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Post by The Lion's Den on Mar 19, 2019 21:11:24 GMT -5
Great to see board members supporting the crew. Nothing I can add too much on, but just think of the possible outcomes of your actions. Maybe the relationship can be salvaged, maybe it can't, but what will happen if you stay either way? What's best for your kids now? Do what you feel is best and you'll find a way to make it work if you're committed to that path. In my experiences, I see people keep going back to these kinds of situations because it's all they know (not saying this is your case) and screw up new relationships because they expect it to be like the last. It seems like you've tried to make it work though, being the same age, we're a little wiser these days (supposed to be anyway . Do what you need to do. Wishing you the best on whatever route you take.
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Post by BØRNS on Mar 20, 2019 1:41:33 GMT -5
Have you talked with her about your complaints? Is she willing to work with you? If she has no buy in, then leave her ass. But if she is willing to work, then I would recommend couples therapy. Do you have any common ground you can start fostering again - besides sex? This on and off relationship is not healthy for a marriage, but it's not impossible to fix. It sounds like you need to fix what you have. You are a very lucky man to have two kids, a wife, a job, a house, etc. Try fixing what you have because you have a lot! Starting over, having a mixed family is going to up a lot of relationships. No disrespect intended, just keeping it real.
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Post by BØRNS on Mar 20, 2019 2:00:29 GMT -5
Leaving these here, I think they put a lot in perspective.
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Post by Darkhawk on Mar 22, 2019 18:59:30 GMT -5
Youre just sparring yourself by staying with her. Go out and find someone else and be happy with your life.
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Post by GreyHaze:Big Bad Booty Daddy on Mar 28, 2019 8:19:55 GMT -5
It honestly sounds like there’s more positivity by leaving her. The only thing that should matter to you is your kid in all honesty. I’ll use my own personal experience as an example... my last ex cheated on me with four different dudes, two of which were her “friends”. Had I known sooner that this crapwas going on, I would of left her in a heartbeat. You don’t want to be that guy who sleeps with one eye open for the the rest of your life. If you do get back together, things will be great until the same problems start to arise again. Letting go sucks, but in order to find personal happiness one must do what’s best for themselves. It sucks starting over and you’ll meet people who you might not feel compatible with, but eventually you’ll find someone who will make you happy.
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