The Solution
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Post by The Solution on Feb 22, 2012 20:49:15 GMT -5
Haha here's a good one for you...
So I haven't spoken to my ex girlfriend in 2 1/2 years, and I recently found out that the guy she was dating broke up with her. I'm thinking of contacting her, any suggestions?
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Post by jake4698 on Feb 22, 2012 20:51:46 GMT -5
Don't. Besides if you love her that much, you still can try, but If I was you, I won't.
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Post by Jesseversion1 on Feb 22, 2012 21:01:17 GMT -5
Call her and tell her you still have feeling for her? Only thing you can really do other then trying to forget about her.
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Post by DontHassleTheHoff on Feb 22, 2012 21:02:15 GMT -5
Move on. Don't be a rebound. Don't go back to past mistakes and miss out on the chances of something new.
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The Solution
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Post by The Solution on Feb 22, 2012 21:04:12 GMT -5
I'm not still in love with her at all, it's been awhile. However, she was a good friend first, and not having her in that capacity all of this time has kind of sucked.
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Post by DontHassleTheHoff on Feb 22, 2012 21:09:03 GMT -5
I think she may see it abit wierd, even if it's just to reform your friendship, she may see it as you trying to come on to her. And besides, you've said yourself, it's been 2 and a half years, you would be amazed how much people can change in that time. You may not like what you find. I'd leave the past where it is and get on with things.
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Post by The Solution on Feb 22, 2012 21:11:02 GMT -5
i'd say i've changed a hell of a lot the past 2 1/2 years, who knows about her. if i could get one more boneage on that would be cool though haha
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Post by DontHassleTheHoff on Feb 22, 2012 21:12:20 GMT -5
Hahah, don't be that guy! Seek a "Boneage" from elsewhere!
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Post by The Solution on Feb 22, 2012 21:13:25 GMT -5
I'm not trying to be that guy, but I wouldn't turn it away lol
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Post by DontHassleTheHoff on Feb 22, 2012 21:17:13 GMT -5
Well no, but still, if you suddenly start talking to her again right after she's broken up, she's bound to catch on to what you're after, by all means try, but I think you're better off just finding someone new. But hey, it's your call!
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Post by The Solution on Feb 22, 2012 21:19:01 GMT -5
I've been through plenty of new, it's just been such a long time since we've spoken and things ended badly so I'd like to clear the air.
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Post by DontHassleTheHoff on Feb 22, 2012 21:23:25 GMT -5
It's quite a while to start clearing the air, i'm sure the dust has settled and it's all ancient history. You could go for it, but remember it's a gamble, it could make things better, or you could always end up making things worse! Best of luck, either way  |
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Post by I Am Perfection on Feb 22, 2012 21:28:35 GMT -5
Ex's are ex's for a reason. dont bother. let it be
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Post by The Solution on Feb 22, 2012 21:35:30 GMT -5
haha what's the worst that can happen? i haven't had any contact with her in years already
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Feb 22, 2012 22:21:12 GMT -5
Just say something like hey heard you broke up with whoever are you ok and your there for her if she needs something. Stuff like that
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Post by chillax on Feb 22, 2012 22:25:57 GMT -5
Well, you don't wanna be Chasing Amy all your life. You can try contacting her but that doesn't mean she'll respond - been there, done that.
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Post by James Hetfield on Feb 22, 2012 22:35:33 GMT -5
Don't do it. Seriously.
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Post by HHH316 on Feb 22, 2012 22:48:10 GMT -5
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Post by Greg Weinstein on Feb 22, 2012 23:04:21 GMT -5
If you want a STD, contact her. If you don't, don't.
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Post by Dat guy ova der on Feb 22, 2012 23:37:45 GMT -5
I think it's funny how you asked for opinions, but then reject every single person who has said not to do it. You obviously want to talk to her, and obviously none of us know the full story. As far as I can see, you've already made up your mind to do it...
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