|
Post by MrPerfect25 on Apr 28, 2014 17:01:40 GMT -5
Gold Bless America I love this place. I'm crying in my office at some of these replies.
Please update us on this situation. Good luck bro
|
|
|
Post by bababooey on Apr 28, 2014 17:09:44 GMT -5
Gold Bless America I love this place. I'm crying in my office at some of these replies. Please update us on this situation. Good luck bro Already posted the update a while ago. Seems to have gotten missed by everyone. Lol
|
|
Deleted
Joined on: May 7, 2024 22:12:08 GMT -5
Posts: 0
|
Post by Deleted on Apr 28, 2014 19:29:20 GMT -5
Dude, you know her. That makes this a million times easier and LESS awkward. You already know what her interests are so just shoot her a message asking how she's been. See where it goes from there and than ask her if she wants to catch up and grab something to eat. This. In addition, let me tell you what NOT to do. Do not sit and let your feelings linger on and on. This is for three reasons mainly... 1. The longer you wait, you run the risk of some other mother er swooping in and dating her. After all, if you like her this much, surely some other guys out there think she's awesome too. 2. Let's say you do start dating her... You don't want to like her WAY more than she likes you at the beginning. If the rate at which you fall for her is a lot faster than hers for you, it will inevitably create problems. The psychology of a woman is completely different from a man. A girl's walls are a LOT stronger at first. However, once they come down, they come down hard. Right now, she's incapable of developing super deep feelings for someone she's not seriously dating. And if she were already falling hard or in love with someone she's not dating or a serious ex, then she's probably got something wrong with her. Trust me on that one. 3. Finally, and this relates back to number 2, you're already pushing the pedestal complex. Just stop thinking and do what Epic said. You know her... That's a pretty big ing advantage. But it can become a huge disadvantage if you don't utilize it in time. Plus if you date her, you don't want to be way more heartbroken than necessary if things quickly don't work out. Because that is entirely possible when dating someone you've known as a friend for a while. The grass tends to be greener on the other side. A girl who is a great friend can be a fickle bitch in a relationship. Good advice, wish I could have read this a year ago as I fell for a girl who was already dating someone else when she started talking with me. The good news is that I've finally met someone else who isn't crazy or attracted to douchebags, and wants to be with me more than I want to be with her.
|
|
|
Post by The Yes Man on Apr 30, 2014 10:12:41 GMT -5
All you need to do is BOlieve!
|
|