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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2008 20:28:59 GMT -5
Yes, yes, this subject. Some people were the bullies, some kids were the bullied. Unfortunately, I'm the second one, to the point where the kids are getting too personal with my social life. I was just wondering some ways that I could deal with them, considering our guidance counselor is an incompetent twit, and with the exception of my friends and some kids who really couldn't give a damn, most of my grade has been giving me shit.
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Post by FACELESS on Feb 26, 2008 20:42:31 GMT -5
what grade and what neighborhood? if its to much i guess i would stand up for myself but i dont know how your school is like. in my school i just yell and they go away try it it might work im sorry and if been on the same end and its hard without knowing what they are bullying you for.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2008 20:44:34 GMT -5
what grade and what neighborhood? if its to much i guess i would stand up for myself but i dont know how your school is like. in my school i just yell and they go away try it it might work im sorry and if been on the same end and its hard without knowing what they are bullying you for. Eighth grade. Rich, preppy, unhealthily P.C. neighborhood. |
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Post by FACELESS on Feb 26, 2008 20:47:23 GMT -5
im in 8 also um for preppy kids tell them to piss off and no matter how much they think they have more than you they re wrong and that the only reason why they pick on you is because they are trying to feel better about themselfs because they are jelous cause you have a real life and thats something money cant buy
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Post by ß®å¢K$ßâ¢k on Feb 26, 2008 20:47:30 GMT -5
It will all get better by next year hopefully...And if not, 10th for sure...
I've been bullied all my life...Overweight, check...Red hair, check...Pretty much anything someone could make fun of they did...
But the most important thing I went and live by to this day...
Who gives a shit...Let them talk all they want...Don't let any of their craphurt you...At all. If it does, then they succed. If it doesn't, then they fail!...So live by that attitude...Don't fight them or anything...Just don't give a shit!
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Post by Johnny on Feb 26, 2008 20:49:14 GMT -5
I don't get bullied.
At my school everyone gets joked on, but nothing huge.
Some of the mentally challenged kids get bullied, but nothing "major"
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Post by JCF on Feb 26, 2008 21:08:51 GMT -5
Ah screw them jerks. I never was bullied but can feel kids pain. If they wanna talk crap let them talk it, They'll learn one day. Why they bother is beyond me. It's immature for them to do that s*** in the first place. Screw them. Just keep to yourself and do what YOU feel is right for you. Dont let anybody tell you how to live YOUR life. Dont pay any attention, Or if it's too much to deal with, Do what I would do, Get some other kids and get them off your ass.
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Post by thetaker13 on Feb 26, 2008 21:12:37 GMT -5
here is what i do i get up in their face and yell at them and back them into a corner till they yell i'll stop
only do that if it's you're last option
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Post by goalie on Feb 26, 2008 22:23:26 GMT -5
I don't get bullied. At my school everyone gets joked on, but nothing huge. Some of the mentally challenged kids get bullied, but nothing "major" Wow, I've never actually met someone who would make fun of a mentally challenged kid... |
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Post by aussieloco on Feb 26, 2008 22:33:58 GMT -5
Whatever they say just turn the other cheek say "yeah, whatever" and walk away. They will get bored. If not, learn to fight...
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Post by Jack Specific on Feb 26, 2008 22:35:56 GMT -5
Dont give them any attention at all. That is what they want and what they feed on and that's the reason they do it.
JS
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Post by Johnny on Feb 26, 2008 22:42:31 GMT -5
I don't get bullied. At my school everyone gets joked on, but nothing huge. Some of the mentally challenged kids get bullied, but nothing "major" Wow, I've never actually met someone who would make fun of a mentally challenged kid... Yeah... it's kind of sad. They don't really know it. It is more of behind back kind of things. And for the main kids problems... is it the girls? If so  them. If it is the guys work out and kick there asses. |
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Post by Chan25™ on Feb 26, 2008 22:56:41 GMT -5
Either just ignore as stated or just ask them why they are doing it & ask if there is honestly a point, & if no straight answer just walk away or w/e.
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Post by BigDaddyChacon on Feb 26, 2008 23:41:58 GMT -5
Just learn karate. It worked for Daniel LaRusso.
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Post by Returnal on Feb 27, 2008 0:09:50 GMT -5
Ignore them.
It works.
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Post by King Bálor (CM)™ on Feb 27, 2008 0:41:05 GMT -5
Ignoring will only get you so far. Bullies exist in all walks of life. It wont just disappear one day. Middle school, high school, college and even in the working world. They are always there. You need to find a way to either deal with it internally and not let it bother you. Or you have to put a bully in his place. Stand up to him. A lot of times you dont even have to get physically violent. Just standing tall will cause them to back down. But in some cases, violence is the only answer. Either you learn to deal with it internally or you learn to push back.
In school, I was never bullied cuz I was just bigger than anyone else. But I know people who have been bullied. I was always the one to stand up for them. I hate bullies. They are all lacking in self confidence or they have too much, which just makes them arrogant.
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Post by judasmesias on Feb 27, 2008 0:55:41 GMT -5
RKO them biotch
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Post by The Funniest Guy in Pants on Feb 27, 2008 2:21:27 GMT -5
The best thing you can do is start going to a boxing gym or something like that, and start standing up for yourself. I'm told the best fighting style to learn is Muay Thai.
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Post by onionmaster on Feb 27, 2008 2:27:16 GMT -5
Well I have been on occasions, but only petty stuff, as i go to a fairly nice private school. The best method, is to give them absolutely no response, or if they do say something idiotic to you, just say the same thing back to them and let them take it in.
You shouldn't let these ****s control you, they are just placed in schools by the government to emotionally cripple the non-jocks, so they take illegal drugs to make themselves feel better and the government can arrest them, thus allowing child molesters out of prison, who in turn can rape the bullies, and the circle continues...
Extract from Insane Conspiracy Theories Volume 1. By unyunmasta. Available from all good sweatshops.
Just remember, whatever they do, it is because they are harbouring a secret love for you, if somebody speaks down to you, remember that they respect you enough to be talking to you, and that can only be a good thing.
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Post by chumped on Feb 27, 2008 2:48:02 GMT -5
Ignoring them will just make things worse. The more you ignore them, the more they know that you will do nothing about it, so the more they will mess with you. One day, you are just gonna have to tear a hole into someone, or it will never stop.
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