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Post by Deleted on Feb 16, 2014 16:04:43 GMT -5
But, maybe you won't and maybe this girl is the mythical "one" for you. From now on, I'm calling my wife a unicorn.
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Post by Yeezy's Mullet: Team X Blades on Feb 16, 2014 16:17:03 GMT -5
You're in a tough spot man. I mean, the things she's doing definitely raises some flags. But I'm not gonna tell you to bail because I believe that everyone deserves an opportunity to prove themselves trustworthy. Weather it be friends, co-workers, boy or girlfriends. And from your updates it seems that you've given her that opportunity. All I'm gonna say is that you've been in a long relationship before, so you know what it takes to make one last. Hopefully, you know what a healthy relationship looks like as well. As said above, only you can make the right decision when it comes to your feelings. You gotta be right with how you feel and you gotta be right your relationship as well.
Now that all of my Danny Tanner advice has been given, this is the part where I gotta advise you to not be stupid. You need to be sure that she's not secretly clinging to her ex. I know that she's given you "explanations" to all of the things that you've questioned her on, and I commend you for being a man and just asking her. But DO NOT let that behavior be forgotten. I'm not saying you should hold on to it and nail her to the wall any chance you get. I'm saying that the fact that she "explained" them doesn't make them any less shady. Actions like those are usually excused by simply giving a reason at that time, BEFORE they have to be explained via prying from the other party. Again, I can't say she's a liar but I am only going by what you've told us. Don't be stupid, stay on your toes. At the same time, enjoy your relationship for what it is and make sure you're happy.
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