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Post by Yeezy's Mullet: Team X Blades on Sept 9, 2008 15:46:42 GMT -5
Personally I do think that it's ok tospank your kids. Theres a fine line between chastening and child abuse. Most of the kids I know who grew up with the "firm hand" of punishment are all respectable young adults who respect the law and other adults as well.
Now i do believe disciplining(* sp) your child involves more than just spanking though.
I dont have kids so I'd apprecaite any insight from actual parents.
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Post by ztj_wwf on Sept 9, 2008 15:49:45 GMT -5
No, hitting a child does nothing except make him/her scared if he does anything wrong, he/she should know what's wrong/right but not by spanking them.
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Post by Doomrider on Sept 9, 2008 15:50:24 GMT -5
Based on how my cousin and godchild turned out, I fully approve beating the holy hell out of your children.
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Post by Yeezy's Mullet: Team X Blades on Sept 9, 2008 16:00:56 GMT -5
No, hitting a child does nothing except make him/her scared if he does anything wrong, he/she should know what's wrong/right but not by spanking them. But shouldnt they be scared of doing something wrong. Where's the consequence. There comes a time where time out doesnt work.
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Post by Cottage Cheese on Sept 9, 2008 16:01:47 GMT -5
I am gonna have to so no maybe everyonce in a while but if you Spank you're kids to much they will just be scared of you.
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Post by Yeezy's Mullet: Team X Blades on Sept 9, 2008 16:03:50 GMT -5
I am gonna have to so no maybe everyonce in a while but if you Spank you're kids to much they will just be scared of you. Now that I agree with. I believe they should fear you as the authority figure but not as a person.
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Post by carly1988 on Sept 9, 2008 16:07:57 GMT -5
absolutely and thats why the world is ed up now, because if you pop your kid on the ass when he is in public screaming some old bitty is gonna start bitching about it being child abuse. Im waiting for my kid to act up and i pop him on his rear end and somebody says something about child abuse.
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Post by ericbischoff on Sept 9, 2008 16:08:37 GMT -5
I'd say no, but like as I say depend on the situation, but I will never spank my own kids, but I will do disciplining to them, and ground them
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Post by AdamBomb on Sept 9, 2008 16:09:47 GMT -5
When I did something wrong as a child, I got spanked.
Guess what? It worked.
As long as you're not spanking them in their face, I'm cool with it.
And from someone who has had a big hand in raising a little girl, disciplining them as KIDS and 'grounding' them doesn't really work. A four year old doesn't exactly have much to be 'grounded' from. Kids need to know right from wrong, and as toddlers, they don't understand a lot of words, a pat on the butt let's them know what they're doing is wrong.
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Post by Chicago on Sept 9, 2008 16:10:04 GMT -5
I don't see anything wrong with it.
It straightened me out as I was growing up, and sometimes kids need to feel some pain if that'll keep them from getting in trouble.
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Post by Revvie® on Sept 9, 2008 16:12:53 GMT -5
I believe that it varies on the child. The point of spanking is not just to "Scare" but to instill the idealism of consequences to ones actions. Now at a certain age it will become useless and you will have to start using things like taking things away or grounding them to their rooms. Alot of children dont react to simple taking things away because minds drift from one thing to another so "spanking" or a light amount of pain is something simple that they understand. Bad=Pain in association. As they grow older they tend to lose this association and then we use other methods.
Again this does not affect all children. Maybe they just learn faster but pain does not work so time outs or talks of feelings affect them...each child is different in what works so i wouldnt say that spanking is the end all answer to children misbehaving.
Now I dont condone belts or paddles nor beating ones children or carrying such things into the later teenage years as i feel at this point that sort of thing is just causing the child emotional and physical damage with no good to come out of it.
I think that the laws have taken away a good use of spanking and thus when in a store you just have to just keep yelling at children b/c what you would do will not get you arrested in some places....but again thats my opinion and is not for everyone or useful for every child
so i am for it under circumstances i have stated.
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Post by Scarlet Begonias on Sept 9, 2008 16:14:53 GMT -5
No!!!
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Post by Suckasays on Sept 9, 2008 16:17:23 GMT -5
I think it's perfectly ok. Spanking yes. Beating...no
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Post by Deleted on Sept 9, 2008 16:21:25 GMT -5
Of course. I got spanked and it taught me that I'm going to make damn sure I don't piss off my parents.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 9, 2008 16:30:34 GMT -5
Yes. I'm all for spanking kids. Sometimes a "time out" doesn't work.
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Post by Y3RP: LA MARAVILLA!!! on Sept 9, 2008 16:38:22 GMT -5
man i cant wait till i'm a father i will so beat my kids if they do sumthing stupid and or acting out of control! and if any er says sumthing about me beating my kid, i will do what wfig board members like 2 say"u should RKO'd him" thats what i will do, a fast rko and run like a deer
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Post by Groundswell on Sept 9, 2008 16:39:16 GMT -5
They should link spanking children to child abuse to be honest.
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Post by ebilbryan™ on Sept 9, 2008 16:47:30 GMT -5
When I did something wrong as a child, I got spanked. Guess what? It worked. As long as you're not spanking them in their face, I'm cool with it. my mom used to smack me across the face all the time and now I resent her. Then again, maybe its the drugs she's on to the topic: I agree on beating the holy hell out of your kids, I'm sick of seeing all these little brats doing whatever the they want because they have no one to fear. A good ass whoopin' will set them straight
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Post by TotalDivaCustoms on Sept 9, 2008 16:55:42 GMT -5
I say yes but only if they did something wrong,
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Post by dalethegreat on Sept 9, 2008 17:08:58 GMT -5
Appears to be a lot of people who enjoy the idea of spanking young children.
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