KingOfKings™
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Post by KingOfKings™ on Aug 14, 2016 18:16:06 GMT -5
Everyone has regrets man.. I remember growing up in High School my parents were strict as hell my Sophomore/Junior year.. I was the type of kid that I guess you would say "popular" and pretty much all the girl found me attractive in Middle School up to Freshmen year. Then everyone started to go out.. they would go to parties drink alcohol, do drugs, etc you know the typical HS thing to do. So I was kinda forgotten about. Start of Sophomore year nobody really talked to me due to not seeing me the whole summer. I eventually ended up getting close with everyone again and would go out every now and then but wouldn't drink due to being scared of how my parents would react. But I got really attached to this girl in most of my classes and there was something between us.. she didn't go out either so it was pretty much perfect. Anyways, fast forward to the very last day of Sophomore year some girl threw a party so I attended and told the girl to come. She was drinking so I said it why not.. I felt like the man again, Everyone talked to me and once they saw me drinking HS girls did what HS girls usually do and went up to me. Lets just say I ended up having about 10 beers and getting free shots from all my friends since it was my first time and at this point I had to idea what was happening. I completely forgot about the girl I actually liked and totally ignored her the rest of the party even though she was the one trying to sober me up, and handing me water. I ended up hooking up with these other girls and never did anything with her. Later that night I ended up getting caught by my parents, grounded for the whole summer. The next day I felt awful because I knew I ed up.. Wasn't gonna see anyone the whole summer AGAIN and most importantly never talked to the girl I liked that whole summer.. not even a text. Still one of my biggest regrets ever because I got caught for some dumb crapand the only reason I drank at that party was to make moves with her and obviously backfired. That summer was probably one of the craziest in my schools history and I missed it. She ended up having a great one going to all the parties and hooking up with this kid who is now her boyfriend. Anyways, started junior year the same way i started my sophomore year with nobody talking to me. Junior year I finally said it and went out whenever I wanted to and obeyed my parents orders and they finally gave up. So, I ended up going out the rest of my junior year and senior year but nothing topped that crazy sophomore year summer I missed out on. Lol, that brought back a lot of memories but that was awhile ago. High school me was so dumb, but now I have been happily engaged for about 3 months now with my fiance that I met in college.. As for that girl, I haven't seen her since graduation and never talked to her again after Sophomore year.
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Post by Darkhawk on Aug 14, 2016 18:52:52 GMT -5
Probably one of my biggest regrets was not making more of an effort to see my first girlfriend who I've been talking to all summer before we made it official, she was great, beautiful, smart, nice and caring just everything you would want in a girl. She was in 8th grade and I was in 9th so I was in High School and she was still in Middle School, she would always and I mean always ask me to come see her after school and I never did. I never went to hang out with her or even see her, because I wasn't confident enough. And I must have broken her heart every time I didn't show up, we lasted 3 months together until she ended up breaking up with me and I blamed things on her and she became so different ever since getting into smoking, drugs and hanging out with the wrong people in High School. I once got her number from a friend and tried apologizing to her, but got no reply after she found it was me. I'm thinking of hitting her up on Twitter and trying again, but I haven't yet pulled the trigger into talking to her.
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Nathan from Aus
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Post by Nathan from Aus on Aug 14, 2016 19:20:21 GMT -5
Buying ECW December to Dismember 2006
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Post by Deleted on Aug 14, 2016 20:43:25 GMT -5
things i regret? hmmm
1. getting the s7 edge, it sucks. 2. not backing up my files on my harddrive before it completely went dead and dosent spin anymore 3. not going in the summer to my learning center out of pure laziness
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Post by East Coast on Aug 14, 2016 20:49:55 GMT -5
the same person kept murking me in uncharted multiplayer....and i punched my knee really hard.
my ring finger has felt like its broken for almost 2 weeks now
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Post by Deleted on Aug 14, 2016 20:53:46 GMT -5
not a regret but, seeing as you guys are talking about girls/relationships i might as well add my story,
a girl i thought about asking out at my learning center but later found she was a smoker in this pic i saw of her... so i was like yeah, no thanks. plus shes way out of my league anyways. wish there was some actual attractive girls at my learning center that werent crackheads most of them.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Aug 14, 2016 21:37:07 GMT -5
I thought of one of my regrets. I was always shy and din't like to go out much so my years where i should of had the most fun i kind of wasted. I will always regret that and tell everyone to have as much fun as you can and don't grow up to fast.
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Post by Valbroski on Aug 14, 2016 22:44:10 GMT -5
I regret leading on a girl I was hooking up with before my current girlfriend. It was a dick move on my part and I handled the situation poorly and immaturely. I regret not applying myself more growing up out of fear of failure or letting people down.
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My name actually isn’t Matt.
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Post by Matt Tell on Aug 14, 2016 23:07:41 GMT -5
I really regret not getting back with my ex when I had the chance. It's been 3 years and I'm still not over her and I kick myself for it. I've been in one relationship since and it really didn't last. Hopefully things change for me.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 3:25:20 GMT -5
Haven't spoken to her in 5 years maybe? Seen her at a few parties but she has quite the stone face when it comes to me. As for us getting back together, I highly doubt that. She is all fancy, wearing £400 dresses to work etc. I keep my £5 shoes together with duct tape. We are completely different nowadays. And my mate told me she basically lives in a mansion nowadays. I live in a low rent apartment with naked girls all over the walls and empty cans all over. So I truly don't see us ever even interacting again. I'm sure my regret will slowly eat me up from the inside eventually. I hope so atleast. Just go for it man. At this point what do you have to lose? Next time u see her pull her aside and say you wanna talk. Apologize for how you were and tell her you were young and stupid and still have feelings for her. Tell her you wanna try and take it slow maybe and see what happens. Worse that happens is she says no and you're right back staring st those posters in your room Haven't seen her out and about in 4 years or so now. My mate saw her like a year ago at some Starbucks. She is basically like Bigfoot at this point.
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Post by Mongo Bears on Aug 15, 2016 7:31:56 GMT -5
Every used car I've ever bought I regret
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Aug 15, 2016 13:46:55 GMT -5
Just go for it man. At this point what do you have to lose? Next time u see her pull her aside and say you wanna talk. Apologize for how you were and tell her you were young and stupid and still have feelings for her. Tell her you wanna try and take it slow maybe and see what happens. Worse that happens is she says no and you're right back staring st those posters in your room Haven't seen her out and about in 4 years or so now. My mate saw her like a year ago at some Starbucks. She is basically like Bigfoot at this point. Try looking her up on social media if you have it
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 13:53:38 GMT -5
Haven't seen her out and about in 4 years or so now. My mate saw her like a year ago at some Starbucks. She is basically like Bigfoot at this point. Try looking her up on social media if you have it I do stalk her Instagram whenever I feel like having a solid depression trip. But it would come across as far too creepy at this point to contact her through social media.
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Post by Dex on Aug 15, 2016 13:55:14 GMT -5
I made a girl I liked mad yesterday, but I'm not really sorry, she just kind of acted pissy for no reason. I haven't said sorry, but I don't think I want to proceed further anyways. If she's that thin-skinned and insecure, I have a feeling she wouldn't like me all too much the more she got to know me lol.
Edit: I didn't apologize, and she said she isn't mad, so I regret writing up this post.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Aug 15, 2016 14:19:32 GMT -5
Try looking her up on social media if you have it I do stalk her Instagram whenever I feel like having a solid depression trip. But it would come across as far too creepy at this point to contact her through social media. If you have a lot of mutual friends just go for it. 3)/5: the worse that happens? Honestly? You look like an bunghole or creep? Big whoop
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Post by Deleted on Aug 15, 2016 14:57:02 GMT -5
I do stalk her Instagram whenever I feel like having a solid depression trip. But it would come across as far too creepy at this point to contact her through social media. If you have a lot of mutual friends just go for it. 3)/5: the worse that happens? Honestly? You look like an bunghole or creep? Big whoop Not really any mutual friends, just got a few mates who know who she is, basically. Oh well, she seems content with her life, not gonna ruin it for her.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Aug 15, 2016 15:10:13 GMT -5
If you have a lot of mutual friends just go for it. 3)/5: the worse that happens? Honestly? You look like an bunghole or creep? Big whoop Not really any mutual friends, just got a few mates who know who she is, basically. Oh well, she seems content with her life, not gonna ruin it for her. You aren't really ruining it. If she's interested shell let you know same way if she's not.
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Post by Ultimate Figure Collector on Aug 15, 2016 16:22:24 GMT -5
My story is kind of similar to the original post. I'll try to write about everything while also keeping it as brief as I can.
Earlier this year I stayed with my fiancee and her family for two months. We are long distance me being in Jersey and her being in Michigan. The first month was great, I was actually suppose to go back home after the first month, but things were going great and since we don't see each other as often as we would like we asked her mom if I could stay for the extra month and her mom had no problem with it. Well my fiancee's sister happen to be away in DC for the first month, but once she came back thats when things changed. The first few days everything was okay, then her sister started acting really weird. She didn't like sharing her time with her sister, didn't like the idea of someone extra being in the house etc. My fiancee's sister would be doing things like watching TV and use something on the show to try to throw daggers at me. It would be obvious to both my fiancee and I, but I ignored it. We would usually just leave the house, however this got to be stressful to my fiancee at the time who also had school and stuff around the house to get done, but she was trying to avoid her sister being in such a bad mood. The only reason I stayed for the extra month was because my fiancee asked me to please stay for Valentines Day which I did. I was suppose to go home a few days later, but the flights were expense so it got extended an extra two weeks making it a full 2 months. I tried everything I could to get along with my fiancee's sister, we even invited her to the movies with us to see Deadpool but her reasoning was she didn't think she could sit through two hours of Ryan Reynolds. So we went to see Deadpool and her sister was upset about it when we got back. Her sister then asked my fiancee if she were going to the "annual Valentines Day" breakfast with her and their mom the next morning. My fiancee said yes. When we got upstairs I asked my fiancee if I was invited or not because it didn't seem like I was. My fiancee said I was and her family knew I was there so it would be okay. I said okay, and we wake up the next morning. I go downstairs with my fiancee and my fiancee is called back upstairs. I'm not invited. Now my fiancee is confused what to do, and I was pretty hurt by the fact that I stayed for this day in particular and she's ready to leave me at her house and go out with her family for Breakfast. Anyways she decides to stay home and we go out to breakfast. We then went to MGM Grand that night, had dinner and stayed the night. Valentines Day turned out to be great, but the rest of the stay there was pretty miserable. Her family held this huge grudge that she didn't go to breakfast with them making the rest of my stay uncomfortable for everyone.
Fast forward to me going back home and her being there. It had caused a lot of stress to our relationship for the next two months or so. Even though her and I were getting along, there was still some bitterness on both of our parts with how everything turned out. I was then suppose to see her in May once she finished school. Well she canceled the trip and knew about it but didn't tell me until days later. When I found out I was upset with the way she approached the situation as you basically had an argument with me about it at the time rather than go about it in a mature way. Anyways I ended up breaking up with her. I wish I didn't and just let cooler heads prevail. While we had broken up before, it usually wouldn't be much and we would be back together, but this made basically my whole summer (until recently) quite miserable.
For the first few weeks everything was okay. We still said we loved each other, I miss you, talked on the phone at night etc. All the things couples do. Then she started a new job and things got weird. She stopped saying and doing all the things she use to do and become very distant. Basically this went on for awhile and I kept asking her is there someone else? She would say no and in my mind I know the type of girl she is and really didn't believe she was seeing anybody else. We had been together 6 years so I couldn't imagine her finding someone in a few weeks. However the distance was making my mind still wonder otherwise. We would still talk everyday even if it wasn't as often as before. Then one Friday night I went the rest of the night without hearing from her. Usually I would get a good night or something, nothing. All I knew was she was suppose to go to the movies. Anyways I start to wonder what is going on. We had both known each others passwords although her and I both never went into any of each others accounts as we never had the need to. Well I decide I'm gonna try to go into her T-Mobile account at least I can see if she's calling or txting anyone else. Well I couldn't get in, completely forgot her mom's also on the account so her mom gets a notification that the login failed. I knew I shouldn't of even bothered but I let my worry get the best of me. This resulted in even more problems with her mom disliking me and telling my fiancee she shouldn't come see me in this summer either (the next time planned to see each other). Anyways this resulted in even more problems as now she avoided txting me when she was around her family. For a few weeks we would only talk on her way to and from work as well as on her break. Then we would txt when she would go upstairs at night. In total I was talking to her between an hour or two a day. Everything was pretty brief, it was very different than what we were use to. One night in particular I got worried again and decided let me try to log into her iCloud. She once again had seemed distant and I couldn't help but worry. Well I logged in, upon logging in I was actually kind of hoping the password I knew wouldn't work as odd as that sounds but it did. Upon her iCloud loading I felt my heart pounding at the thought of what I might find. The first thing I did was go to her photos. Nothing of concern. Mostly just pics of us and pics of her I have seen or things she's bought, but then I realized her icloud hadn't been backed up since early May. shortly after the time her and I had broke up. However, I still was happy to find there was nothing of concern in her photos. I then went to her contacts. There were a few I didn't recognize but once again nothing that looked of any concern. Then I went to her notes and had planned to log out. Well as soon as I went to notes my heart and jaw dropped.
I saw something in the notes without going into detail that really upset me and made me think okay there MUST be another guy. Well at the time I was so mad I took a pic and couldn't help but txt her it asking what it was about. I actually woke her up. She explained and while the story seemed quite ridiculous I know her personality and I know she's also not one to swear to God when lying. She explained but I still wasn't sold and argued with her. This resulted in her blocking me. I was blocked for about two days then she called me on her break one day. We talked but it was very casual. I had apologized for invading her privacy and said I felt bad. She briefly explained what I had seen before and I took her worth for it as she's always been very honest.
Well that was back in July, it's now August. While we aren't technically back together things have gotten A LOT better. Her and I now talk a lot more during the day and at night, her family knows we are talking and knows she plans to come see me for my Birthday in a few weeks. We are getting along very well and I really have no indications to believe there is or was anyone else. While the note I saw still kind of haunts me a little bit, it's something I do believe her with and I'm glad things are going well. So yeah I regret a couple of things here. The first being staying with her and her family beyond the original month, breaking up with her in the first place, and invading her privacy. One thing I've learned is to never take anything for granted and to better control myself. If I'm angry, upset, or sad sometimes it's best to just not say or do anything until cooler heads prevail. You never know which small argument can turn into a big argument. Wow this turned out to be long and I doubt anyone even reads it, but it feels nice to write it down.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Aug 15, 2016 16:22:29 GMT -5
Not really any mutual friends, just got a few mates who know who she is, basically. Oh well, she seems content with her life, not gonna ruin it for her. Just reach out dude. For 's sake read your posts. You're a mess. If you fail, you can live with knowing that you made that one last ditch attempt. Just be honest with her. Tell her you've regretted it every day and that she's the most amazing person you've ever known blah blah blah. Or just continue on being a self-loathing fag got who drinks and doesn't take chances. And before the PC police gets butthurt... Youtube Louis CK and his explanation of that word as its mine as well. Seriously dude, Carpe Diem. And if you fail, truly accept it and move on. this guy gets it. i wish i would of done this with one girl i knew when i was a lot younger. she moved away and i found her once on Facebook but now can't. just listen to this guy and me. you literally have NOTHING to lose.
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Post by rowdy1971 on Aug 15, 2016 16:37:52 GMT -5
You never ever check the phone or any social media messages. You'll never get what you saw out of your head. Even 50 years from now you'll remember everything clear as day. That's why I don't do it. I just think to myself what would they see when they looked at my phone! lol
As for my regrets? None. Everything I've done, good and bad has brought me to the pretty damn good life I have now. Cliché but true.
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