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Post by The Dave on Feb 14, 2014 14:25:11 GMT -5
I'm a strong believer in that any relationship issues can be solved with a stiff, short-arm clothesline.
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Post by Sleazyness on Feb 14, 2014 14:53:51 GMT -5
I got Maury and Jerry Springer's numbers if you need them.
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Post by Midnight-Metal-Master on Feb 14, 2014 15:15:01 GMT -5
Iv have nothing but respect for those who replied and those who do. I took all these comments to heart and agreed with most, even the funny ones lol. Here's what happened, ALSO imgur.com/qqD2bJz a face to go with the story... First pic I ever got of her was that one. This morning I got up still thinking about what iv mentioned plus what I didn't and decided I'd get what I wanted to get her for valentines day but before I give it to her bring up the issues and just talk. If there was anything she said that I just couldn't handle or think I should deal with I would break up with her. So I gave her the basic box of chocolate and flowers first! Then I sat Indian style Infront of her on the bed and held both of her hands. Started off by saying before I give her what I really got her I had some questions I wanted to ask her, I wanted honest answers and if I feel everything is ok I won't make these an issue again unless they become one. She said the reason she got mad about the phone was cause I went through it while she was asleep then she handed me the phone told me the pass code and asked me to look through it....everything seemed normal I guess The reason she didn't want me to go with her when she left today is because my valentine present was sent to her moms address and she was picking it up today, but then proceeded to tell me that it was a $350+ Jackson white Flying V electric guitar. :-O As far as the late Fridays she said things did come up and showed me texts that matched the story and she seemed in those messages not to be happy about it about as much as I was She said the sex thing was not my fault and that she knew she was wrong and that it was just late that night the last time it happened she had to be up early for work and it was already almost 2:00am She basically had an idk if I'd say excuse but more like a locial explaination and when I least expected it she looked dead at me and said I was more important to her than I would ever know and that she loved me and wants everything to be right between us and she's never felt like this with anybody even though it's only been this short amount of time she feels like I am the one for her.....I can't really be mad now So I gave her my valentines gift which was a 10k white gold 1k diamond "promise ring" and she almost cried! :,(
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Post by Sleazyness on Feb 14, 2014 15:27:07 GMT -5
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Post by mrassbillygunn on Feb 14, 2014 16:13:44 GMT -5
Ok so my gf and I have been dating for about 2 months now. She's 22. I'm 25 we both just got out of a bad relationship mine was 5 yrs her's was 7. we both have one child by our past partner. I won't go into detail about everything except what I think has become a huge problem! I really need some advice on this one! Ok about 3weeks ago maybe I started to notice that she's been acting different....like A lot different. Seems like she hardly wants to make any physical contact with me and if I approach her with it seems like she just really don't want me to?! I usually make plans for Friday night when I get off work at 7:30pm. She doesn't work Fridays but still manages to show up at my house at like 9 or 10pm. She got super pissed when I picked up and looked at her phone she even went as far as adding a pass code with she didn't have before. She gets frustrated or mad when I ask her if I can go somewhere with her. Ex sample tomorrow she has to go meet her land lord and pick up her laptop from her cousins house I asked to go and it was like she got pissed and just flat out said "NO I won't be gone that long so no" She texts and talks on her phone a lot! She insists on paying for her own stuff (I still pay for her anytime we go out to eat or movies or just anything and she kinda gives me crap about it?!?!) The other night we were having sex and she stopped me in the middle of intercourse and said she really had to pee when she came back she just laid down and I was like wtf?!? She tried to make me feel guilty for getting pissed and that I asked to be "finished off" so you could say Iv approached her with some of these and a few others I didn't mention. I have no problem telling her what I feel about her or the relationship but when I do she kinda just turns the casual talking into a fight and says "it's always something, everyday blah blah crap" also like I said one Friday she turned up at 11pm and said something came up and gave me some ridiculous excuse and when I got mad about it I didn't show in anger I just showed in a different way by saying to myself maybe I'm not gonna care as much? When I did that I became less affection with her and she noticed after 2 days and cried about it and seemed like she was making an excuse to break up with me then! No one goes to meet the landlord! The landlord meets you! Dude shes cheating, trust me on this one.
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Post by King Bálor (CM)™ on Feb 14, 2014 16:39:33 GMT -5
She's cheating. Get out before you get hurt.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2014 16:44:16 GMT -5
My advice? Don't ask a toy forum. Then RKO THAT BEEATCH. I'm a strong believer in that any relationship issues can be solved with a stiff, short-arm clothesline. Or a stiff something else.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2014 16:44:39 GMT -5
You should show her this thread. See what she says, maybe she will act better if she knows how other people think of her.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 14, 2014 16:52:27 GMT -5
You don't need this sh*t in your life. Just get out. 2 months? You know from experience that's nothing. Release this girl and wish her the best in her future endeavors. Oh without a doubt she is up to something. Wish her luck in her future endeavors............that's awesome!
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Post by DgenerationX092 on Feb 14, 2014 17:20:31 GMT -5
That pass code thing was slick on her part. Unless she deletes stuff.
Idk man, your OP now this new one really kinda paints her in two different lights, coming specifically from you. Based off of your new post I cant fully say Break it off. stay on your toes I guess, dont let your guard down and for the time being just follow your heart for a bit. But dont let yourself get hurt.
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Post by Sleazyness on Feb 14, 2014 17:25:52 GMT -5
Bang her and leave.
As for the money you spent on her for Valentine's Day...
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Post by HHH316 on Feb 14, 2014 17:35:31 GMT -5
If you told me you were in a 2 year relationship with her, then I'd say yeah, it might hurt to get out of that. But 2 months? No, get out of that & don't look back. There's a lot of drama there for 2 people coming out of a long term relationship.
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I just read your recent post, & honestly I hope she was telling you the truth & everything works out well for you. But then I got to the part where you bought her a ring after only being together for 2 months. If you both came out of long relationships that seems REALLY fast. Again, the best of luck to you but it sounds like this has bad news written all over it.
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Post by Nivro™ on Feb 14, 2014 17:36:59 GMT -5
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Post by Suckasays on Feb 14, 2014 17:43:47 GMT -5
Some folks spend so much time caught up in drama-filled relationships, that they actually get addicted to it. It is what it it. It's a new relationship with nothing really invested in it. I say run for the hills unless you're addicted to drama as well.
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The Dave
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Post by The Dave on Feb 14, 2014 17:51:42 GMT -5
My advice? Don't ask a toy forum. Then RKO THAT BEEATCH. I'm a strong believer in that any relationship issues can be solved with a stiff, short-arm clothesline. Or a stiff something else.
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Post by Nivro™ on Feb 14, 2014 18:15:44 GMT -5
I just read "part 2" where you gave her a supposed $10k "promise" ring.......
After two months....That's simply, unequivocally STUPID!
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Post by Midnight-Metal-Master on Feb 14, 2014 18:21:17 GMT -5
Ok guys this threw me off BIG TIME!!! Earlier about 12:00pm everything seemed cool she was happy with her gift i was happy with mine blah blah. So she left to go do something that i mentioned in a post earlier. Like I said she has a child to who's 4 that stays with the dad monday night through sat morning. When she went to meet with this land lord it was to finalize some stuff and get this dude out of her place. She has been staying with me monday nights through friday but then her work shedule changed and she no longer works fridays as of this week and so on.
Anyway we made a plan for a night out tonight when she got back. Then she called me and said that she was gonna have to pick her child up TONIGHT at 6 so we could still go out and eat but the other stuff should wait....Then she hit me with the doozy! She has to work tomorrow morning 8:30pm to 1:30pm right. She asked me to watch her child and if I couldnt she would have to stay at her cousins house where shes been staying with her on the days that shes kept her. So her cousin could watch her in the morning and she would still come out tonight but not stay! Its freakin VALENTINES DAY!!! Her ex bf, kids dad had plans so it just screwed ours up and she seemed fine with that?! Does that make me selfish that i feel like this is another excuse?!
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Post by Midnight-Metal-Master on Feb 14, 2014 18:24:41 GMT -5
I just read "part 2" where you gave her a supposed $10k "promise" ring....... After two months....That's simply, unequivocally STUPID! the ring was 10 karat white gold not 10 grand....im not that stupid
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Post by Suckasays on Feb 14, 2014 18:37:06 GMT -5
Yeah man. I don't know about all the promise ring stuff. That's a little much 2 months into the relationship. It almost sounds like a rebound. Kind of the "in love with the idea of being in love" sort of thing. It's like trying to make up for a previous relationship not working out, but pushing the new relationship too fast. Hope it works out for the best but that's just my "outside looking in" point of view. Good luck
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Post by knupmc on Feb 14, 2014 18:39:08 GMT -5
Wow I read all your posts on this issue. Dude I'm telling u break up with her before it escalates further. Something seems very fishy with this whole thing...
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