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Post by LtD73 on Jun 17, 2011 11:07:55 GMT -5
Ok I don't really post my personal stuff on here, i think i've maybe posted 2 really personal things from my life on here in the time that I've been here but i need peoples opinions on this because its getting to me. Ok so theres a group of friends i have, I'm always there for them when they need me, theyre always there for me, I'm nothing but nice to them whatever mood im in. But pretty much everyone else that i see just gets hate. I seriously have no idea why, as soon as i see someone i dont like in school, i snap, tell them to  off, tell them i hate them. I don't hate them, infact they've done nothing wrong to me. I don't know why i'm like that, 2 different extremes with different people, I started noticing it a few weeks ago, and it really hit me today when i was coming home from school, I don't know why i act like that towards them, it's like i can't control it. There's actually a few close friends that i have, who i've not spoke to for the past few weeks because i think i'll snap, tell them to off etc when i talk to them. So I'm asking my friends what they think is up with me, one of them said, it could be split personality or bi polar, and another friend says that it's nothing and i just need to relax. Please don't leave stupid comments  |
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Post by Deleted on Jun 17, 2011 11:11:14 GMT -5
Wait, you just tell people to off for no reason? Are you stressed out or something? |
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Post by LtD73 on Jun 17, 2011 11:12:38 GMT -5
Depends who it is, but pretty much...  its like, when im alone and have to do something in school, i dont want some annoying person trying to talk to me, when im trying to do something |
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Post by xbpx on Jun 17, 2011 11:17:51 GMT -5
Well, you may be a bipolar. I'm a bipolar, too.
If you are surrounded by good people then everything will be ok.
A lot of people are bipolar and maybe you're not as affected as it seems.
Be patient.
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Post by bencw on Jun 17, 2011 11:34:09 GMT -5
You can't just label yourself with a psychological disorder. Split personality? Bi polar? Really? It's not that simple. I think too many kids assume they have problems like this nowadays, there's probably nothing wrong with you. You need to see a doctor if you think that before even considering it. I'm sure you can control your behaviour.
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Post by spamdfms101 on Jun 17, 2011 11:45:44 GMT -5
Ive sorta noticed you like that on here. You dont go that far but you seem to be hostile. I think you need to go see a therapist or a doctor. Telling peeps to fudge off for no reason doesnt seem healthy. Keep us updated on what you do.
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Post by TheXtremisT on Jun 17, 2011 12:21:17 GMT -5
Yeah you do seem that way even on here.
I don't think you can label yourself as bi-polar if you're not an expert in psychology.
The school you go to must have a nurse or someone you can talk to about it.
You should change the way you act to others as soon as you can, because one day you're going to get it back in the face and wonder why people will treat you like dirt. People will only put up with things like this for so long, before they themsleves snap, and you don't want things to turn physical.
You'll miss out on friendships, help from others and other benefits if you don't change your attitude.
If you're going to university or something after school, you're going to have a HUGE shock when it comes to meeting people.
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Post by Marzec on Jun 17, 2011 15:16:42 GMT -5
It doesnt really sound like bipolar disorder to me. I'm not an expert but I was recently diagnosed as being bipolar. It sounds to me like you really just have a low tolerance for other people. It happens. I know plenty of people that are just anti-social. They have a few people that they are close with but generally dislike everybody else.
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Post by Deep Figure Value on Jun 17, 2011 15:37:17 GMT -5
Last time I checked, bi-polar disorder wasn't defined by being a right prick to people for no reason.
More than likely, you've got an anger problem, and should probably look into some sort of anger management, because as someone said earlier, that sort of attitude is going to get you knocked flat on your a** in the real world.
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Post by Lord Ragnarok on Jun 17, 2011 15:41:28 GMT -5
This is the sort of thing you should be talking to either therapist or psychiatrist about and asking their opinion on the matter. This is the last place you should go to for advice on this sort of thing.
But since you did come here, I have to say it sounds like you might be bi-polar. Again, I would seek professional help if I were you, not only can they diagnose your problem(s), but they can also prescribe the right medication, which could help out significantly.
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Post by bencw on Jun 17, 2011 15:54:16 GMT -5
But since you did come here, I have to say it sounds like you might be bi-polar. Again, I would seek professional help if I were you, not only can they diagnose your problem(s), but they can also prescribe the right medication, which could help out significantly. It is beyond me how you can say that based on what he has said. No offence, but i agree with SYE. Maybe you just need to grow up a bit? I'm no expert at all, but i've done work on affective disorders, and to be diagnosed with a disorder like bi-polar, you have to 'tick' a lot of boxes, and I'm sure the symptoms are a bit more irrational, uncontrollable and common (over a longer period of time than a few weeks). IMO I'd just go for a few more weeks and try to control your behaviour. If not...then go see a professional. |
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Post by TheXtremisT on Jun 17, 2011 15:57:52 GMT -5
I'll tell you what, and I ain't an expert, but I'll take a well-educated guess that seems pretty obvious at the end of the day: you aren't bi-polar.
Look at it this way: if you were bi-polar, you wouldn't just be rude to people you don't like, you'd be rude to your friends as well. The fact you're nice to your friends and not to people you don't know/like isn't bi-polar: it's downright disrespectful and spiteful behaviour.
If you were bi-polar, you'd have mood swings, and be happy one minute and bad-tempered the next. The fact you haven't mentioned this pretty much confirms to me you aren't bi-polar, you're just bad-mannered.
Just my opinion so take it however you want.
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Post by zappa2510 on Jun 17, 2011 16:00:38 GMT -5
should go see a doctor...and atleast your not at the point of rkoing people yet  |
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Post by Lord Ragnarok on Jun 17, 2011 16:03:55 GMT -5
But since you did come here, I have to say it sounds like you might be bi-polar. Again, I would seek professional help if I were you, not only can they diagnose your problem(s), but they can also prescribe the right medication, which could help out significantly. It is beyond me how you can say that based on what he has said. No offence, but i agree with SYE. Maybe you just need to grow up a bit? I'm no expert at all, but i've done work on affective disorders, and to be diagnosed with a disorder like bi-polar, you have to 'tick' a lot of boxes, and I'm sure the symptoms are a bit more irrational, uncontrollable and common (over a longer period of time than a few weeks). IMO I'd just go for a few more weeks and try to control your behaviour. If not...then go see a professional. And why is that? It sounds like a psychological problem, therefore, he should see a psychiatrist. I swear to God, you people just love getting on my case for everything. |
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Post by bencw on Jun 17, 2011 16:16:05 GMT -5
It is beyond me how you can say that based on what he has said. No offence, but i agree with SYE. Maybe you just need to grow up a bit? I'm no expert at all, but i've done work on affective disorders, and to be diagnosed with a disorder like bi-polar, you have to 'tick' a lot of boxes, and I'm sure the symptoms are a bit more irrational, uncontrollable and common (over a longer period of time than a few weeks). IMO I'd just go for a few more weeks and try to control your behaviour. If not...then go see a professional. And why is that? It sounds like a psychological problem, therefore, he should see a psychiatrist. I swear to God, you people just love getting on my case for everything. No, I understand you saying about seeing a Dr, but not about saying that you think he is bi polar. I'm not trying to be a dick, because tbh I don't actually know you, I just don't know how you can come to that conclusion. |
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Post by spamdfms101 on Jun 17, 2011 16:17:04 GMT -5
It is beyond me how you can say that based on what he has said. No offence, but i agree with SYE. Maybe you just need to grow up a bit? I'm no expert at all, but i've done work on affective disorders, and to be diagnosed with a disorder like bi-polar, you have to 'tick' a lot of boxes, and I'm sure the symptoms are a bit more irrational, uncontrollable and common (over a longer period of time than a few weeks). IMO I'd just go for a few more weeks and try to control your behaviour. If not...then go see a professional. And why is that? It sounds like a psychological problem, therefore, he should see a psychiatrist. I swear to God, you people just love getting on my case for everything. He wasnt saying that because you said go see a therapist. He was saying it because you said you think hes bi-polar, and he doesnt think he is bi-polar based on the info given. |
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Post by Lord Ragnarok on Jun 17, 2011 16:19:37 GMT -5
Well IDK, it sounded like bi polar to me, but I'm not a doctor so of course I wouldn't know. That's why I said it's best to go see a professional, even before I gave my opinion.
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Post by bencw on Jun 17, 2011 16:25:54 GMT -5
Well IDK, it sounded like bi polar to me, but I'm not a doctor so of course I wouldn't know. That's why I said it's best to go see a professional, even before I gave my opinion. Yeah sure, sorry. I just think though sometimes people do have problems, a lot just don't help themselves. Like it just seems more and more common for kids to be diagnosed with ADHD/ASPD etc, and its a shame to see kids on medication. |
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Post by TheXtremisT on Jun 17, 2011 16:48:17 GMT -5
Well IDK, it sounded like bi polar to me, but I'm not a doctor so of course I wouldn't know. That's why I said it's best to go see a professional, even before I gave my opinion. Yeah sure, sorry. I just think though sometimes people do have problems, a lot just don't help themselves. Like it just seems more and more common for kids to be diagnosed with ADHD/ASPD etc, and its a shame to see kids on medication. I blame the parents  |
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Post by Richikane on Jun 18, 2011 4:55:14 GMT -5
You can't just label yourself with a psychological disorder. Split personality? Bi polar? Really? It's not that simple. I think too many kids assume they have problems like this nowadays, there's probably nothing wrong with you. You need to see a doctor if you think that before even considering it. I'm sure you can control your behaviour. People in general throw disorders around too much. Your just going through the years where you'll feel like that sometimes. Being a teen has its rough spots. We would literally have to know pages about you to fully give you real solid advice. My guess would be that your just going through an anti-social period of your teens. Some people also just don't like bothering with people they aren't friends with. I wouldn't worry about unless it starts driving your actual friends away. I don't feel like what you described at all but theres been times where I wont answer friends calls for a few days because I just don't feel like talking to them, doesn't mean I have any problems, ya know? |
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I dont know good luck 
