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Post by Deleted on Apr 19, 2016 19:05:57 GMT -5
My grandfather. He's done a lot of really bad things. Nobody in my family has seen him since 2004 or heard from him since then. Nobody plans on seeing him again. He moved to the Unted States, alone. Nobody even knows where in the US that he moved to. Not that we care.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 19, 2016 19:11:02 GMT -5
Oh boy! Yep. My entire family. I use to think there was something wrong while growing up if my father didn't beat me everyday. He broke my front teeth by smashing my head against a wall. Cracked my skull open and broke my arm. He then pulled a gun on me because I didn't pull all the weeds to his liking. I left never went back. I was taken away by CPS 2 times, and he made me lie to lawyers, saying I got hurt by playing football with older boys. My sister is very self entitled. My parents bought her a car on her sweet 16 (I was 2 years older and had no car.) She turned into a slut, and started doing heroin. She has a husband that she will not divorce (he wants one) even though she lives in another state and had a baby with another man. She tells people she is messed up because of the abuse she endured growing up, but she switches herself and me. Basically saying all the stories that happened to me actually happened to her. She was never ever abused, she was given everything and had no boundaries. That is why she's messed up. She has stolen my wife's ring her deceased grandmother gave her. She has stolen both my parents wedding rings and all of the rest of the valuables. She sends people on facebook messages asking them to send stuff to me, because I don't talk to her, trying to look like a victim. I was raised by "the village" friends parents took me in. Gave me a safe place to stay, food, and taught me how to love. I call these people Mom, and Dad. I have a beautiful wife and 2 amazing children now. Make 134k a year for me and my wife makes 200k. It could of ended up so wrong for me. So many people wrote me off, based on the lies my parents told about me. But here I proudly stand, above them all. Good for you man! Awesome that you were able to stand above all of those awful people!
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Post by Kollector_Kombat on Apr 20, 2016 0:33:34 GMT -5
Jeez guys, glad to see I'm not alone in all this. Glad all you guys can understand what I've been going through.
Sorry that everyone else has to deal with stupid stuff their family members do too. Stay strong everybody, thanks for all the replys. They really made me feel better. You guys are dope.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2016 7:20:02 GMT -5
I have about a dozen or so relatives on my father's side who are all contemptible human beings, selfish people that i honestly i wasn't related to. They shun me, ignore me, cast me asunder like i'm garbage, and they love to live in their own little worlds and they could not care any less about me. It hurts because i actually wanted some bond with them on some level but i guess it was just too much to hope for. Despite them being related to me on my father's side, there is no ties that bind me to them, and if i died tomorrow i swear they would not care. They might want a piece of my wealth, though. Oh, how i wish this wasn't the case but it is. I am discarded by them and so life moves on. Kollector, hang in there, man. You'll find your own way in life where your sister cannot follow. Take care.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 21, 2016 7:38:37 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that about your sister bro
Overall, most everyone in my family are pretty good people so I lucked out with that.
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Post by John1234 on Apr 21, 2016 16:15:03 GMT -5
Very surprised to see these stories from other members, I love everyone in my family and always will
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Post by Kollector_Kombat on Apr 21, 2016 16:45:32 GMT -5
Very surprised to see these stories from other members, I love everyone in my family and always will That's good to hear, you and Swagsuke are very fortunate to have been surrounded by good/loving family. And I love most of my family unconditionally, some of them are just harder to love and don't feel the same about us. It's life though.
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Post by John1234 on Apr 21, 2016 16:47:33 GMT -5
Very surprised to see these stories from other members, I love everyone in my family and always will That's good to hear, you and Swagsuke are very fortunate to have been surrounded by good/loving family. And I love most of my family unconditionally, some of them are just harder to love and don't feel the same about us. It's life though. I hope you and all of your family make up someday
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Post by Kollector_Kombat on Apr 21, 2016 16:48:55 GMT -5
That's good to hear, you and Swagsuke are very fortunate to have been surrounded by good/loving family. And I love most of my family unconditionally, some of them are just harder to love and don't feel the same about us. It's life though. I hope you and all of your family make up someday Me too brotha, thanks for the support.
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Post by Halloween King on Apr 22, 2016 0:42:08 GMT -5
Lots of people.
My Sister, she is only your friend when it is convenient to her, she only calls my mom on weekdays when she knows a visit is not possible. She only talks to me when she wants something. I lost trust in my sister when I was very young, I would see the random outbursts she would have towards my father, I would listen to her out right lies and I would wonder if she was insane.
My sister in law. My sister in law is with out a doubt the biggest turd I know. When my brother first brought her over to the house to meet I remember her telling him that we were like vultures because, I guess, we were staring at her too much? She immediately alienated the family at a party by getting drunk, picking a fight with my aunt, and then belittling my brother in front of the family. She said she made more money than him and he had no ability to buy nice things for her. She quit her job as soon as they moved in together. I'll have chats with my brother, I'll ask him if he plans on going to six flags. Right away she buts in and says Six Flags is dumb and only losers go. Then she gets pissed that I didnt take her son with me when I go. I remember I asked my brother a question about facebook, she said fb was for losers and no lifes who had time to spare on stupid facebook, a month later she's on fb. She'll be sitting on the couch and my brother will want to sit next to her but she will not allow him to sit because it's the dog's spot. He'll come home from work and he has to cook her dinner, she's unemployed. She's driven him to literally file for bankruptcy because she has no concept of money management, and he's to dumb to say no. She's 7 years older than him so sometimes I feel that comes into play. Worse of all she was pregnant and told to get plenty of rest due to complications, she ignored that and went shopping on black friday, got into a fight with someone, and lost the baby. She's just an all around piece of shit, who I wish would just go away.
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Post by R.A. The Rugged Man on Apr 22, 2016 0:48:22 GMT -5
My grandfather. He's done a lot of really bad things. Nobody in my family has seen him since 2004 or heard from him since then. Nobody plans on seeing him again. He moved to the Unted States, alone. Nobody even knows where in the US that he moved to. Not that we care. That sounds ominous what kind of bad things?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 25, 2016 13:19:55 GMT -5
Apparently I'm the PoS in my family.
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Post by John1234 on Apr 25, 2016 16:02:15 GMT -5
Lots of people. My Sister, she is only your friend when it is convenient to her, she only calls my mom on weekdays when she knows a visit is not possible. She only talks to me when she wants something. I lost trust in my sister when I was very young, I would see the random outbursts she would have towards my father, I would listen to her out right lies and I would wonder if she was insane. My sister in law. My sister in law is with out a doubt the biggest turd I know. When my brother first brought her over to the house to meet I remember her telling him that we were like vultures because, I guess, we were staring at her too much? She immediately alienated the family at a party by getting drunk, picking a fight with my aunt, and then belittling my brother in front of the family. She said she made more money than him and he had no ability to buy nice things for her. She quit her job as soon as they moved in together. I'll have chats with my brother, I'll ask him if he plans on going to six flags. Right away she buts in and says Six Flags is dumb and only losers go. Then she gets pissed that I didnt take her son with me when I go. I remember I asked my brother a question about facebook, she said fb was for losers and no lifes who had time to spare on stupid facebook, a month later she's on fb. She'll be sitting on the couch and my brother will want to sit next to her but she will not allow him to sit because it's the dog's spot. He'll come home from work and he has to cook her dinner, she's unemployed. She's driven him to literally file for bankruptcy because she has no concept of money management, and he's to dumb to say no. She's 7 years older than him so sometimes I feel that comes into play. Worse of all she was pregnant and told to get plenty of rest due to complications, she ignored that and went shopping on black friday, got into a fight with someone, and lost the baby. She's just an all around piece of crap, who I wish would just go away. That sounds pretty bad, what does your brother think about the situation?
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Post by Halloween King on Apr 26, 2016 2:04:10 GMT -5
Lots of people. My Sister, she is only your friend when it is convenient to her, she only calls my mom on weekdays when she knows a visit is not possible. She only talks to me when she wants something. I lost trust in my sister when I was very young, I would see the random outbursts she would have towards my father, I would listen to her out right lies and I would wonder if she was insane. My sister in law. My sister in law is with out a doubt the biggest turd I know. When my brother first brought her over to the house to meet I remember her telling him that we were like vultures because, I guess, we were staring at her too much? She immediately alienated the family at a party by getting drunk, picking a fight with my aunt, and then belittling my brother in front of the family. She said she made more money than him and he had no ability to buy nice things for her. She quit her job as soon as they moved in together. I'll have chats with my brother, I'll ask him if he plans on going to six flags. Right away she buts in and says Six Flags is dumb and only losers go. Then she gets pissed that I didnt take her son with me when I go. I remember I asked my brother a question about facebook, she said fb was for losers and no lifes who had time to spare on stupid facebook, a month later she's on fb. She'll be sitting on the couch and my brother will want to sit next to her but she will not allow him to sit because it's the dog's spot. He'll come home from work and he has to cook her dinner, she's unemployed. She's driven him to literally file for bankruptcy because she has no concept of money management, and he's to dumb to say no. She's 7 years older than him so sometimes I feel that comes into play. Worse of all she was pregnant and told to get plenty of rest due to complications, she ignored that and went shopping on black friday, got into a fight with someone, and lost the baby. She's just an all around piece of crap, who I wish would just go away. That sounds pretty bad, what does your brother think about the situation? I havnt talked to my brother since my son was born, almost 2 years now. Both of our wives were pregnant at the same time. His third son was born a week before my first son. The day his boy was born my mother told me, I offered to give my mother a ride to the hospital. We went, we saw the baby, we saw my fat cow of a sister in law, we saw my brother, I congratulated them, then I left. A week later my boy was born. My wife was going to have labor induced, the labor took 3 days. Once my son was born we had to stay in the hospital for another 5 days. That was a little over 8 days that we were in the hospital, 8 days in which my brother never went to go see my first son, 8 days in which not even a phone call. I told my father, "I was a man and I went to go see his new born son and in return he couldnt even give me a call". My father told me that my brother's defense was that I never called him to tell him, to which I replied that no one called me either my mother told me as she told him. I've given up on my brother. He wants to live with that piece of garbage fine, she's the mother of his children so if he wants to give his kids a happy home, I'm fine with that. But im done trying to talk to him, if he ever wants to be a man and talk to his brother and meet his nephew im here. Sadly I know that day is far away because of that waste of space that is his wife.
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Post by Kollector_Kombat on Apr 26, 2016 2:19:22 GMT -5
That sounds pretty bad, what does your brother think about the situation? I havnt talked to my brother since my son was born, almost 2 years now. Both of our wives were pregnant at the same time. His third son was born a week before my first son. The day his boy was born my mother told me, I offered to give my mother a ride to the hospital. We went, we saw the baby, we saw my fat cow of a sister in law, we saw my brother, I congratulated them, then I left. A week later my boy was born. My wife was going to have labor induced, the labor took 3 days. Once my son was born we had to stay in the hospital for another 5 days. That was a little over 8 days that we were in the hospital, 8 days in which my brother never went to go see my first son, 8 days in which not even a phone call. I told my father, "I was a man and I went to go see his new born son and in return he couldnt even give me a call". My father told me that my brother's defense was that I never called him to tell him, to which I replied that no one called me either my mother told me as she told him. I've given up on my brother. He wants to live with that piece of garbage fine, she's the mother of his children so if he wants to give his kids a happy home, I'm fine with that. But im done trying to talk to him, if he ever wants to be a man and talk to his brother and meet his nephew im here. Sadly I know that day is far away because of that waste of space that is his wife. Jeez man. I have a cousin of mine in nearly the exactly same situation as your brother. He does occasionally stand upnfor himself when his wife starts to go crazy. She hates both his sisters and moved him a state away from all our family. He's been working 3 separate jobs and busts his ass doing all of them. They just had a kid and she immediately got pregnant not long after. I've never gotten the chance to meet his first son because she doesn't seem to like me much. They do plan on moving down here soon so maybe things will change but I doubt it. She always used to run his FB page so I haven't personally gotten to talk to him in about 5 years. They came down for a visit recently. Stayed a week with her side of the family but when he wanted to come see us she only gave him 2 days. I didn't get to see him and been pretty bummed. He was always like a big brother to me too. It's not his fault though , his wife just seems insane.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 26, 2016 11:00:49 GMT -5
My uncle thought he was Saint Jerome.
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