Negan™
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 14:59:40 GMT -5
Oh, yeah. You're definitely over it... 🙄 You're not the "bad guy", so I dunno why you'd accuse me of painting you as such. You just aren't owed anything from her and you'll probably never hear from her again. It is what it is. I'm over her but I guess I'm not over what happened that night. To be honest, I don't think I ever will be. I think if the roles were reversed, everyone would be calling me a dick. But the way you're wording it makes it sound like " Oh you only went on three dates with her so it was YOUR fault for thinking you're owed something from her even though SHE asked you out." I wasn't expecting her to do anything. I just thought I was owed the respect of not having that done to me. I would have appreciated her to have the common descency to at least text me the next day. That's all. Unfortunately being a nice guy gets you all in this world. If I treated her like crap, I bet she would still be texting me. Funny how true this is.
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gawd6sic6™
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Post by gawd6sic6™ on Apr 7, 2017 14:59:54 GMT -5
Oh, yeah. You're definitely over it... 🙄 You're not the "bad guy", so I dunno why you'd accuse me of painting you as such. You just aren't owed anything from her and you'll probably never hear from her again. It is what it is. Let's not forget that he ran out and hand a one night stand..... That's how you get over things right??
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:06:03 GMT -5
Oh, yeah. You're definitely over it... 🙄 You're not the "bad guy", so I dunno why you'd accuse me of painting you as such. You just aren't owed anything from her and you'll probably never hear from her again. It is what it is. Let's not forget that he ran out and hand a one night stand..... That's how you get over things right?? Why not? She's probably plowing some other guy right now. And I bet he didn't treat her half as good as I did either. The way I see it is, I have nothing to feel guilty about. And if I did what she did to a girl? I would feel terrible. I wouldn't be taking selfies in the bathroom a couple of minutes later... I was taught a lot that night.
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Post by Triple S on Apr 7, 2017 15:06:53 GMT -5
No. Has nothing to do with how anyone was treated. She as a PERSON doesn't owe you as a PERSON squat. You think you're owed some sort of explanation, but you aren't and you'll probably never get one. You need to accept that.
You had/have these expectations in your mind (even though you claim that you don't) and they didn't come to fruition... but none of that matters. You keep saying you treated her nicely and she owes you an explanation because of that. Which couldn't be further from the truth.
It hurts to be rejected and you'll probably never see this girl again, but it is what it is. Deal with it. Point blank: she doesn't care about you. It's obvious.
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Negan™
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:09:54 GMT -5
No. Has nothing to do with how anyone was treated. She as a PERSON doesn't owe you as a PERSON squat. You think you're owed some sort of explanation, but you aren't and you'll probably never get one. You need to accept that. You had/have these expectations in your mind (even though you claim that you don't) and they didn't come to fruition... but none of that matters. You keep saying you treated her nicely and she owes you an explanation because of that. Which couldn't be further from the truth. It hurts to be rejected and you'll probably never see this girl again, but it is what it is. Deal with it. Point blank: she doesn't care about you. It's obvious. I disagree. I do deserve an explanation. Cause where I come from, nice people don't get treated like crap.
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gawd6sic6™
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Post by gawd6sic6™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:10:12 GMT -5
Let's not forget that he ran out and hand a one night stand..... That's how you get over things right?? Why not? She's probably plowing some other guy right now. And I bet he didn't treat her half as good as I did either. The way I see it is, I have nothing to feel guilty about. And if I did what she did to a girl? I would feel terrible. I wouldn't be taking selfies in the bathroom a couple of minutes later... I was taught a lot that night. Have you gave this girl an explanation as to why she was a one night stand? I'm sure she'd love to know you hit it and quit it because you were frustrated over a girl that didn't give you a reason for leaving you high and dry.
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Post by BSR on Apr 7, 2017 15:11:18 GMT -5
You can feel like she owes you an explanation or whatever all you want. You will never get it. So here's some advice. Stop posting crap like this because you'll always get this result, and it's pointless to ask people here anyway. Most of them have never even spoke to a girl. Its a board about wrestling figures. Not tinder or some crap. Chill. Chill the out. Find someone else, and don't take this past relationship out on her. Otherwise you'll never figure out how things actually work.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:12:02 GMT -5
Why not? She's probably plowing some other guy right now. And I bet he didn't treat her half as good as I did either. The way I see it is, I have nothing to feel guilty about. And if I did what she did to a girl? I would feel terrible. I wouldn't be taking selfies in the bathroom a couple of minutes later... I was taught a lot that night. Have you gave this girl an explanation as to why she was a one night stand? I'm sure she'd love to know you hit it and quit it because you were frustrated over a girl that didn't give you a reason for leaving you high and dry. We agreed to have a one night stand.
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Post by Triple S on Apr 7, 2017 15:13:06 GMT -5
No. Has nothing to do with how anyone was treated. She as a PERSON doesn't owe you as a PERSON squat. You think you're owed some sort of explanation, but you aren't and you'll probably never get one. You need to accept that. You had/have these expectations in your mind (even though you claim that you don't) and they didn't come to fruition... but none of that matters. You keep saying you treated her nicely and she owes you an explanation because of that. Which couldn't be further from the truth. It hurts to be rejected and you'll probably never see this girl again, but it is what it is. Deal with it. Point blank: she doesn't care about you. It's obvious. I disagree. I do deserve an explanation. Cause where I come from, nice people don't get treated like crap. And therein lies the problem. You care, she doesn't. That's life sometimes. It's probably gonna happen again too so you should probably accept it.
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Post by Ace Bennett on Apr 7, 2017 15:13:37 GMT -5
No one is saying what she did is right or wrong. In my mind, it's crappy, sure. I'll give you that. No one is saying you're the bad guy here either.
But she doesn't owe you anything just because the night didn't go the way you thought it should have. Doesn't matter that she asked you out or appeared to enjoy the first and/or second date. Doesn't matter that she was ignoring you and ruined any plans you had with your family. You went on three dates where it's entirely clear that you weren't in a committed relationship to one another. She can do whatever she wants. Maybe she thought you were being too clingy. Maybe she thought that comment you made earlier on in the night was weird and she didn't want to hang out with you. It doesn't matter, because she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. Move past it man, there are other fish in the sea as it's clear that you've found out already reading some of your other posts in the thread.
And no, treating a girl like crap to get with her is not the way to go about things. That's some messed up fedora type "nice guy" BS to think. Usually people who claim to be nice guys are not actually nice guys. It implies that you put on a facade to get with the girl, being "nice" because you thought it would get you somewhere. That's honestly the only reason I'm even posting in this garbage fire of a thread, because that's an insane thought.
Girls aren't these magical creatures that if you treat them a certain way (good or bad) will show you interest. They're humans that have preferences. This girl did not have a preference for you. That's it, doesn't matter why.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:14:18 GMT -5
You can feel like she owes you an explanation or whatever all you want. You will never get it. So here's some advice. Stop posting crap like this because you'll always get this result, and it's pointless to ask people here anyway. Most of them have never even spoke to a girl. Its a board about wrestling figures. Not tinder or some crap. Chill. Chill the out. Find someone else, and don't take this past relationship out on her. Otherwise you'll never figure out how things actually work. Fair point. And saying I won't get the explanation and saying I'm not owed one are two entirely different things. So respect for that. And for the record, it is hard for me to trust women after this scenario. I could be on 10 dates with some chick and I'll still be low key expecting this to happen again.
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Post by BSR on Apr 7, 2017 15:18:07 GMT -5
You can feel like she owes you an explanation or whatever all you want. You will never get it. So here's some advice. Stop posting crap like this because you'll always get this result, and it's pointless to ask people here anyway. Most of them have never even spoke to a girl. Its a board about wrestling figures. Not tinder or some crap. Chill. Chill the out. Find someone else, and don't take this past relationship out on her. Otherwise you'll never figure out how things actually work. Fair point. And saying I won't get the explanation and saying I'm not owed one are two entirely different things. So respect for that. And for the record, it is hard for me to trust women after this scenario. I could be on 10 dates with some chick and I'll still be low key expecting this to happen again. Thats the thing about relationships. You'll find one that's worth trusting when you're ready. The rest of them are just fun speed bumps on the way if you learn to manage your emotions.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:18:25 GMT -5
No one is saying what she did is right or wrong. In my mind, it's crappy, sure. I'll give you that. No one is saying you're the bad guy here either. But she doesn't owe you anything just because the night didn't go the way you thought it should have. Doesn't matter that she asked you out or appeared to enjoy the first and/or second date. Doesn't matter that she was ignoring you and ruined any plans you had with your family. You went on three dates where it's entirely clear that you weren't in a committed relationship to one another. She can do whatever she wants. Maybe she thought you were being too clingy. Maybe she thought that comment you made earlier on in the night was weird and she didn't want to hang out with you. It doesn't matter, because she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. Move past it man, there are other fish in the sea as it's clear that you've found out already reading some of your other posts in the thread. And no, treating a girl like crap to get with her is not the way to go about things. That's some messed up fedora type "nice guy" BS to think. Usually people who claim to be nice guys are not actually nice guys. It implies that you put on a facade to get with the girl, being "nice" because you thought it would get you somewhere. That's honestly the only reason I'm even posting in this garbage fire of a thread, because that's an insane thought. Girls aren't these magical creatures that if you treat them a certain way (good or bad) will show you interest. They're humans that have preferences. This girl did not have a preference for you. That's it, doesn't matter why. The night we were going out, she was talking about how I would be her last kiss of 2016 and her first of 2017... How could I not think she was into me? Sorry but the part of your post makes it sound like I was delusional to think my night would end up a certain way when she couldn't have implied it any more if she tried. I'm not one of those type of guys who was only buying her stuff in a desperate attempt to get laid or whatever. I was genuinely looking for a relationship with her. By the way, I'm not the clingy type.
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Post by Ace Bennett on Apr 7, 2017 15:26:27 GMT -5
No one is saying what she did is right or wrong. In my mind, it's crappy, sure. I'll give you that. No one is saying you're the bad guy here either. But she doesn't owe you anything just because the night didn't go the way you thought it should have. Doesn't matter that she asked you out or appeared to enjoy the first and/or second date. Doesn't matter that she was ignoring you and ruined any plans you had with your family. You went on three dates where it's entirely clear that you weren't in a committed relationship to one another. She can do whatever she wants. Maybe she thought you were being too clingy. Maybe she thought that comment you made earlier on in the night was weird and she didn't want to hang out with you. It doesn't matter, because she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore. Move past it man, there are other fish in the sea as it's clear that you've found out already reading some of your other posts in the thread. And no, treating a girl like crap to get with her is not the way to go about things. That's some messed up fedora type "nice guy" BS to think. Usually people who claim to be nice guys are not actually nice guys. It implies that you put on a facade to get with the girl, being "nice" because you thought it would get you somewhere. That's honestly the only reason I'm even posting in this garbage fire of a thread, because that's an insane thought. Girls aren't these magical creatures that if you treat them a certain way (good or bad) will show you interest. They're humans that have preferences. This girl did not have a preference for you. That's it, doesn't matter why. The night we were going out, she was talking about how I would be her last kiss of 2016 and her first of 2017... How could I not think she was into me? Sorry but the part of your post makes it sound like I was delusional to think my night would end up a certain way when she couldn't have implied it any more if she tried. I'm not one of those type of guys who was only buying her stuff in a desperate attempt to get laid or whatever. I was genuinely looking for a relationship with her. By the way, I'm not the clingy type. Clingy was just a hypothetical. Maybe she was into you when she said that. You probably did something in the course of the night (God knows what I wasn't there, again it doesn't matter) that made her un-into you. After three dates, no matter what she said before, that is something that can definitely happen. Not your fault, just not something that worked out. It happens. All I'm saying is that you're making it sound like you're owed some sort of explanation just because you are a "nice guy." You aren't. It's her life, she can do what she want. Whether that's crappy of her or not is not of importance. You two weren't married or in a long-term committed relationship, not even close. Let it go.
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Post by Negan™ on Apr 7, 2017 15:33:05 GMT -5
The night we were going out, she was talking about how I would be her last kiss of 2016 and her first of 2017... How could I not think she was into me? Sorry but the part of your post makes it sound like I was delusional to think my night would end up a certain way when she couldn't have implied it any more if she tried. I'm not one of those type of guys who was only buying her stuff in a desperate attempt to get laid or whatever. I was genuinely looking for a relationship with her. By the way, I'm not the clingy type. Clingy was just a hypothetical. Maybe she was into you when she said that. You probably did something in the course of the night (God knows what I wasn't there, again it doesn't matter) that made her un-into you. After three dates, no matter what she said before, that is something that can definitely happen. Not your fault, just not something that worked out. It happens. All I'm saying is that you're making it sound like you're owed some sort of explanation just because you are a "nice guy." You aren't. It's her life, she can do what she want. Whether that's crappy of her or not is not of importance. You two weren't married or in a long-term committed relationship, not even close. Let it go. And that's what I'm so desperate to find out. What did I possibly do that night to deserve that? If I knew what, I would have gotten over it the next night. Yet here I am, talking about it on an action figure forum while she's probably getting fist ed by GerardThe****Slayer69. This is my life.
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Post by Triple S on Apr 7, 2017 15:36:11 GMT -5
You're probably never gonna find out. Nor does it matter.
That's the point.
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Post by BSR on Apr 7, 2017 15:36:46 GMT -5
You're not very chill.
Chill.
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Post by Triple S on Apr 7, 2017 18:03:22 GMT -5
You're not very chill. Chill.
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Post by BSR on Apr 7, 2017 18:13:32 GMT -5
You're not very chill. Chill. Lmao
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Post by QWERTY on Apr 7, 2017 20:06:35 GMT -5
Don't bother with her any more. It's not worth your time.
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