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Post by One Punch Reigns on Nov 27, 2015 10:28:39 GMT -5
I have no idea if this is the right place to put this, but if it's not, feel free to put it in a better spot.
Thanksgiving's a time where you're thankful for all you have. I was thankful for my family, friends, and especially the love of my life whom I've been dating for about 13 months. She was the total package: Smart, cute, and put up with me and my nerdiness like collecting figures and the like. I thought we were perfect and then out of the blue, she messages me and tell me it's over and she found somebody else. Basically she threw me away like yesterday's garbage.
I've been in a depression since then. I've tried finding things to numb the pain, but nothing's working. The worst part is that I highly doubt I'll find somebody else like she was so eager to replace me with. I honestly thought I was doing everything right and she kept telling me it's not my fault, but I call BS on that because why would she immediately cling to another guy if nothing was wrong with me?
Now I'm not looking forward to the Holidays because I have no one to spend them with. I could get everything I wanted and it wouldn't be worth it because what's the point if yo have nobody to spend time with?
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Post by LostHawk05 on Nov 27, 2015 11:25:14 GMT -5
Things happen for a reason, it will work out for you brother. Keep your head up.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 27, 2015 12:02:48 GMT -5
Oh jeez. That's horrible. Can't believe she would do that. I would try spending time with family on the holidays. They'll help you get through tough times.
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Post by BrIaNMeRcY on Nov 27, 2015 12:12:58 GMT -5
Reasons like this, I lost complete trust and faith in women. Being single has been the norm for me for close to ten years. i enjoy the freedom. Dating is so overrated.
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Post by marino13 on Nov 27, 2015 12:36:08 GMT -5
Before we get too far into this, how old are you? Because if you are young, you'll be fine. Several times over. If you are old then that may be a different story.
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Post by One Punch Reigns on Nov 27, 2015 12:39:50 GMT -5
I'm 22, going on 23 in December. Still somewhat young the rate people are dating these days, that's not saying much.
Right now I'm trying to fill the void by having dream matches in WWE 2k16.
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Post by Halloween King on Nov 27, 2015 12:41:59 GMT -5
That sucks.
Don't blame yourself. Just move on. There are so many women in the world you shouldnt linger on just one. Just take your time and relax, what will happen will happen on it's own.
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Post by marino13 on Nov 27, 2015 13:12:17 GMT -5
22? Well I'm sorry this happened. I used to be that age and getting dumped sucks hard. But I can promise you there will be many more. I couldn't tell you how many times I thought a girl was "the one", only to be surpassed by the next girl rather quickly.
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Post by Darkhawk on Nov 27, 2015 13:28:43 GMT -5
That's terrible man, people never realize that girls can just be straight out messed up. You're still pretty young, there will be a lot more girls in your life.
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Post by Escape The Rules on Nov 27, 2015 14:03:08 GMT -5
I'm really sorry to hear that man. I know how you're feeling because at the start of the year, I was there. And I'm 23 so we're in the exact same age group.
Long story short I was madly in love with this 'perfect' girl I'd known for 4 years when suddenly she cut off contact with me in February. I fell into a deep depression. At the time I never thought that I'd EVER be able to get over her because I was convinced that she was the one. Fast forward all these months later and I'm completely over her, any feelings I had for her are gone and I'm the happiest I've ever been.
I actually wrote about it a few days ago in a word document on my laptop just to see how far I've, reading it back and reliving the whole story made me realise just how strong I am as a person and how great a commodity life truly is. Don't ever blame yourself or think that you aren't good enough for anyone. By the sound of the story, you deserve way better than her.
I know it's hard and you may not see any light at the end of the tunnel right now, I felt the exact same way, but trust me: it will get better and you'll find yourself again.
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Post by One Punch Reigns on Nov 27, 2015 15:12:51 GMT -5
My issue is that I am not exactly what a woman would want. I'm not attractive, I'm pretty boring, and the only thing going for me is my college education, and even then I didn't pick a degree that'll land me big money.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 27, 2015 18:06:34 GMT -5
Girls like that are worth a dime a dozen....keep your head up.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 27, 2015 18:11:48 GMT -5
Homie, I'm 19 and I've only been on one date. I thought it went great, then she broke my heart, and I spiraled further into depression for a few months. Still, I listened to some good ol' Marilyn Manson and that got me right out of it. I don't recommend slicing your arm up though, that didn't solve anything for me at least.
I'm planning on going to WrestleMania completely alone actually.
You're so young, it hurts now, but trust me, you'll move on. I believe in Karma, and she'll get hers.
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Post by Nivro™ on Nov 27, 2015 18:16:12 GMT -5
At 22 you're just starting to get the tip wet. I could tell you to be vengeful and go find a chick on Craigslist that has an STD, pay her to flirt & sleep with the guy she left you with and then he will give it to her and then you get your revenge in the end but that would be petty...Id never do anything like that. Ill just leave you with this...Women are like sand on the beach. They're everywhere. Dont let it get you down. You're better off.
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Post by Mongo Bears on Nov 27, 2015 20:09:08 GMT -5
I didn't meet my wife until I was 23. Before that though,..... I was mackin ho's left and right if I'm gonna be honest lol
My first girlfriend ever broke up with me in 8th grade. I vowed to never get dumped again. So I dumped every other girl I dated until my wife. (One ex-girlfriend almost dumped me.....but I quickly dumped her first before she could haha)
You will be alright
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Post by "The Perfect Ten" Mizard on Nov 27, 2015 20:13:24 GMT -5
Listen to this song. It will make you feel better.
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Post by theMOESIAH on Nov 27, 2015 20:15:10 GMT -5
I have no idea if this is the right place to put this, but if it's not, feel free to put it in a better spot. Thanksgiving's a time where you're thankful for all you have. I was thankful for my family, friends, and especially the love of my life whom I've been dating for about 13 months. She was the total package: Smart, cute, and put up with me and my nerdiness like collecting figures and the like. I thought we were perfect and then out of the blue, she messages me and tell me it's over and she found somebody else. Basically she threw me away like yesterday's garbage. I've been in a depression since then. I've tried finding things to numb the pain, but nothing's working. The worst part is that I highly doubt I'll find somebody else like she was so eager to replace me with. I honestly thought I was doing everything right and she kept telling me it's not my fault, but I call BS on that because why would she immediately cling to another guy if nothing was wrong with me? Now I'm not looking forward to the Holidays because I have no one to spend them with. I could get everything I wanted and it wouldn't be worth it because what's the point if yo have nobody to spend time with? I'm curious about the title you chose for this thread. Throughout your relationship, were you waiting for her to "wise up" and leave?
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Post by One Punch Reigns on Nov 27, 2015 21:52:16 GMT -5
^Kind of, yes. I've never been good with women, and the fact this one stuck by my side for a year astounds me.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 27, 2015 23:42:33 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that mate.
I can't relate as I'm 33 and have a laundry list of mental 'issues' but moreover - I don't want a girlfriend/wife. I'm perfectly fine on my own.
I do sympathise though - to be discarded as simply as you did is heinous behaviour on her part.
Here's hoping you find what you're looking for...the passage of time will hurt though.
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Post by ¡Twist Of Cinnamon! on Nov 28, 2015 7:08:09 GMT -5
Best thing you can do? Bang her mom.
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