Post by Negan™ on Mar 17, 2017 19:15:41 GMT -5
Alright, so usually I don't post these kinda threads but I feel like I need to share this with someone.
A few months ago, I started talking to this chick on this dating site and we really hit it off. She seemed really into me and I thought the first date went really well. We met up, had a good time and she kissed me. During the night, we also met her friends. And I should probably mention that we hit the dance floor and I am not a good dancer by any means due to my anxiety issues so I hoped this wouldn't be a factor. Nevertheless, we kissed AFTER this.
The second date, I went to a football match with her and her friends. I feel like this was a bit of a regret cause I was under so much pressure to impress her friends and stuff but I did the best I could. I talked to them and made an effort... Later that night, we went for a walk and I paid for dinner. I didn't kiss her goodnight and I immediately knew this was a mistake walking home.
The third date, she asked me out to this New Years Eve night at a local club and of course, I went along with it. I feel like this was a big mistake. Before we went there, I took her to the cinema and she was all dressed up and stuff. Again, I didn't kiss her. I was waiting for the right time and she started texting me stuff like ",You're going to be my last kiss of 2016 and my first kiss of 2017"... So naturally I thought she was into me.
Anyway, during the night, her friends brother showed up kinda drunk. Again, I made an effort with him but then ALL her friends showed up. Literally about 5 girls showed up and crowded the table. On the inside, I felt uncomfortable but I still made an effort with all of them and tried to get to know them.
Anyway, about 40 minutes passes and I see her go to the smoking area with her friends. I'm looking for her and I finally find her and give her a kiss on the cheek.... Then she says " my ex is downstairs and he wants to get back together, I'm really sorry"... I was livid. I felt so ashamed of myself cause I had nobody there. I bought her drinks and dinner and she just shafted me like that.
Of course I know there was no ex and her friends just turned her against me for whatever reason. I felt really bad that night and actually ended up breaking a mirror in my house because of it. I wished her well and gave her a hug and I immediately regretted that. I was somewhat drunk when I did that but when I left the club, I was fuming.
She's still on the dating website so clearly there was no ex. My question to you guys is... Should I view her profile and let her know I didn't forget? Or should I just move on. My friends say to move on and how she seems like the type who uses men to buy her drinks etc... I don't know what to think. It sucks cause I really liked her.
A few months ago, I started talking to this chick on this dating site and we really hit it off. She seemed really into me and I thought the first date went really well. We met up, had a good time and she kissed me. During the night, we also met her friends. And I should probably mention that we hit the dance floor and I am not a good dancer by any means due to my anxiety issues so I hoped this wouldn't be a factor. Nevertheless, we kissed AFTER this.
The second date, I went to a football match with her and her friends. I feel like this was a bit of a regret cause I was under so much pressure to impress her friends and stuff but I did the best I could. I talked to them and made an effort... Later that night, we went for a walk and I paid for dinner. I didn't kiss her goodnight and I immediately knew this was a mistake walking home.
The third date, she asked me out to this New Years Eve night at a local club and of course, I went along with it. I feel like this was a big mistake. Before we went there, I took her to the cinema and she was all dressed up and stuff. Again, I didn't kiss her. I was waiting for the right time and she started texting me stuff like ",You're going to be my last kiss of 2016 and my first kiss of 2017"... So naturally I thought she was into me.
Anyway, during the night, her friends brother showed up kinda drunk. Again, I made an effort with him but then ALL her friends showed up. Literally about 5 girls showed up and crowded the table. On the inside, I felt uncomfortable but I still made an effort with all of them and tried to get to know them.
Anyway, about 40 minutes passes and I see her go to the smoking area with her friends. I'm looking for her and I finally find her and give her a kiss on the cheek.... Then she says " my ex is downstairs and he wants to get back together, I'm really sorry"... I was livid. I felt so ashamed of myself cause I had nobody there. I bought her drinks and dinner and she just shafted me like that.
Of course I know there was no ex and her friends just turned her against me for whatever reason. I felt really bad that night and actually ended up breaking a mirror in my house because of it. I wished her well and gave her a hug and I immediately regretted that. I was somewhat drunk when I did that but when I left the club, I was fuming.
She's still on the dating website so clearly there was no ex. My question to you guys is... Should I view her profile and let her know I didn't forget? Or should I just move on. My friends say to move on and how she seems like the type who uses men to buy her drinks etc... I don't know what to think. It sucks cause I really liked her.