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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2015 20:19:03 GMT -5
So high school just started up for me on Tuesday. And there's this girl who I've had a major crush on since 4th grade. And her locker is the one directly beside mine. Now you see, I'm not very talkative nor very popular in school. Considering I have like 4 friends. I would ask them for advice, but I think I'd get embarresed. So, to any of the older members out there, any advice? I'm just stuck on where to go.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2015 20:30:50 GMT -5
You should ask her out.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2015 20:37:41 GMT -5
Go for it. If she turns you down, trust me their are MANY others you can out
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Post by Nivro™ on Aug 27, 2015 20:43:28 GMT -5
The worse she can say is no. Women are like sand on the beach, they're everywhere.
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Post by Valbroski on Aug 27, 2015 20:45:12 GMT -5
You just started high school, it isn't going to be the end of the world if she says no.
In fact, statistically speaking, even if she does say yes you two won't last.
See, don't you feel better now?
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Post by Brad on Aug 27, 2015 21:12:06 GMT -5
Let me get this out of the way....
RKO her.
Seriously...just talk to her, man.
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Post by ricflair4ever on Aug 27, 2015 22:00:37 GMT -5
Talk to her....just do it dude. Once you get through that first bit of nerves talking to a girl, it gets easier to do as you go.....and trust me....you'll want to talk to MANY more. And,as time goes on, you'll find that after they talk back to you......you'll wanna take Brads first bit of advice above this post.....and just RKO them.
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Post by Joel on Aug 27, 2015 23:31:28 GMT -5
I forgot school is starting so we are going to get a bunch of threads on this. I really want to help you out man, not to brag but I was pretty successful talking to girls during high school. I know you said you known her since the 4th grade but I want to ask is do you have her number? Do you guys talk already? Do you know any of her hobby's? If the answer to any of those questions is yes then work your way up by saying " this movie (insert movie title) is coming out this weekend are you down to maybe go catch it. If she says no, it's ok it's not the end of the world bro, simple respond by saying "ok maybe another time".
Now if you don't really talk to her bro next time you see her simply start off by asking how her summer went, what does her class schedule look like, let her know she looks nice, etc. You can't automatically ask her out man, you gotta let her be interested first. You have to spark up and hold up a conversations man, little by little work up the courage asking for her number. If your shy you have to break out of that shell and only way is by being yourself by not being afraid. Rejection sucks but it's not the end of the world I promise you that. Good luck man, PM me if you have questions.
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Post by screech on Aug 27, 2015 23:57:43 GMT -5
Honestly, if deep down you know you're out of her league and don't have a chance with her, then don't even bother. The way you describe yourself sounds a little shy and possibly an outcast. I'm not judging you but high school is absolutely filled with superficial people and you could have major social repercussions if your attempt to talk to this girl fails and the wrong person finds out about it. This of course depends on the type of girl we are talking about here but almost all teenage girls are superficial in one way or another. If she seems cool and like someone you'd share interests with then go for it. If you have nothing in common with her and deep down know she won't be into you, then seriously don't even bother. If you feel awkward around people already then you surely will feel awkward once you get rejected and feel like other people are talking about it. Either way, there's nothing wrong with being friendly though and you need to break out of your shell anyways because not being very talkative isn't attractive to most people.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2015 1:27:54 GMT -5
Diamond Cutter her.
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Post by UltimateCollector78 on Aug 28, 2015 2:08:35 GMT -5
Whatever you do do not, I repeat do not tell her you are in to figure collecting. Actually keep the fact that your a wrestling fan completely in the closet.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2015 2:35:11 GMT -5
Whatever you do do not, I repeat do not tell her you are in to figure collecting. Actually keep the fact that your a wrestling fan completely in the closet. Hiding stuff doesn't seem like the best way to start a relationship.
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Post by Ben - #6 Munchie on Aug 28, 2015 4:50:09 GMT -5
Whatever you do do not, I repeat do not tell her you are in to figure collecting. Actually keep the fact that your a wrestling fan completely in the closet. Hiding stuff doesn't seem like the best way to start a relationship. Oh so it's fine to not hide your figures, but when I don't hide my penis I'm apparently a sicko!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2015 6:25:04 GMT -5
Anyways just tell her like Valbroski said it probably isn't going to last forever if she says yes anyways
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Post by The Kevstaaa on Aug 28, 2015 7:17:28 GMT -5
You just started high school, it isn't going to be the end of the world if she says no. In fact, statistically speaking, even if she does say yes you two won't last. See, don't you feel better now? Just started high school? He should be like, what, 14? I'm sure they'll last, you see a lot by that age. "Forget it! Te worst person you can date is one of your good friends because if you break up then you lose your friendship.. I'm 13 so I see this a lot"
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2015 7:27:29 GMT -5
Ace Crusher her.
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Post by 0,Y on Aug 28, 2015 8:03:40 GMT -5
You're still young but don't waste your youth by not taking little risks like talking to her and eventually asking her out. 14-20 is one of the best ages you can be in so enjoy it.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2015 8:50:13 GMT -5
Hiding stuff doesn't seem like the best way to start a relationship. Oh so it's fine to not hide your figures, but when I don't hide my penis I'm apparently a sicko! Ha! Ha! Fell of my chair
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Post by JC Motors on Aug 28, 2015 9:36:58 GMT -5
Just be brave asking her out. It's not the end of the world
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Post by marino13 on Aug 28, 2015 11:30:25 GMT -5
Start with small talk and see how she responds. If she is flirtatious you know you have a shot. If she's cold and short, you know not to bother.
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