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Post by ● kaneisdaman ● on Nov 29, 2007 3:03:44 GMT -5
Don't be ashamed, its no problem. You just be yourself and you will find that special someone.
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Post by kanekilledvince on Nov 29, 2007 10:21:12 GMT -5
Nothing to be ashamed of. Besides, some people don't enjoy having girlfriends anyway. The last time i was with a girl it drove me insane. Most annoying experience i've had this decade. But as Sucka said: Don't look, just carry on with life and she'll turn up somewhere along the way. Congrats to WF for not bashing. I'm proud.
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 29, 2007 12:52:31 GMT -5
Don't be ashamed, its no problem. You just be yourself and you will find that special someone. That's what I've been told since I was 14! Look I know having a girlfriend isn't easy and it could drive a man insane, but by the age of 25 everyone should've expreienced what it's like to have one. There aren't many 25 year olds who have never had a girlfriend or been on any kind of date. I think if something like that was meant to be, it woulve happened by now! I just want to know what it feels like to have a girlfriend so my life could be complete.
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 29, 2007 12:54:32 GMT -5
Remember I've NEVER had one. Not just at the moment. You sound like you want us to bash you for not having a girlfriend yet.... No it's just that I don't want some wiseass saying "Oh I'm 25 and I don't have a girlfreind right now". That's why I needed to emphasize that I've never had one. I've been told that maybe it's because I'm a wrestling fan. I don't buy it.
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Post by addam on Nov 29, 2007 13:02:55 GMT -5
My friend who are 30ish and she NEVER have boyfriend yet. Because she say she won't get any boyfriend until Mr Right Man. Which was sensible, really. i don't really think that's sensible cuz there is no such thing as a "mr. right or mrs. right" nobody you meet is EVER going to be EXACTLY perfect for you & EXACTLY what you're looking for. you need to date some people when the opportunity arrises and see where it goes. you could end up really liking someone that isn't what you're specifically looking for. holding out for that perfect person ideal that people have in their heads will leave you old, lonely & surrounded by cats in a smelly apartment. and to the original poster, it's not necessarily weird, just uncommon. just keep being yourself and don't develop the weird "i'm going to be alone forever" stigma & become a recluse. just be yourself, don't be afraid to put yourself out in the mix and something good is bound to happen eventually....the time varies greatly depending on how attractive you are & what you're willing to settle for tho
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Post by bad guy™ on Nov 29, 2007 13:03:45 GMT -5
Don't worry man. It's not that big of a deal. Just don't end up like that guy in 40 Year Old Virgin. Dan the Man does it again! HA!
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 29, 2007 13:10:04 GMT -5
Not really dude i'm 16 and havent had one i think it's alright. But i live in a bad part of town and am not attracted to anyone at my school so thats probably why. That's ok. If you're 18 and still haven't had one then you can start worrying. That's the year I started worrying
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 29, 2007 13:14:51 GMT -5
no, if you want that to change, maybe look at self and think what should i change to make things better? Well I did look at myself and one thing that needs to change is my looks, but I don't want to get plastic surgery.
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Post by nibz on Nov 29, 2007 13:19:38 GMT -5
I'm only 14 and people are already suggesting I'm gay, just because I ain't had a serious girlfriend. Really, you're bound to find someone, though lacking confidence will get you nowhere.
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Post by Revvie® on Nov 29, 2007 13:24:46 GMT -5
I wouldnt worry about it. Though like Sucka and many have said, when your not looking is when they come around. The girl I am with and the girl I might even marry was a complete chance situation. I wasnt looking for anything save for a friend and ended up falling for her.
Patience is the key, some will be sooner and some will be later. Doesnt matter how many people you date. Some people will only date all their lives and they are no better off then one who does not and ends up in love in the end.
Head up, chest out...dont look, just if you see someone that you find interesting, try to become friends...
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 29, 2007 15:18:06 GMT -5
Don't LOOK for a girlfriend. That's when you'll find one. During the times when I was single, the days that I felt like I wanted to be with someone...I never found anyone. But everytime I wasn't looking, I would end up with someone. Ok you're saying don't LOOK for a girlfriend? But wouldn't that be helpful to GET one? From when I was 13 until I was 16, I didn't care that I didn't have a girlfriend and I wasn't looking. My Jackass family and their friends would always tell me that I needed to get one and how bad it was not to have one, I kid you not! Then when i was 16 I did like someone and she didn't like me back. I would go on to talk to many girls that wanted no part of a conversation with me. In fact when i went to see the King of The Ring in 2001, I sat next to a girl that paid no attention to me when I was talking and it ruined by night! I've never asked a girl out because when I talk to them and they don't seem interested, I don't even bother. I've never met a good looking girl who liked me like I liked her and probably never will. That's the type of girl I want, good looking. I won't settle for less.
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Post by addam on Nov 29, 2007 15:31:31 GMT -5
Don't LOOK for a girlfriend. That's when you'll find one. During the times when I was single, the days that I felt like I wanted to be with someone...I never found anyone. But everytime I wasn't looking, I would end up with someone. Ok you're saying don't LOOK for a girlfriend? But wouldn't that be helpful to GET one? From when I was 13 until I was 16, I didn't care that I didn't have a girlfriend and I wasn't looking. My Jackass family and their friends would always tell me that I needed to get one and how bad it was not to have one, I kid you not! Then when i was 16 I did like someone and she didn't like me back. I would go on to talk to many girls that wanted no part of a conversation with me. In fact when i went to see the King of The Ring in 2001, I sat next to a girl that paid no attention to me when I was talking and it ruined by night! I've never asked a girl out because when I talk to them and they don't seem interested, I don't even bother. I've never met a good looking girl who liked me like I liked her and probably never will. That's the type of girl I want, good looking. I won't settle for less. well, maybe that's your problem. post a pic of yourself and i can tell you how high you should have your sights set. not being attractive can be salvaged by having a good personality, but girls seem to find you boring. if you're not really attractive & don't have a personality that attracts girls, then you're gonna have to settle for less at 1st. just date a fatty & call her your "practice girl" that way it'll be a non-threatening way of getting you into the flow of being comfortable around girls. you can bang her a few times to work the kinks out & you'll be alright. if you're 25, never had a girlfriend & don't know what to do in bed, then even if you could get a hot girl, i guarantee she ain't gonna stick around for too long.
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 29, 2007 18:33:02 GMT -5
Ok you're saying don't LOOK for a girlfriend? But wouldn't that be helpful to GET one? From when I was 13 until I was 16, I didn't care that I didn't have a girlfriend and I wasn't looking. My Jackass family and their friends would always tell me that I needed to get one and how bad it was not to have one, I kid you not! Then when i was 16 I did like someone and she didn't like me back. I would go on to talk to many girls that wanted no part of a conversation with me. In fact when i went to see the King of The Ring in 2001, I sat next to a girl that paid no attention to me when I was talking and it ruined by night! I've never asked a girl out because when I talk to them and they don't seem interested, I don't even bother. I've never met a good looking girl who liked me like I liked her and probably never will. That's the type of girl I want, good looking. I won't settle for less. well, maybe that's your problem. post a pic of yourself and i can tell you how high you should have your sights set. not being attractive can be salvaged by having a good personality, but girls seem to find you boring. if you're not really attractive & don't have a personality that attracts girls, then you're gonna have to settle for less at 1st. just date a fatty & call her your "practice girl" that way it'll be a non-threatening way of getting you into the flow of being comfortable around girls. you can bang her a few times to work the kinks out & you'll be alright. if you're 25, never had a girlfriend & don't know what to do in bed, then even if you could get a hot girl, i guarantee she ain't gonna stick around for too long. Well I just want to know what it feels like to date a good looking girl, even if it's not for too long.
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Post by Erdrtyu on Nov 29, 2007 19:57:51 GMT -5
I'd be ashamed if I were you.
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Post by TD#1=My head hurts on Nov 29, 2007 21:17:55 GMT -5
to ask on a message board, but I'll go ahead anyway. Is it shameful to be 25 years old and never have had a grilfriend in your life? I say it is, my family(in a weak attempt to make me feel better) say it isn't. I pretty ashamed of it. Should I be? No. And if it make you feel better I'm 26 and never ever had a Girlfriend Or I think I never had a Girlfriend (Long Story).
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Post by kanekilledvince on Nov 30, 2007 9:29:33 GMT -5
well, maybe that's your problem. post a pic of yourself and i can tell you how high you should have your sights set. not being attractive can be salvaged by having a good personality, but girls seem to find you boring. if you're not really attractive & don't have a personality that attracts girls, then you're gonna have to settle for less at 1st. just date a fatty & call her your "practice girl" that way it'll be a non-threatening way of getting you into the flow of being comfortable around girls. you can bang her a few times to work the kinks out & you'll be alright. if you're 25, never had a girlfriend & don't know what to do in bed, then even if you could get a hot girl, i guarantee she ain't gonna stick around for too long. Well I just want to know what it feels like to date a good looking girl, even if it's not for too long. Wow.. you're incredibly shallow. Maybe thats why girls don't talk to you.
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Post by becca on Nov 30, 2007 9:51:12 GMT -5
Well I just want to know what it feels like to date a good looking girl, even if it's not for too long. Then hire an escort. Seriously, you need to reevaluate your standards. You'd rather date a good looking girl who you have nothing in common with for a short amount of time, just because she's good looking, than find someone who you really click with to spend years or your whole life with who's kind of fugly? Think about where you hang out, the people you spend time with, etc. and think if there's any girls there that have anything in common with you. If not, maybe you should think about changing your habits to meet girls. For example, if you go out to clubs just to try to meet hot chicks, but you really don't like clubbing, it's not going to work out. Maybe try an online dating site. I know it sounds pathetic, but it's not. Plenty of people do it who just aren't finding anyone like them where they are.
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Post by sycho1warrior on Nov 30, 2007 13:33:29 GMT -5
nothings wrong. But maybe if you spend less time on here talking about your problems, you should try and fix it.
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Post by htmlegend on Nov 30, 2007 23:43:00 GMT -5
You know there was an episode of Married with Children in which Peg says to Al "I want sex on the kitchen table". Al responds with "I want a meal on the kitchen table, learn to live without... I have". In regards to wanting a girlfriend, maybe I should learn to live without. That's all I'm going to say anymore on this thread.
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Post by Nirvana is Happiness on Dec 1, 2007 0:27:51 GMT -5
Trust me man. As long as your a nice guy, im sure youll find girls that like you for who you are, not what you look like. Looks mean crap is a person really cares.
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