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Post by Halloween King on Apr 27, 2014 19:30:43 GMT -5
Just be yourself.
If she's on a dating site it's obviously because she is just as lonely as you are and like you, she also wants to find someone. Dont be scared, be a man and ask her out.
Tell us how it goes.
Good Luck.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 27, 2014 22:20:22 GMT -5
You're both on Facebook and the site, you already have heaps in common with friends and school... Hopefully the right thing to say will come to you, as it sounds like it's a sign...good luck.
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Apr 27, 2014 22:28:49 GMT -5
My advice is this. Checking her out on the dating site could come across as a little creepy to some or weird especially if you know her like you make it sound like you do. If you wanna date her and are face book friends message her on there and just be yourself. If you need an in just wait until she makes a status about something and message her about it and seem intetested. I met my gf in that type of fashion. I found her in a football group and added her, she made a status about football and we went back and forth there then my inbox went off and it was her. We talked a while and I got
Her number and the rest is history
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Post by Epic Z on Apr 28, 2014 1:00:50 GMT -5
Dude, you know her. That makes this a million times easier and LESS awkward. You already know what her interests are so just shoot her a message asking how she's been. See where it goes from there and than ask her if she wants to catch up and grab something to eat.
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Post by Word™ on Apr 28, 2014 1:10:18 GMT -5
I don't believe you were just browsing and stumbled onto her.. I would give you advice, but I feel you're being dishonest.
Good day, sir.
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Post by James on Apr 28, 2014 2:06:20 GMT -5
Start with 'Hey, what's up?  ' |
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Post by Ian from 616Entertainment. on Apr 28, 2014 2:10:21 GMT -5
The right answer has already been given. You know her outside of the site, contact her outside of the site. Done deal.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2014 3:31:25 GMT -5
RKO her
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2014 6:38:11 GMT -5
I don't believe in online dating. Everybody lies and it's unnatural. It's not hard to meet someone under organic circumstances. That's half the fun.
Anyway, just talk about sh*t.
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Post by JC Motors on Apr 28, 2014 6:56:32 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2014 7:32:02 GMT -5
Dude, you know her. That makes this a million times easier and LESS awkward. You already know what her interests are so just shoot her a message asking how she's been. See where it goes from there and than ask her if she wants to catch up and grab something to eat. This. In addition, let me tell you what NOT to do. Do not sit and let your feelings linger on and on. This is for three reasons mainly... 1. The longer you wait, you run the risk of some other mother  er swooping in and dating her. After all, if you like her this much, surely some other guys out there think she's awesome too. 2. Let's say you do start dating her... You don't want to like her WAY more than she likes you at the beginning. If the rate at which you fall for her is a lot faster than hers for you, it will inevitably create problems. The psychology of a woman is completely different from a man. A girl's walls are a LOT stronger at first. However, once they come down, they come down hard. Right now, she's incapable of developing super deep feelings for someone she's not seriously dating. And if she were already falling hard or in love with someone she's not dating or a serious ex, then she's probably got something wrong with her. Trust me on that one. 3. Finally, and this relates back to number 2, you're already pushing the pedestal complex. Just stop thinking and do what Epic said. You know her... That's a pretty big ing advantage. But it can become a huge disadvantage if you don't utilize it in time. Plus if you date her, you don't want to be way more heartbroken than necessary if things quickly don't work out. Because that is entirely possible when dating someone you've known as a friend for a while. The grass tends to be greener on the other side. A girl who is a great friend can be a fickle bitch in a relationship. |
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Post by bababooey on Apr 28, 2014 7:34:34 GMT -5
I don't believe you were just browsing and stumbled onto her.. I would give you advice, but I feel you're being dishonest. Good day, sir. It's the truth though. I would have never expected to see her on there. She must have joined the site within the last week which is why I hadn't seen her previously. Anyway, got some advice from one of my best friends who has never had trouble with women. Wish I hadn't taken it. I asked him if Facebook or the site would be better to contact her through. He said definitely the site because it sets the tone that I'm interested in her. So after he talked me into going through the site I sent her a quick message and just said "Hey! Long time no see. How've you been?" I see that she read the message almost immediately but hasn't responded. Oh well. |
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Post by 0,Y on Apr 28, 2014 7:35:17 GMT -5
Just be yourself. If she's on a dating site it's obviously because she is just as lonely as you are and like you, she also wants to find someone. Dont be scared, be a man and ask her out. Tell us how it goes.Good Luck. That's the important part, lol. |
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Post by JDP on Apr 28, 2014 11:00:07 GMT -5
Talk to her, maybe she'll respond maybe she won't. Most likely she'll end up BREAKING YOUR ING HEART BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT A LOT OF GIRLS LOVEEEEEEEEEE TO DO BUT CHEER YOURSELF UP WITH SOME JUSTIN GABRIEL MATCHES AFTER, good luck |
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Post by savage on Apr 28, 2014 11:05:27 GMT -5
Delete your account and approach her on Facebook instead. Tell her you'd like to see her sometime and see how she responds. Simple as that.
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Post by Midnight: Dark Knight on Apr 28, 2014 13:05:55 GMT -5
I dont really understand the problem if you already know her on a personal level anyways. If it was me in the same situation and I came across someone I knew, id probably message them and say...
"so i signed up for this site for fun and see if anything real would come from it and by chance YOUR profile came up as a 95% match! Hit me up when you have a moment so we can catch up on old times. Hope to talk with you soon".
with this your only finding some amusement from the site and re connecting with a friend, but also sent out some feelers to see if she is interested in any kind of relationship. Depending on her response you'll know if she wants to be friends or more.
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Post by GBGav on Apr 28, 2014 13:38:34 GMT -5
If you send her a message on that dating site, there's a chance she might not even see it. Women on dating sites can have dozens if not hundreds of messages from guys and they'll just ignore them rather than go through every one. Contacting her on Facebook pretty much guarantees she'll read it.
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Post by knupmc on Apr 28, 2014 13:48:51 GMT -5
She's on the site. You are on the site. You both are looking for someone. Just hit her up on the site and ask her out. This x1000000 |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2014 13:49:04 GMT -5
Just be a man.
Break into her house when she's not there, strip, get in her bed and wait. When she arrives just say "fancy seeing you here".
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Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2014 13:51:39 GMT -5
Just be a man. Break into her house when she's not there, strip, get in her bed and wait. When she arrives just say "fancy seeing you here".  |
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