#SHOWOFF
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Post by #SHOWOFF on Jun 13, 2014 22:55:27 GMT -5
So I don't mean to clog up the forums with my crying but I wanted to share this. In august, I'll be moving in with my girlfriend finally! She's ok with my figures, but finally having my own place where I would like to have get togethers and family over from both sides, I felt a bit embarrassed to have too many figures displayed. I decided to cut down big time and may leave the ones I keep in a box. I can still afford to collect, but now that I have a bunch of new bills, I think I'm going to semi-retire. I know that there will be the occasional figure that I absolutely must have so I'm not going to claim that I'm 100% done.
I admire and envy some of you guys that have your man caves filled with figures and collectibles.
So my question is, have any of you had to adjust your hobby or take a break because of similar situations? Or have you been asked to and refused to change? Have any of you made the claim to retire and realized it was impossible?
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Post by The Outsider on Jun 13, 2014 23:01:55 GMT -5
Yeah, I've "retired" a couple times, but like Pacino says: "Every time I think I'm out, they pull me BACK IN!"
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tedwaynegein
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Post by tedwaynegein on Jun 13, 2014 23:03:03 GMT -5
I was in a serious relationship once and decided to sell off a bunch of my figures and retire. Well me and her didn't work out and I really regret it. I now own my own house and pay all the bills myself and have a display room in my man cave in the basement and continue to collect because it's the only thing I truly love. Don't care what ppl think.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 13, 2014 23:11:20 GMT -5
Nope, I married my wife and moved in with her last summer and if anything my collection is better than it was before. She even helps me out and buys me a few things as surprises. She just bought be an Arkham Asylum Zsasz for my birthday in May and I have been hunting for it for over a year.
As far as embarrassment goes though, I couldn't be farther from it. If anything, when people come over and ask what my hobbies are, I immediately take them up stairs and show them my collection room. All of my closest friends understand it and fully support my hobby. If people can't support it and find it weird or a waste of time and money, then I don't need to worry about their opinions.
So, bottom line is that, you shouldn't feel embarrassed about your hobbies. People who care about you will accept you for who you are
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Post by jayrod2009 on Jun 13, 2014 23:15:12 GMT -5
I fully retired in January and sold off my near complete Elite/Legends collection.
I now buy who I REALLY like. This year I have bought WMXXX HBK/Bret Hart. I Pre Ordered Legion of Doom and Lex Lugar. But I know, the minute a Hogan is released, I will go back and buy every late 80's early 90's WWF figures.
My new hobby is now exclusively 1/6 scale Sideshow/Hot Toys figures as well as DC's Designer Series Batman figures. I also have the rest of a 2014 MOtU subscription to get through, then I will finally wash my hands of that line, and pick who I want from the next 2 years.
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Post by PJ on Jun 14, 2014 4:25:04 GMT -5
I thought the question was going to be had any of us moved in with your girlfriend. And the answer to that was no. But seriously while I kept plenty of my old childhood toys I did give plenty including all my LJN, Remco and Hasbro figures to my cousins before I got married. I really didn't go crazy with collecting until after I was married. My collecting really started on our honeymoon when I got the BTAS Batman figure in a McDonald's kids meal. Then when we got home I decided I had to have Playmates Star Trek TOS Bridge playest and Hasbro's Batman TAS. And it hasn't stopped since. lol Outside of a couple BCA figures (Bret Hart, blue trunks Warrior and SS Triple H) I didn't even start my WWE collecting until I saw the "House of Pain" series Triple H.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2014 4:45:15 GMT -5
I thought the question was going to be had any of us moved in with your girlfriend. And the answer to that was no. Speak for yourself. Anyway, to answer the question, if you've made it into adulthood as a collector, you've stopped at least once. We all do it. Life changes and you have to change with it. Most of us end up coming back, but some of us don't. As far as the embarassment thing, I don't think that should dictate your collection at all. I mean, I'm not you so I can't say what's important to you, but in my experience, flaunt what you like and you'll be surprised by the support you get. (Unless you're in high school; then you're screwed.)
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Deep Shadows
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Post by Deep Shadows on Jun 14, 2014 6:47:53 GMT -5
I understand where you're coming from. I know that not everyone is comfortable being an adult and collecting toys. I think it wasn't until I was around 25 that I finally become comfortable with it. I turn 28 in December. Now I go to hobby stores looking for things and if any worker ever asks what I need certain items for I don't hesitate to tell them. However, I think your main issue is that you don't want people coming into your home and judging you. But you have remember that it's your home and you should feel comfortable displaying things you like and enjoy. Many action figures, especially the one's aimed at collectors, are just as acceptable to display as a painting or sculpture... and not at all different than showing off your DVD/Blu-ray collection. I do respect your thinking when it comes to being mindful of your spending on your hobby though. That's just something you have to do when you're a responsible adult. Also, if you're worried about space, I would say to invest in something like what's pictured below to store your figures. I've had one for about two years and it makes a big difference!
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alquelude
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Post by alquelude on Jun 14, 2014 8:26:26 GMT -5
I have ine of thise for my mattels.. Legends in bottom drawer, current guys in middle drwer, and divas, basics, mangers/commentators, and accessories in the top drawer... But now its full and i have to buy another one
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ellisd
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Post by ellisd on Jun 14, 2014 12:01:12 GMT -5
I've never really stopped collecting. Around the time that I was hitting Jr High and High School, when everyone else had quit playing with their figures, I didnt. Granted by that time the only playing that I still did was wrestling, I slowly got out of playing with my GI Joes, Turtles, X-Men, etc...but not wrestling. After I graduated, i still got them out and had a few matches each week because it was fun. I played with BCAs and later Deluxe Aggression, but collected TTL and RAs, as I liked the look but didnt enjoy playing with those lines.
When Mattel took over, I slowed down my collecting. It was hard to make the switch after investing so much into my Jakks collection, and honestly I wasn't blown away by the first few Mattels. So I would buy people that we didnt get Jakks of and a few others here and there. But as Mattel kept putting them out they won me over and I regularly collect again.
So I think that I kept playing with them for so long it kept me into collecting. My wife doesn't mind my figures, as long as I don't go crazy with buying everything and as long as we get the bills paid. She's even started collecting the Diva figures.
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Post by Yambag Jones on Jun 14, 2014 12:11:04 GMT -5
My wife is rad enough to let me have an entire spare bedroom to put my stuff in. Right now I'll grab an occasional Basic or Elite, but I stopped buying updated versions. Most of my extra income now goes to movies, comics, and Side Show statues.
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Thebigdog621
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Post by Thebigdog621 on Jun 14, 2014 12:21:51 GMT -5
I started to collect when my now fiancée was still my gf and I was very nervous to tell her I was collecting wrestling figures. I finally broke the ice to her one day by showing her the 30 or so figs I had amassed at that point and she was really accepting and got right into the collecting with me. She bought me all of E26 for Christmas and is constantly telling me about figs she sees on eBay. We just moved in together and she helped me display my figures the way they should be displayed (which I should probably post on here at some point). I would say don't give up on your hobby. You'll regret it in the end.
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Post by fallbrawl on Jun 14, 2014 14:11:52 GMT -5
I stopped collecting when i got to high school. I even sold off my first collection to pay for high school football summer camp.
I Have since got back into collecting and i show no signs of stopping anytime soon. If someone does not like my collection then they don't like me.
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JFlagg
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Post by JFlagg on Jun 14, 2014 17:22:01 GMT -5
I have been concerned alot of how they would think, One day I actually texted a whole bunch of my friends who are girls and asked them how they felt about a collector or wrestling fan. Some said they wouldn't really care and others like or dislike. I mean, they should really respect every thing about you and like you for you. There will be the haters and the lovers
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Post by qdogg on Jun 14, 2014 17:35:26 GMT -5
Dont call them toys or figures, call them "little treasures" Sounds better that way.
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Post by BROKEN on Jun 14, 2014 17:39:52 GMT -5
I stopped collecting when. Mattel started, joined back in 2013 and have about 250
In 2010-11 I liked the ecw toy belts so I bought those and I remember seeing elite 4-8 and stuff
Stupid me
Didn't think they would be so rare
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2014 20:06:19 GMT -5
Dont call them toys or figures, call them "little treasures" Sounds better that way. What about "posable models based on sports entertainment characters."
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Post by Nivro™ on Jun 14, 2014 20:23:49 GMT -5
Nope!
If my friends or family dont like my figures then the door that brought them into MY place can take their asses right back out. As for the bills, I always budget my bills & savings before buying figures so I never get into any tight situations. Thats just common sense.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 14, 2014 20:26:19 GMT -5
If people don't like my figures, then I don't want them in my life lol.
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evilways811
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Post by evilways811 on Jun 14, 2014 20:34:42 GMT -5
My wife doesn't mind my hobby, in fact she helped me set up my "man cave", so she's cool as long as bills and priorities are taken care off and toys don't spill out into other parts of the house.
I've never had to hide in shame, it's the complete opposite, when friends and family come over they wanna see the room and hang out.
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