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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2015 14:06:29 GMT -5
How she look?
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Post by Sleazyness on Jan 15, 2015 14:33:00 GMT -5
She's not Stephanie McMahon so keep it moving.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 15, 2015 14:33:57 GMT -5
She's not Stephanie McMahon so keep it moving. They never are.
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Post by theMOESIAH on Jan 15, 2015 23:35:50 GMT -5
When in doubt, compliment her. Her shoes, her hair, her eyes; it ready doesn't matter. Just give her a compliment.
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Post by Ace Bennett on Jan 16, 2015 0:15:19 GMT -5
I would recommend trying out Google Hangouts. There are apps on there that you can play around with, which I've done with girls in the past. One of them you can put goofy hair/hats/glasses/mustaches/etc on each other and I guarantee at least the first time you can burn some time with that. There's also a Sporcle quiz app where you can do little quizzes with each other and show off some of your knowledge/let her pick some topics so she can do the same. It gives you something to do/talk about while you're video chatting instead of just awkwardly sitting there.
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Post by PenguinDeluxe on Jan 16, 2015 0:34:36 GMT -5
I would recommend trying out Google Hangouts. There are apps on there that you can play around with, which I've done with girls in the past. One of them you can put goofy hair/hats/glasses/mustaches/etc on each other and I guarantee at least the first time you can burn some time with that. There's also a Sporcle quiz app where you can do little quizzes with each other and show off some of your knowledge/let her pick some topics so she can do the same. It gives you something to do/talk about while you're video chatting instead of just awkwardly sitting there. Worked for me and my girlfriend. I mean, we broke up eventually, but I'm sure you'll do fine!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 18, 2015 5:20:15 GMT -5
I don't even know how this amazing girl happened to fall for someone like me. We have been talking for about 4 months. Like, when we skype, I never know what to say. It's always been a problem. A lot of the time when we are together, I know what to say. When we are skyping, I just go blank. My main problem is like, I don't want to be a boring person. I suffer from anxiety. Any tips on what I should do to keep a conversation going? Not just with her, but in general. Also, I'm so glad her and I are finally dating. We have been talking for over four months and we have clicked since day one. I strongly believe that the two biggest mistakes a guy can make with a girl is 1) Not being confident enough 2) Putting the girl on a pedestal. And it sounds like you're doing a little of both. Don't overthink it. Just go with the flow and be yourself. I mean for 's sake, if she's spent 4 months talking to you, she obviously has more than just a momentary interest. You're already in man.
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Post by mikey1974 on Jan 18, 2015 10:32:53 GMT -5
^^^^^ I could tell this guy hates his wife... trust me - 15 years of marriage, almost 18 together... there comes a point when you no longer CARE about how many shades of green they off in the nail salon.. on the flip side,it's not like she's gonna care how many times you went to Target looking for the HoF series. but in all seriousness,yes,live with a woman long enough,and you will realize they can and will go off on tangents about the most non-sensible things you can think of. and the can do it for HOURS.not that you love them any less,but there is a reason the phrase "Yes,Dear" came into existence.
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Post by BØRNS on Jan 18, 2015 15:34:50 GMT -5
Sorry man, was just trying to keep things light. I've actually had the same issue when talking over the phone or on Skype with a girl in the past. In person I was fine, but it always seemed a bit awkward to try and make conversation over the phone/webcam. It's like there was a pressure to have some conversation going, so I don't have much advice but I was hoping to at least make you laugh. That's because dudes don't like to just talk. We have interests and hobbies, and we talk for very specific reasons. Women can literally tell you their life story on a whim and all about how they feel at that very second. Women, Venus. Men, Mars. My best advice with that, ask bait questions, and then listen closely for other bait questions. This will keep the woman talking for as long as physically possible without you having to do 95% of the work. "How was your day/work/school" "How did that thing today at work/school go" "Really, that happened? How/why?" insert quick "that b*tch is crazy" this can go on for hours. It's kind of a game, but women don't generally communicate the same way men do, physical or verbal, and at the root of our being we don't have a ton in common on a psychological level. We do, however, all live very similar lives for the most part. I would try to figure out what generic things you have in common, quickly. Those can be fallback talking points. Oh did you see the new trailer for Avengers? Looks pretty cool. , if you're on Skype let her watch the sh*t in front of you, more time you don't have to be talking. Don't try to be someone you're not though. There are a billion people out there. Some people are meant to pass through your life, others are meant to stay in it. I don't care how much you think you like her, don't convince her you're someone you're not just so you can be with her. You'll get stuck or hurt and eventually hate her, I promise. Be you, because you is awesome. Are you to the point where you can be honest with her or are you still on the "I'm trying to win her over" stage? Maybe she has anxiety as well. We all have anxiety about something and sharing a real life emotion with someone you care about can open the door to caring about them more. You might be surprised what you find out about her. Don't take life too seriously man. Women, school, work, life, it's a ride. Don't feel like you need to do things a certain way, behave a certain way, or be pressured by things that make you uncomfortable. That's not to say actions aren't without consequences, but trust that you know what makes you happy, better than anyone else, and that life has a way of working itself out. Plus, the whip it out joke was funny. It's ok to laugh too, even over your own insecurities. Like I said, we all have them. They just manifest in different ways, with different people. This is how you do it, ladies and gentlemen. Ask verifying questions. If she says "work was awful", you ask "work was awful?" and then shee will talk for at least 20 minutes about what happened.
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Post by BrIaNMeRcY on Jan 20, 2015 0:15:06 GMT -5
I would recommend trying out Google Hangouts. There are apps on there that you can play around with, which I've done with girls in the past. One of them you can put goofy hair/hats/glasses/mustaches/etc on each other and I guarantee at least the first time you can burn some time with that. There's also a Sporcle quiz app where you can do little quizzes with each other and show off some of your knowledge/let her pick some topics so she can do the same. It gives you something to do/talk about while you're video chatting instead of just awkwardly sitting there. Google Hangouts is a cool concept, but it isn't for everybody. Especially those who are socially akward like myself. When I had a MySpace and Facebook page, none of my former classmates reached out to me so I can hang out with them. I am content with that fact. Just stating from personal experience that everybody has some form of social issues. While I don't want to get into greater detail, relationships are not meant for me. Went through a nasty breakup in 2006, got rejected by a woman who I loved in 2012. I don't want neither to happen to me again. While I was taking a walk in my area, a bar had on a chalkboard sign stating, "Relationships are an expensive way to watch someone slowly like you less and less." I have to agree with the person who wrote this. I'd rather be the person I was designed to be, feeling content being the man I've became, and just live life adhering to my rules, not rules that other's have set forth for me. My greatest advice to you Sleazyness, just be yourself and let things happen organically.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 20, 2015 0:25:34 GMT -5
RKO her.
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Post by RSCTom on Jan 22, 2015 11:36:12 GMT -5
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