cute girls exist in the world. Doesn't mean you go Facebook stalk them and add them just to "tell them how beautiful they are". Jesus Christ dude, leave the girl alone.
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Post by Escape The Rules on Apr 4, 2017 10:21:22 GMT -5
A day? Jesus Christ dude, give it time. This is so weird because I'm in a similar situation! I've seen this woman over the last few months who works weekends at my local Tesco and I think she's really cute but I've always been too shy to talk to bother. I'm just not bold enough to chat to a girl I like while she's at work, I'd feel too creepy. Well I recently found out her first name and used the information I had to find her on Facebook... well actually my friend did it for me when I told her about the girl and described what she looked like haha! Anyway, I sent her a friend request yesterday morning and am currently waiting to see what happens. She probably won't know who I am as my profile photo is a selfie of a t-shirt that I'm wearing, but doesn't show my face. She has hundreds of people on her Facebook though so I'm sure she's likely to accept my request. I'm hoping that she might message me asking if she knows me and then I can introduce myself to her and just say that I recognised her photo(I'm not going to tell her I ing looked her up!). I'd honestly just like to get to know her, even as a friend. I just really want her to know how beautiful I think she is... even if nothing ever comes out of it. Just knowing that I made her smile or feel appreciated would make my day. I know I would be so flattered if I found out that a girl I didn't even know, had a crush on me. You never know just how much you mean to someone. More curious to see how this one turned out. C'mon guys, UPDATES! While harmless, this is just creepy. Cute girls exist in the world. Doesn't mean you go Facebook stalk them and add them just to "tell them how beautiful they are". Jesus Christ dude, leave the girl alone. Well she accepted my request the other day, messaged me and we've been talking, so you.
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Post by Triple S: POOR on Apr 4, 2017 12:08:51 GMT -5
The other day? You replied with your story 3 days ago. So you've been talking to the girl for maybe 2 days.
But hey, telling her how beautiful she is is you're goal... so this can't end bad. Right? 😂
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Post by Escape The Rules on Apr 4, 2017 13:54:57 GMT -5
The other day? You replied with your story 3 days ago. So you've been talking to the girl for maybe 2 days. But hey, telling her how beautiful she is is you're goal... so this can't end bad. Right? 😂 Yeah a couple of days, what's your point? She asked if she knew me, I told her that I recognised her as the cute girl that works in Tesco and said I hope she didn't mind that I added her. She said she didn't mind at all and found my message flattering, and then she looked at my photos and recognised me. We've been talking quite a lot on messenger and have exchanged phone numbers. So keep being condescending and keep on patronising me, my method worked and I've made a new friend out of it.
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Post by Darkhawk on Apr 4, 2017 19:15:19 GMT -5
The other day? You replied with your story 3 days ago. So you've been talking to the girl for maybe 2 days. But hey, telling her how beautiful she is is you're goal... so this can't end bad. Right? 😂 Yeah a couple of days, what's your point? She asked if she knew me, I told her that I recognised her as the cute girl that works in Tesco and said I hope she didn't mind that I added her. She said she didn't mind at all and found my message flattering, and then she looked at my photos and recognised me. We've been talking quite a lot on messenger and have exchanged phone numbers. So keep being condescending and keep on patronising me, my method worked and I've made a new friend out of it. Glad to hear you guys are talking man, now just make some plans to meet up on a date. Also whatever you do don't stop talking to her keep talking to her as much as you can.
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Post by BSR on Apr 5, 2017 0:28:31 GMT -5
This went exactly as the billions of others just like it.
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Post by @.@ Hempsterdance @.@ on Apr 5, 2017 11:35:53 GMT -5
Using social media to ask a girl out is a chump thing to do. Just do it in person and be a man.
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