Html [Or something] help / Music on Myspace

I am trying to create my own music player to put on myspace, but the tutorial sorta leaves questions unanswered.

www.poqbum.com/flashmp3players.html
Is the URL to the site.

Okay, I get to filelodge, and have a few files uploaded, and I made a play list thingy that looks like this:

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<songs>
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Blink%20182%20-%20First%20Date.m4a" title="Blink 182 - First Date" />
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Rancid%20-%20Let%20Me%20Go.m4a" title="Rancid - Let Me Go" />
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Rancid%20-%20Radio.m4a" title="Rancid - Radio" />
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Rancid%20-%20Tropical%20London.m4a" title="Rancid - Tropical London" />
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Blink%20182%20-%20Another%20Girl%20Another%20Planet.m4a" title="Blink 182 - Another Girl Another Planet" />
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Blink%20182%20-%20The%20Rock%20Show.m4a" title="Blink 182 - The Rock Show" />
<song path="http://www.filelodge.com/files/hdd7/158248/Transplants%20-%20DJ%2C%20DJ.m4a" title="Transplants - DJ, DJ" />

And on step 18 / 19 it tells you to do some stuff, but I get confused there. Could someone help me? Please.