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Post by ricflair4ever on May 16, 2016 1:56:01 GMT -5
As a newlywed myself ,i completely get where you're coming from. Thankfully ,things may be tight, but I'm not in the position where ihave to sell anything off. But I've been there in the past. I wish you and your wife the best and have fun continuing the Star Wars Black collection. That should still provide plenty of fulfillment of your hobby,some cool stuff coming out there. Good luck buddy.
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Post by Deleted on May 16, 2016 2:03:00 GMT -5
Good luck with life, it's tough, so we need luck sometimes. But as you've proved, you make your own.
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Post by Chicago on May 16, 2016 2:08:10 GMT -5
It's been a pleasure of mine to add refs for you, and thank you for paving the way for someone like me to become a Classifieds mod. You've been so much more than just a mod in your years here on WF, and I think it shows by the number of responses you've received thus far. Thank you for being a role model to the rest of us collectors, and best of luck to you, your wife and your fur baby in the years ahead. See you down the road!
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Post by wwefanlol on May 16, 2016 2:14:20 GMT -5
If you dont like him why post in his thread jerk off. You clearly stopped reading after 4 words Not a good habit Lol, I dont see why you come to someones thread and say you dont like them then wish them well, stupid if you ask me.
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Post by THE *Legendary* STINGER on May 16, 2016 2:22:49 GMT -5
Been apart of this forum for 12 years. I've had a ton of life changes. Kids, marriage etc. Haven't had financial issues to where I had to sell my figs. Good luck bud. Hope her health gets better.
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Post by SteveHulk on May 16, 2016 2:30:55 GMT -5
Good luck to you sir!
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Post by ⋔ 4 ℞ ℞ $ on May 16, 2016 2:41:53 GMT -5
Hey all, I figured I would post this here since this is the section of the forum I spent most of my time in. I will probably post in a few other sections that I post in frequently as well. For all of you who knew me throughout the years on this forum, I used to collect A LOT of Mattel figures and just last August, I sold them all off. There was no reason behind it other than my interests falling away from wrestling. I actually canceled my subscription to the network then and have yet to turn on a WWE program probably since September. I put my focus into other collections, like my Star Wars and Batman stuff. Recently, my wife developed vocal nodules from her teaching job and had to take a medical leave. With that came her not being able to collect (since it was authorized through her school) and not getting paid the past few months. Obviously, this caused some tension, especially because she has not been able to find a new job since. My wife and I have been married for almost three years now. We have 1 fur baby, our Sheltie named Quincy, and for a while, things were going great, but within the past few months, we really had some rough times. We were fighting more, arguing over stupid things and most importantly, really started to drift away. I couldn't take it anymore. I knew that a decision had to be made. I love my wife and the life we have together. I want it to continue on, regardless of the sacrifices I have to make. So a few weeks ago, I made the decision, despite her disagreement, to sell off almost everything I owned. I sold off so many figures, toys, video games, etc. I also picked up more hours at work. I recently just sold off the last thing I had from my collection and I have to say, knowing that I am putting my love and my life with her first has been such an amazing feeling. It is very unfortunate that she recently came up with the health issues, but, unfortunately, it is the bad things in life that make us really stop and think about the good we have. I couldn't let myself take my personal hobbies and my material things get in the way of what she and I have; a very healthy and happy life together. Luckily, She didn't want me to sell off EVERYTHING, so she did convince me to hang on to my Star Wars Black Series figures. Star Wars is such a huge part of me, that she didn't want to see me lose everything. However, if it comes down to it, I will have no issues selling them off to keep us together and to make sure we don't fall into financial issues because of me wanting to continue collecting.SHe said she didn't want to see me give it all up, but I told her I had no issues. If it comes down to it again and we need the money, I will in a heart beat sell off that stuff for her. Again, I hope everyone realizes that this was my own doing. She would never push me to give up anything that I enjoy but I knew it had to be done and I WAS the one who made the decision to sell it all. Really, the point of all of this was I wanted to say thank you to anyone and everyone who made this forum a great place to come to and talk to others about hobbies. With that in mind, I think I will be deleting my account to step away and have a fresh start. It will probably be sometime this week, but it won't be immediate. Just want to tie up a few loose ends with everything and I will be on my way. This has been a great ride and I wish all of you well on your future endeavors, whatever they may be. Maybe some day I will return, but who knows. All I do know is that I am very happy with my decision and I encourage everyone to make sure you have your priorities in line and really think about what is important in your life. I had so much fun throughout the years. The funny posts, the finding of figures, the news of upcoming lineups, the time I spent as a Classifieds MOD, was all great and I regret none of it! Thank you all again! Dude, I must say, what you have done is wholeheartedly admirable! Love is a truly beautiful thing worth fighting for in life above anything/all else! You get it entirely, and positive Karma will reward you one day for being a commendable, good heart-bearing being/soul. I just wanted to tell ya that, without even knowing ya personally, or even on the forums really at all either, because sometimes from afar hearing kind words can bring brightness & a world of warmth to a person. Reading your post touched me and I perceive nothing but honor & dignity in what you wrote. Thus, may harmonious, serene, divine, blissful blessings be with you & yours throughout your hopefully ONLY wedded happiness from here on out, forever & always! Additionally, I'd be willing to wager that your wife will appreciate fully with utmost gratitude your sacrifices for unconditional love that you have shared together & my best wishes to you of luck, as well as my sincerest hopes that you no longer need to encounter/endure turbulent turmoil going forward, sir! Albeit there are always hangups, hiccups & speed-bumps along the obstacle-laden crossroads & intersections we approach throughout our Earthly existences. Hence forth, any that do inevitably come up, I pray that for a person like yourself they are few & far between, or at the least minor besides minimal. Thanks for expressing your story on here with the community. It's always awesome to hear that hardships can still draw two soulmates closer together in loving embrace, as the proverbial light at the end of the tunnels filled with darkness! Obviously, the negative stuff will turn around too and come out the other side for y'all...I truly do believe that! Alas, it appears deserved! I hope from time to time you check in & give positive updates, unless of course you are superstitious about jinxing any ongoing, euphoric utopia--whatever that is to you/any independent individual, which is all that matters, generally speaking--given unto your small family from the celestial stars above. Take care, and peace & love be with ya, Mista!
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Post by Deleted on May 16, 2016 3:26:06 GMT -5
Top lad. Takes a lot of unselfishness to do that.
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Post by shortboy on May 16, 2016 4:18:07 GMT -5
I don't know you as I've only recently joined the forums but I must applaud you for being able to essentially let go a hobby of yours for a loved one. And willingly, too. It's rare to find someone that can do that.
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Post by The Mask of Truth on May 16, 2016 5:42:58 GMT -5
Your screen name just doesn't look right without the green letters. You're a cool dude and I commend you for putting your priorities in order. It takes a selfless person to make sacrifices for the better of the team. Good luck to you and your wife going forward, and in annoying Mask Of Truth fashion I leave you with this.... because you sir are worthy!
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Post by King Silva on May 16, 2016 5:55:45 GMT -5
That sucks things for you have been rough.
I wish you the best.
Still if you want to take a break (no matter how long it is) I don't see why you would have to delete your account.
It is your choice though.
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Post by Vamp55 on May 16, 2016 6:45:45 GMT -5
Cheers bro, good luck to you and yours.
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Post by stoptheclocks on May 16, 2016 6:49:52 GMT -5
All the best mate! You'll be missed.
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Post by dpd1967 on May 16, 2016 7:28:06 GMT -5
All the best to you and your wife
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Post by Old School Collector on May 16, 2016 7:43:43 GMT -5
Not meaning this is any sort of negative way towards you or your girl, but is she making these same sacrifices as you are ? Meaning, is she selling things exc exc ? No offense, as what your heart is telling you to do for her is all good, but like many others have said ... be careful. I sold mine off, and it was one of the biggest mistakes thay I've ever done... she ended up leaving anyways. Bottom line is, you seem like a really good dude and you are 1000% into your wife, which is awesome and exactly how it should be, but just remember that you guys don't have any kids (besides that pet) and besides the arguing and illness, what happens when the $$ runs out from you selling off your stuff ? Will she go right back to how she's being now ? Again, not being negative or anything, it's just something that I went through and deeply regretted it ... actually makes me feel stupid, but love/feeling is blind. Either way, you seem to have your priorities in check, just hope its for the best I wish you the best, brother !
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Post by Deleted on May 16, 2016 8:02:22 GMT -5
Not meaning this is any sort of negative way towards you or your girl, but is she making these same sacrifices as you are ? Meaning, is she selling things exc exc ? No offense, as what your heart is telling you to do for her is all good, but like many others have said ... be careful. I sold mine off, and it was one of the biggest mistakes thay I've ever done... she ended up leaving anyways. Bottom line is, you seem like a really good dude and you are 1000% into your wife, which is awesome and exactly how it should be, but just remember that you guys don't have any kids (besides that pet) and besides the arguing and illness, what happens when the $$ runs out from you selling off your stuff ? Will she go right back to how she's being now ? Again, not being negative or anything, it's just something that I went through and deeply regretted it ... actually makes me feel stupid, but love/feeling is blind. Either way, you seem to have your priorities in check, just hope its for the best I wish you the best, brother ! She really doesn't buy anything other than clothes and such and she has given up purchases since December. I know because I balance the accounts. Plus, the first year we were married, I was finishing up school and she was the only one working, so I guess this is my way of paying her back for supporting us for the first year.
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Post by BrianBaker on May 16, 2016 9:38:11 GMT -5
I wish you well, Coon. I always liked your posts here.
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Post by CampCornette on May 16, 2016 9:48:48 GMT -5
I never liked you but I hope your wife gets healthy and that you guys have a long and happy marriage. If you dont like him why post in his thread jerk off. Because arguing about dolls isn't real life, hence why I wished him luck.
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Post by kgchampion on May 16, 2016 11:01:35 GMT -5
Totally get it. The wife and I are having money issues while I finish my degree and we've both had to put what we dig on the back burner (toys for me, clothes for her). It sucks and the struggle is real. Luckily, I haven't had to sell anything yet, but she's made unbelievable sacrifices for me, so I'd be willing if it comes to it, so I get it.
You've been an amusing member and I enjoyed you.
Just a side note to you youngsters: go to college and finish as soon as you can. Go to community college if you have to. Don't wait. Life is harder without it. Just get a degree. Something in STEM if possible. Your future self will thank you.
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Post by Deleted on May 16, 2016 13:57:06 GMT -5
I have to say, all of these kind words are very much appreciated, by the both of us.
You all remind me what is so great about this place and how great you've all made it over the years.
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