Relationships? Yay Or Nay?

I'm all for relationships provided you actually both like each other and there is a bit of chemistry between you. Not chemistry in the scientific sense, but in the play on words that is used to describe when two people get along well.

Now i know what you're thinking... "Why would he say chemistry?".

Well.. lets learn a little something about chemistry before answering that question.

Chemistry is the science concerned with the composition, structure, and properties of matter, as well as the changes it undergoes during chemical reactions. Historically, modern chemistry evolved out of alchemy following the chemical revolution. Chemistry is a physical science related to studies of various atoms, molecules, crystals and other aggregates of matter whether in isolation or combination, which incorporates the concepts of energy and entropy in relation to the spontaneity of chemical processes.

Disciplines within chemistry are traditionally grouped by the type of matter being studied or the kind of study. These include inorganic chemistry, the study of inorganic matter; organic chemistry, the study of organic matter; biochemistry, the study of substances found in biological organisms; physical chemistry, the energy related studies of chemical systems at macro, molecular and submolecular scales; analytical chemistry, the analysis of material samples to gain an understanding of their chemical composition and structure. Many more specialized disciplines have emerged in recent years, e.g. neurochemistry the chemical study of the mind.

Chemistry is also the scientific study of interaction of substances called chemical substances that are constituted of atoms or the subatomic components that make up atoms: protons, electrons and neutrons. Atoms combine to produce ions, molecules or crystals. Chemistry can be called "the central science" because it connects the other natural sciences, such as astronomy, physics, material science, biology, and geology.

The genesis of chemistry can be traced to certain practices, known as alchemy, which had been practiced for several millennia in various parts of the world, particularly the middle east.

The structure of objects we commonly use and the properties of the matter we commonly interact with, are a consequence of the properties of chemical substances and their interactions. For example, steel is harder than iron because its atoms are bound together in a more rigid crystalline lattice; wood burns or undergoes rapid oxidation because it can react spontaneously with oxygen in a chemical reaction above a certain temperature; sugar and salt dissolve in water because their molecular/ionic properties are such that dissolution is preferred under the ambient conditions.

The transformations that are studied in chemistry are a result of interaction either between different chemical substances or between matter and energy. Traditional chemistry involves study of interactions between substances in a chemistry laboratory using various forms of laboratory glassware.



Of course, we cant bring glassware into this without giving a brief idea of what that is, for those unaware...

Glassware usually refers to glass items used as tableware, such as dishes, cutlery, flatware, and drinkware used to set a table for eating a meal. The term usually refers to the drinking vessels, unless the dinnerware is also made of glass. "Glassware" can also more generally refer to any object made of glass.

Glassware is also a term used in the catering industry to refer to all glasses whether made of glass or plastics such as, polystyrene and polycarbonate.

Glass is a type of non-crystalline or amorphous solid. By traditional convention the term glass is reserved for an amorphous solid which has been formed by quenching a glass forming liquid (or melt) through its glass transition temperature sufficiently fast that a regular crystal lattice cannot form. However, amorphous solids may be formed by methods other than melt quenching, such as ion implantation or the sol-gel method, and since they exhibit the same disordered atomic structure the terms amorphous solid, glass and non-crystalline solid are often regarded as synonyms.

Glass in the common sense contains silica as the main component and glass former, but silica-free glasses also exist.

The physical and in particular the optical properties of glass make it suitable for technological applications such as windows, containers (bottles, jars, bowls), optics, optoelectronics and laboratory equipment. The ease of formability, and its aesthetic features, such as transparency and pigmentation, render glass a common art medium.


Of course, love would also take a part in this and as we all know the word love has many different meanings in English, from something that gives a little pleasure ("I loved that meal") to something one would die for (patriotism, family). It can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love. Probably due to its psychological relevance, love is one of the most common themes in art and music.

Just as there are many types of lovers, there are many kinds of love. Though love is inherent in all human cultures, cultural differences that make any universal definition difficult to establish. One definition attempting to be universally applicable is Thomas Jay Oord's: to love is to act intentionally, in sympathetic response to others (including God), to promote overall well-being. This definition applies to the positive connotations of love.

Expressions of love may include the love for a "soul" or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etcetera. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive. According to philosophers, the only goal of life is to be happy. And there is only one happiness in life: to love and be loved. Love is essentially an abstract concept, much easier to experience than to explain.



So it is with that in mind, that i favour a relationship, over trying to "score."

depends, if im bar hoping with my friends then im probably looking for nothing but a 1 maybe 2 nighter. Thats just the kinda girls you usually find in bars. Anything else I'll usually try to get to know first to see if theres anything there to continue further.

Clubber took the p*ss basically... in brief. Relationships>Scoring.

Let's just say I don't wanna be a 40 year-old virgin that is obsessed with porn.

You better get someone quick then. ;D

I would say that scoring is better, as most english girls are pretty skanky.

Relationship, condisering im not experienced in tht catergory.

Relationships>one night stands.

why? They mean more. ANY body can go and someone they don't know, but it's almost 'bragging rights' to be in a relationship. And no, I'm not some kid who has never even kissed a girl.. I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months (11 the 2nd) and we haven't even 'fooled around' yet. Why? Because there's NO point to rush it. I love my girlfriend more than anything in the world, I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I think saying "no" to sex really shows I'm not in the relationship because of lust, like you see all the time now a days.

It does help been in a band, unless your a drummer. ;D

yay nuff said