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Post by Halloween King on Jul 9, 2013 1:00:35 GMT -5
If you are familiar with some of my previous posts youll remember I said I've been molested by people. I've had people touch me for no reason other than to feel me. I've had two women tell me pretty much that they would have there way with me. I even had an elderly gentleman make advances towards me.
Today at work I had ANOTHER woman come on to me. Someone had already told me that she was into me but I do not find her attractive in the slightest bit. Plus im happily married.
So today im walking into work and this woman runs up behind me and hugs me. Then she locks arms with me and follows my walking. I quickly swatted her arm away and told her "lets not play that way". I thought that was the end of it. Later on in the day she was in my truck..... i thought wtf. She took it upon herself to grab my phone. I asked her politely to give it back a number of times with no results. Finally I said she was making me late and that I had to go so she gave me my phone and left.
Then when i got back she rushed my truck and said she had left her lipstick in my truck. I let her look for it and once she found it I asked her to get out which she refused to do. She thinks its a game I guess? Eventually I got her to get out but before I came home she again ran up to me and this time touched my behind and legs and inbetween.
I swatted her away again and told her to stop as I walked away.
Now im in a position where I dont know what to do. I want to keep things professional. But I also dont want to continue to be nice to someone who I want as far away from me as possible. I seriously felt like pushing her away but I was affraid it would be taken as me hitting her. And like I said I think of myself as a polite person so I dont want her to get fired or anything but I also dont want this to continue.
I vent here because I cant tell my wife about this.
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Post by Kliquid on Jul 9, 2013 1:03:08 GMT -5
If she does it again, report her. Don't up your marriage over some nasty hoe.
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Post by slappy on Jul 9, 2013 1:07:48 GMT -5
I'd say call the police but I think they'd just laugh off a guy reporting a woman doing all that.
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Post by Halloween King on Jul 9, 2013 1:09:11 GMT -5
If she does it again, report her. Don't up your marriage over some nasty hoe. It's some girl who im not at all interested in. I would never do anything with her so it wouldnt affect my marriage. Im just not into being bothered. Im sure if I did the same to her, and she was like me in not wanting anything to do with me, Id be in handcuffs right now. Booked on sexual assult charges.
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Post by Halloween King on Jul 9, 2013 1:13:02 GMT -5
I'd say call the police but I think they'd just laugh off a guy reporting a woman doing all that. I thought this too. Plus I think I'd also be laughed at by other coworkers. It just happens so often that im fed up. It seems like every other month I have something like this happen to me. I've considered letting myself go. Just not wearing clean clothes to work, not shaving, not brushing teeth, anything to seem like a slob. But it's not me and how would I explain that to my wife.
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Post by slappy on Jul 9, 2013 1:14:49 GMT -5
I would tell your wife before this crazy women decides to get in contact with her and spread lies about you.
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Post by Halloween King on Jul 9, 2013 1:20:07 GMT -5
I would tell your wife before this crazy women decides to get in contact with her and spread lies about you. Im not worried about that. When ever work calls my home phone number I never pick up. Only 1 person at my job knows my cell number and that bond is tight so she'd never get that number. Plus one look at this woman and my wife would know what ever lies she tells her are false. Im a pretty picky guy when it comes to my women.
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Post by Darkhawk on Jul 9, 2013 2:36:25 GMT -5
You should bring your wife with you next time just so she can back up and leave you alone. OR you can just report her for sexual harassment.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2013 2:43:31 GMT -5
I don't know who you are trying to impress with your fake stories.
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Post by Escape The Rules on Jul 9, 2013 3:27:05 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2013 7:37:14 GMT -5
I, too, hate it when women constantly touch me and keep putting their hands on me.
It's very difficult having to swat hunnies away like flies on a daily basis.
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Post by bababooey on Jul 9, 2013 7:52:18 GMT -5
Report her. If anyone laughs they aren't doing their job and they should be ashamed of themselves. Why should you have to be uncomfortable at work? They wouldn't tolerate it if the situation was reversed.
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Post by JC Motors on Jul 9, 2013 9:03:57 GMT -5
I'd sue for Sexual Harassment
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Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2013 9:27:33 GMT -5
RKO her.
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Post by P@ul on Jul 9, 2013 11:25:58 GMT -5
The longer you let it go on, the longer she will think it's ok. "No" doesn't always mean no to these people. I'd say you flat out explain to her that if this happens again, you're going to your supervisor and complaining of sexual harassment. Also, you need to not let her into your vehicle anymore. She left her lipstick in there? Oh well, you'll bring it to her desk the next morning when there are more people around then just the two of you.
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Jul 9, 2013 11:26:36 GMT -5
Part of me thinks this is so ridiculously fake it's pathetic. I know it's rough being so ruggedly handsome that you literally have to spend part of every day rejecting overt sexual advances. I can't imagine how hard that must be.
On the off chance this is real, then the answer is simple. Report her to her employer. This isn't a bar. This is a business and behavior like this is unprofessional at the very least. If your company laughs off a report like this, then you need to find another employer. Why in the world would you NOT tell your wife?
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Post by P@ul on Jul 9, 2013 11:28:07 GMT -5
Also in my experience the other party won't continue the behaviour unless it is acknowledged. I'm not saying you did anything wrong, but you must have in some way given her the idea that this is ok, otherwise she should have dropped it a while ago.
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Post by Halloween King on Jul 9, 2013 12:28:17 GMT -5
I dont consider myself handsome at all. I dont even consider myself to be in good shape. When I was younger and single I never had these issues, but since I got married it's like being married made me into a magnet for unwanted attention.
I dont know what im going to do to be honest. I have thought about it and at most I might see this woman that bothered me yesterday three times a week. I think what will end up happening if this continues is I will talk to her and tell her that I do not like her and dont want her near me. Hopefully that will end it.
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Post by HHH316 on Jul 9, 2013 13:05:42 GMT -5
I'd report here. If you don't do something about it, her next game might be to show up in your truck naked.
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Jul 9, 2013 13:41:56 GMT -5
I dont consider myself handsome at all. I dont even consider myself to be in good shape. When I was younger and single I never had these issues, but since I got married it's like being married made me into a magnet for unwanted attention. I dont know what im going to do to be honest. I have thought about it and at most I might see this woman that bothered me yesterday three times a week. I think what will end up happening if this continues is I will talk to her and tell her that I do not like her and dont want her near me. Hopefully that will end it. Why in the world would you not report her? Why in the world would you continue to work some where where you are actually harassed on a daily basis? Why on the world would you not tell your wife? Why in the world would you spend any time at all wringing your hands over this? This is why I think this crap is beyond fake. Sent from my GT-N8013 using proboards
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