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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2017 9:04:54 GMT -5
Lmao at some of the responses...we have been seeing each other for over a year. Isn't like my dick got hard and we had a one night stand and decided to let it do my thinking from then on.
And as far as finding another job in the field that I am currently in is laughable because the market is thin where I live.
But most of you already know the whole story. That's why some of you dumbasses respond with dumbass responses.
Maybe one day some of you guys will sacrifice something important to you for someone you love.
That is if you can get over yourselves first.
Stay Classy!
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Post by marino13 on Aug 16, 2017 16:30:34 GMT -5
Sometimes ya gotta do whatcha gotta do. Hope she's worth it and it all works out for ya.
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Post by Jonathan Karate on Aug 16, 2017 22:58:15 GMT -5
This girl must really mean a lot to you to quit your job for her! And secondly, that is a really stupid messed up policy that place has for dating within the work place. Have you never watched The Office?!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2017 10:47:09 GMT -5
Lmao at some of the responses...we have been seeing each other for over a year. Isn't like my dick got hard and we had a one night stand and decided to let it do my thinking from then on. And as far as finding another job in the field that I am currently in is laughable because the market is thin where I live. But most of you already know the whole story. That's why some of you dumbasses respond with dumbass responses. Maybe one day some of you guys will sacrifice something important to you for someone you love. That is if you can get over yourselves first. Stay Classy! lol okay still you're fault you made 2 bad choices 1 getting with her 2 losing you're job for her she wouldn't have done the same for you
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2017 10:50:49 GMT -5
Lmao at some of the responses...we have been seeing each other for over a year. Isn't like my dick got hard and we had a one night stand and decided to let it do my thinking from then on. And as far as finding another job in the field that I am currently in is laughable because the market is thin where I live. But most of you already know the whole story. That's why some of you dumbasses respond with dumbass responses. Maybe one day some of you guys will sacrifice something important to you for someone you love. That is if you can get over yourselves first. Stay Classy! lol okay still you're fault you made 2 bad choices 1 getting with her 2 losing you're job for her she wouldn't have done the same for you How do you know that? She was the one who was going to get fired. Not me. And the choices I made weren't bad. She is the best thing to happen to me in a long time. I love when people assume things they don't fully understand.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2017 11:30:32 GMT -5
lol okay still you're fault you made 2 bad choices 1 getting with her 2 losing you're job for her she wouldn't have done the same for you How do you know that? She was the one who was going to get fired. Not me. And the choices I made weren't bad. She is the best thing to happen to me in a long time. I love when people assume things they don't fully understand. you've been seeing her a years your still in lust stage of the relationship and if you lost you income she best thing that happened to you
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2017 12:45:47 GMT -5
How do you know that? She was the one who was going to get fired. Not me. And the choices I made weren't bad. She is the best thing to happen to me in a long time. I love when people assume things they don't fully understand. you've been seeing her a years your still in lust stage of the relationship and if you lost you income she best thing that happened to you What I gathered from that horribly structured sentence is that you are still assuming things.
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Post by Mr Angry Cena on Aug 17, 2017 13:04:59 GMT -5
How do you know that? She was the one who was going to get fired. Not me. And the choices I made weren't bad. She is the best thing to happen to me in a long time. I love when people assume things they don't fully understand. you've been seeing her a years your still in lust stage of the relationship and if you lost you income she best thing that happened to you
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Post by Deleted on Aug 17, 2017 13:18:23 GMT -5
you've been seeing her a years your still in lust stage of the relationship and if you lost you income she best thing that happened to you What I gathered from that horribly structured sentence is that you are still assuming things. I'm not good at putting sentences together because i have dyslexia but at least I'm still not stupid enough to give up my income over lust that's just stupid
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Post by sisterabigail on Aug 21, 2017 21:39:16 GMT -5
It's a very common rule at most businesses.
You should of tried to transfer or ask to sign a waiver on the relationship.
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Post by PJ on Aug 22, 2017 6:46:01 GMT -5
Why couldn't one of you ask to be transferred to another PetSmart?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2017 7:53:32 GMT -5
Why couldn't one of you ask to be transferred to another PetSmart? No open positions near me and I am not driving 2 hours to and from work everyday. Trust me. I have done everything I can.
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Post by vampiroporvida on Aug 22, 2017 12:38:44 GMT -5
You got guts and followed your heart and let the job go by the wayside for it. Courageous. Cheers to you.
VPV
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Post by Codyverse: Tag Team Champion on Aug 23, 2017 22:28:10 GMT -5
My fiancé and I both made sacrifices to be together. She gave up her job to be able to travel with me. We've been together about a year.
So from where I sit.... Cosmo, do yo thang cuz
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Post by BØRNS on Aug 26, 2017 20:31:09 GMT -5
Hopefully she'll still be interested once you're gone. Something like that happened to me and it didn't go well.
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Post by bizzclizz4life on Aug 26, 2017 21:33:32 GMT -5
Wow, some of these responses. Some of y'all are horrible people and you hide behind the anonymity of the internet to say some stupid crap. The fact is he did what he thought was in the best interest of himself and his gf. Some of you don't have anyone that would give up a ham sandwich for you, much less a job. Stop being bitter dicks and support the guy who is having a tough time.
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Post by specterkev on Aug 26, 2017 22:18:28 GMT -5
whata crappy policy.. I mean really...why?
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Post by BrIaNMeRcY on Aug 27, 2017 19:10:34 GMT -5
I had to re-read the original post twice to get the gist of it. Personally, you should find another interest. Being a one-trick pony won't get you far in life. As it pertains to the relationship, this is why it best to keep things very and I mean very private. Given how I work with a lot of women, I am glad most already have kids and are in a relationship. Do your best to figure out your next move. Trust your heart and follow it.
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Post by bababooey on Aug 28, 2017 14:45:31 GMT -5
These policies are always weird to me. A lot of places have them, yet a lot of couples seem to start off as coworkers. I worked at a job where it was really weird because we had that policy, but it was only enforced for certain people. The owners were married (and always fighting), two other employees were married, two of my managers were dating (at a point I lost count of how many managers I had at the same time and they were all giving me contradicting orders).
Anyway, a group of us from work started hanging out on Fridays and it gotta weird really quick since I had some HR duties.
First, one day my managers brought me into an office and tried to convince me that the only reason my friends were hanging out with me was so they could get me to give up confidential information. I never gave up anything and my friends never asked or expected me to give info.
Then, shortly after we started hanging out, we noticed two of the people in our group seemed extra close. Eventually they admitted they were dating and asked if they should bring it up to management. I told them "It's none of their business. Keep it private."
I've since left the company and don't know if management ever found out but I do know the girl was let go due to "budget cuts." My guess is management found out and was looking for a non confrontational excuse to let go of one of them.
Personally, I feel that if it's a company policy that is enforced, both people should be let go. I don't like the policy, but only letting go of one can create a weird tension in a relationship.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 29, 2017 10:18:40 GMT -5
Hopefully she'll still be interested once you're gone. Something like that happened to me and it didn't go well. we live together. So I hope you're right.
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