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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 11:54:03 GMT -5
Hi I'm 14 5 foot 5 166 lbs I'm not really in a rush it will come alone eventually but ATM school is the most important thing and I'm not shy to say what I need to say in class and joke flirt with the teacher i say I love you, honey and all that but I am shy talking to girls in class and asking one out face to face but just to know when did you have your first gf,and just to know what am I in high school geek or what ever I have my friends a group from class like 10/12 from the boys are my friends I can talk to the girls if I need a favor if they need and in class I speak to the one next to me but she sometimes does not answer me so I don't talk at all and her messages take long time so I don't message but we talk sometimes in class and I talk to a few but not something important I have friends from other classes and some older than me but this Saturday I'm going to a birthday of a friend who is going to be 16 and another one who will be 15 and tomrrow is the semester party 9-12 graders and that's all I'm sorry that it's long and ps every girl I asked out rejected me but yea I'm very young lol
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Post by Deleted on Feb 3, 2016 12:07:31 GMT -5
You have a crush on your teacher?
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Post by Sizzle on Feb 3, 2016 12:18:50 GMT -5
Hi I'm 14 5 foot 5 166 lbs I'm not really in a rush it will come alone eventually but ATM school is the most important thing and I'm not shy to say what I need to say in class and joke flirt with the teacher i say I love you, honey and all that but I am shy talking to girls in class and asking one out face to face but just to know when did you have your first gf,and just to know what am I in high school geek or what ever I have my friends a group from class like 10/12 from the boys are my friends I can talk to the girls if I need a favor if they need and in class I speak to the one next to me but she sometimes does not answer me so I don't talk at all and her messages take long time so I don't message but we talk sometimes in class and I talk to a few but not something important I have friends from other classes and some older than me but this Saturday I'm going to a birthday of a friend who is going to be 16 and another one who will be 15 and tomrrow is the semester party 9-12 graders and that's all I'm sorry that it's long and ps every girl I asked out rejected me but yea I'm very young lol
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Post by Ben - #6 Munchie on Feb 3, 2016 12:19:31 GMT -5
My eyes hurt from trying to read that
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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 12:19:46 GMT -5
You have a crush on your teacher? No it's a joke that I do sometimes lol
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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 12:20:23 GMT -5
Hi I'm 14 5 foot 5 166 lbs I'm not really in a rush it will come alone eventually but ATM school is the most important thing and I'm not shy to say what I need to say in class and joke flirt with the teacher i say I love you, honey and all that but I am shy talking to girls in class and asking one out face to face but just to know when did you have your first gf,and just to know what am I in high school geek or what ever I have my friends a group from class like 10/12 from the boys are my friends I can talk to the girls if I need a favor if they need and in class I speak to the one next to me but she sometimes does not answer me so I don't talk at all and her messages take long time so I don't message but we talk sometimes in class and I talk to a few but not something important I have friends from other classes and some older than me but this Saturday I'm going to a birthday of a friend who is going to be 16 and another one who will be 15 and tomrrow is the semester party 9-12 graders and that's all I'm sorry that it's long and ps every girl I asked out rejected me but yea I'm very young lol It's a joke and they know that sometimes they also go with the flow lol
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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 12:21:04 GMT -5
I'm cracking up hahah
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Post by Valbroski on Feb 3, 2016 12:53:39 GMT -5
imo its goofy when kids try and date that cant even drive.
I didn't start dating until I was 17 or 18 and I didn't have my first official girlfriend until I was 21. It's literally never been something I've been insecure about.
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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 12:59:49 GMT -5
imo its goofy when kids try and date that cant even drive. I didn't start dating until I was 17 or 18 and I didn't have my first official girlfriend until I was 21. It's literally never been something I've been insecure about. I can understand what you mean by dating before being able to drive but I've never went on a date so I don't care but driving is not the only thing sometimes walking taking the bus or I can even pick her up and we will ride on my electric bike it goes 15.5 mph but I don't have a gf so it does not matter
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Post by Sizzle on Feb 3, 2016 13:17:08 GMT -5
imo its goofy when kids try and date that cant even drive. I didn't start dating until I was 17 or 18 and I didn't have my first official girlfriend until I was 21. It's literally never been something I've been insecure about. I can understand what you mean by dating before being able to drive but I've never went on a date so I don't care but driving is not the only thing sometimes walking taking the bus or I can even pick her up and we will ride on my electric bike it goes 15.5 mph but I don't have a gf so it does not matter I think he meant that dating before a certain age is meaningless, which I happen to think. A few years back there was this couple that dated and took it way too seriously, and I knew the kid that was dating the girl and he knew it wasn't serious.. It was obvious that they didn't treat it as love but popularity. That's why I never dated when I was in middle school/early high school.
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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 13:25:11 GMT -5
I can understand what you mean by dating before being able to drive but I've never went on a date so I don't care but driving is not the only thing sometimes walking taking the bus or I can even pick her up and we will ride on my electric bike it goes 15.5 mph but I don't have a gf so it does not matter I think he meant that dating before a certain age is meaningless, which I happen to think. A few years back there was this couple that dated and took it way too seriously, and I knew the kid that was dating the girl and he knew it wasn't serious.. It was obvious that they didn't treat it as love but popularity. That's why I never dated when I was in middle school/early high school. Listen I can understand what you mean the only thing I don't understand why am I shy with girls and why was I always rejected and I'm happy I was always rejected but why am I shy I don't care bout the rejects but it makes it harder with girls why am I shy and I don't know what to do with the girl that sits next to me we talk sometimes in class and she sometimes does not answer sometimes she talks but not a lot it's hard for me to make a convo but why am I shy maybe cause I'm over weight?
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Post by Valbroski on Feb 3, 2016 13:25:20 GMT -5
I can understand what you mean by dating before being able to drive but I've never went on a date so I don't care but driving is not the only thing sometimes walking taking the bus or I can even pick her up and we will ride on my electric bike it goes 15.5 mph but I don't have a gf so it does not matter I think he meant that dating before a certain age is meaningless, which I happen to think. A few years back there was this couple that dated and took it way too seriously, and I knew the kid that was dating the girl and he knew it wasn't serious.. It was obvious that they didn't treat it as love but popularity. That's why I never dated when I was in middle school/early high school. I mean, people have gone on to marry their high school boyfriends and girlfriends. I'm not knocking anybody if they date one person for that long and make it work, I just think in general there are other things you should be focused on at that age that are way more important. Mainly school. Honestly, relationships at any age shouldn't trump having a direction in life. You should aspire to be more than just a boyfriend or girlfriend to somebody. I love my girlfriend and I'm happy in my relationship but she isn't always my number one priority. I'll put her above a lot of people but I still feel I have a better handle now more than ever on focusing on whats important for my overall success in life.
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Post by Ambrose-Asylum on Feb 3, 2016 13:27:51 GMT -5
I think he meant that dating before a certain age is meaningless, which I happen to think. A few years back there was this couple that dated and took it way too seriously, and I knew the kid that was dating the girl and he knew it wasn't serious.. It was obvious that they didn't treat it as love but popularity. That's why I never dated when I was in middle school/early high school. I mean, people have gone on to marry their high school boyfriends and girlfriends. I'm not knocking anybody if they date one person for that long and make it work, I just think in general there are other things you should be focused on at that age that are way more important. Mainly school. Honestly, relationships at any age shouldn't trump having a direction in life. You should aspire to be more than just a boyfriend or girlfriend to somebody. I love my girlfriend and I'm happy in my relationship but she isn't always my number one priority. I'll put her above a lot of people but I still feel I have a better handle now more than ever on focusing on whats important for my overall success in life. School is important because eventually you want to have a career so in the future you can raise a family and all that
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Post by Deleted on Feb 3, 2016 13:34:31 GMT -5
Not a single period.
Please stay in school.
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Post by T R W on Feb 3, 2016 14:46:16 GMT -5
That was extremely hard to read. Proper communication skills are something a women will appreciate.
As far as advice, just keep asking. Eventually someone will say yes. but if you get rejected a lot, think about who you are asking, why you are asking them, and what your approach is.
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Post by MacReady on Feb 3, 2016 14:52:52 GMT -5
Hi I'm 14 5 foot 5 166 lbs I'm not really in a rush it will come alone eventually but ATM school is the most important thing and I'm not shy to say what I need to say in class and joke flirt with the teacher i say I love you, honey and all that but I am shy talking to girls in class and asking one out face to face but just to know when did you have your first gf,and just to know what am I in high school geek or what ever I have my friends a group from class like 10/12 from the boys are my friends I can talk to the girls if I need a favor if they need and in class I speak to the one next to me but she sometimes does not answer me so I don't talk at all and her messages take long time so I don't message but we talk sometimes in class and I talk to a few but not something important I have friends from other classes and some older than me but this Saturday I'm going to a birthday of a friend who is going to be 16 and another one who will be 15 and tomrrow is the semester party 9-12 graders and that's all I'm sorry that it's long and ps every girl I asked out rejected me but yea I'm very young lol This post says otherwise.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 3, 2016 14:56:06 GMT -5
It would make sense if it was his English teacher who keeps rejecting him.
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Post by bad guy™ on Feb 3, 2016 15:07:54 GMT -5
Half trying to help, half trying to troll, the latter ruining the thread for everyone. Gonna lock this.
However, with a parting word of advice from one of the few in here attempting to be helpful and voices of reason, man to man though bud, a wrestling figure forum isn't the best place to get relationship advice. Talk to friends, people close to you, you won't get wiseass answers...most likely. Not that you can't talk about it here if you want to, but those threads generally degenerate into crap with no help for you.
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