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Jan 25, 2013 12:19:40 GMT -5
Post by Ben - #6 Munchie on Jan 25, 2013 12:19:40 GMT -5
I'm sorry, I don't buy the notion that children are incapable of love. Love is a multifaceted thing, and I think you, and many others, are getting lost in the translation between romantic love and love. One can develop into another, and vice versa. And what kind of love do you think this guy is talking about? He isn't talking about the love a child has for their mom or sibling. He's talking about dating her and everything that goes with "romantic" love. 14 year olds are not emotionally or intellectually capable of dealing with that. If they were, nobody would have a problem with a 40 year old dating a 14 year old.Yeah, that's the reason why...
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Jan 25, 2013 12:44:05 GMT -5
Post by Yeezy's Mullet: Team X Blades on Jan 25, 2013 12:44:05 GMT -5
I believe that young teens are capable of loving one another romantically. But only inasmuch as a 14 year old can love another 14 year old. It's not uncommon to know what love feels like at that age. To want to be around that person. To want to do things for them and make them happy. To have that feeling that you'd give up things to be with that person.
I think you can feel that at 14 because I did. It's just that having those feelings at 14 and having them at 24 are two completely different things.
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Jan 27, 2013 17:06:34 GMT -5
Post by Darkhawk on Jan 27, 2013 17:06:34 GMT -5
Girls want guys who are confident. You should talk to her and keep looking at her eyes and just keep looking she should then defiantly feel something then. And just be like "[her name] I can see your heart inside your chest and I know it's broken and I know you're filled with sadness and I know you're filled with rage right now, but that's really no way to solve any of your problems." idk something like that. And for guys you should read this book "The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artist' (:
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Jan 28, 2013 16:14:56 GMT -5
Post by GreyHaze:Big Bad Booty Daddy on Jan 28, 2013 16:14:56 GMT -5
If she's not going to get over him then you should move on. You could still comfort her and whatnot but don't get too close. Try to talk to other girls. If you keep focusing solely on her and it turns out she doesn't like you, it'll hurt more than having more girls to fall onto. That's why you shouldn't lay all your eggs in one basket I learned that the hard way Good luck man!
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Jan 28, 2013 19:35:54 GMT -5
Post by jayrod2009 on Jan 28, 2013 19:35:54 GMT -5
I can tell you this. Im 24, with 2 kids. I thought I knew what love is. Its not called child support. My X was beat by her mom and dad. She was raped , just a terrible childhood. I felt bad for her. What i grew for hee was what I thought was love. Now I know it was pity. Nothing, other than two beautiful children, came out of that relationship but hate. A girl thats abused, only knows abuse. She may know love. But when it comes down to it. She may not respond to love u til shes older. You would be better off wnjoying your youth. Maybe find someone that you can really feel for. Someone that doesn't ( sorry) have a ed up past.
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Jan 28, 2013 20:28:08 GMT -5
Post by alwayssunny on Jan 28, 2013 20:28:08 GMT -5
You are 14 years old, dont waste your time on girls just yet. Anyway, girls are expensive, do you want to spend 500 bucks a present for her every "holiday"?
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Jan 28, 2013 21:37:24 GMT -5
Post by Nivro™ on Jan 28, 2013 21:37:24 GMT -5
Love.......is a burning thing. That only, penicillin can clean.
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Jan 28, 2013 21:44:54 GMT -5
Post by thehardys4life on Jan 28, 2013 21:44:54 GMT -5
So let me get this straight... She can't get over another guy. You can't get over her....? You got yourself a predicament there.
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