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Post by cordless2016 on Sept 17, 2021 9:01:39 GMT -5
Imagine scapegoating sexual assault. Stay classy WF. Whos scapegoating it? All I see is people saying it’s ridiculous to react this way now when the info of Flair walking around with Lil Naitch out has been known for decades.
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Post by The Real Chillary on Sept 17, 2021 9:21:32 GMT -5
Imagine scapegoating sexual assault. Stay classy WF. Whos scapegoating it? All I see is people saying it’s ridiculous to react this way now when the info of Flair walking around with Lil Naitch out has been known for decades. Comments like this: And just because he's always done it, doesn't make it right. I've just finished the episode though. Taking everything at face value, my biggest takeaway is Tommy Dreamer is a piece of shit.
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Post by CM Tusk on Sept 17, 2021 9:41:17 GMT -5
Yeah, always have known that Flair is Flair. Just think it’s weird that when it became very public knowledge that he didn’t face any backlash. It was weirdly laughed off.
One of the greatest pro wrestlers of all time. No doubt. But to act like being an alcoholic sex pest creep is “legendary” is worrisome. Is that how you’d treat women?
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Post by sonstuds on Sept 17, 2021 9:53:27 GMT -5
Guess you never know, but when I see people say things like "why can't people just laugh this stuff off?" I'm legitimately curious how'd they respond if it happened to them. Like they're at work in a meeting and some guy they don't know who's significantly bigger than them backs them into another room with their d*ck out for other people's amusement. Would they really find that funny? Or if you point a gun at a cashier's face and pretend to stick them up before revealing it wasn't loaded are we supposed to expect the cashier to just have a good story to tell?
Somehow Tommy Dreamer almost comes off worse than Ric Flair, so kudos to him for that one.
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Post by hbkbigdaddycool on Sept 17, 2021 9:55:15 GMT -5
Yeah, always have known that Flair is Flair. Just think it’s weird that when it became very public knowledge that he didn’t face any backlash. It was weirdly laughed off. One of the greatest pro wrestlers of all time. No doubt. But to act like being an alcoholic sex pest creep is “legendary” is worrisome. Is that how you’d treat women?
I believe Flair has had four wives so his track record with women isn't the greatest.
I remember Shane Douglas saying in a Kayfabe Commentaries shoot like 10 years ago that he remembers even in his first run in WCW in 1989 that Flair would go to the bars, pull out his penis and show it to the girls there.
To me personally, I just find it funny in that we are supposed to be mad about this now because it was talked about on a Dark Side of the Ring episode, when in fact wrestlers, wrestling insiders, and fans knew about Flair doing this for the past 25 years or so. That's the part that gets me.
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Post by LA Times on Sept 17, 2021 10:02:03 GMT -5
Yeah, always have known that Flair is Flair. Just think it’s weird that when it became very public knowledge that he didn’t face any backlash. It was weirdly laughed off. One of the greatest pro wrestlers of all time. No doubt. But to act like being an alcoholic sex pest creep is “legendary” is worrisome. Is that how you’d treat women? I believe Flair has had four wives so his track record with women isn't the greatest. I remember Shane Douglas saying in a Kayfabe Commentaries shoot like 10 years ago that he remembers even in his first run in WCW in 1989 that Flair would go to the bars, pull out his penis and show it to the girls there. To me personally, I just find it funny in that we are supposed to be mad about this now because it was talked about on a Dark Side of the Ring episode, when in fact wrestlers, wrestling insiders, and fans knew about Flair doing this for the past 25 years or so. That's the part that gets me.
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Post by CM Tusk on Sept 17, 2021 10:08:24 GMT -5
Yeah, always have known that Flair is Flair. Just think it’s weird that when it became very public knowledge that he didn’t face any backlash. It was weirdly laughed off. One of the greatest pro wrestlers of all time. No doubt. But to act like being an alcoholic sex pest creep is “legendary” is worrisome. Is that how you’d treat women?
I believe Flair has had four wives so his track record with women isn't the greatest.
I remember Shane Douglas saying in a Kayfabe Commentaries shoot like 10 years ago that he remembers even in his first run in WCW in 1989 that Flair would go to the bars, pull out his penis and show it to the girls there.
To me personally, I just find it funny in that we are supposed to be mad about this now because it was talked about on a Dark Side of the Ring episode, when in fact wrestlers, wrestling insiders, and fans knew about Flair doing this for the past 25 years or so. That's the part that gets me.
Apparently not everyone knew about this. The issue isn’t people mad about this now though. It’s the ones that are acting like everyone should laugh it off and are overreacting. Like if a stranger came up to you and rubbed their dick in your face, would you be happy about it? It’s also, not that strangely, a lot of the same people that rush to defend any male wrestler accused of sexual abuser. Honestly makes me question how some wrestling fans treat women or would if they had enough confidence to do so.
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Post by hbkbigdaddycool on Sept 17, 2021 10:08:51 GMT -5
I believe Flair has had four wives so his track record with women isn't the greatest. I remember Shane Douglas saying in a Kayfabe Commentaries shoot like 10 years ago that he remembers even in his first run in WCW in 1989 that Flair would go to the bars, pull out his penis and show it to the girls there. To me personally, I just find it funny in that we are supposed to be mad about this now because it was talked about on a Dark Side of the Ring episode, when in fact wrestlers, wrestling insiders, and fans knew about Flair doing this for the past 25 years or so. That's the part that gets me.
Thank you for posting this!
Any true wrestling fan would have seen this, or other shoot interviews back in the 90s and from 2000 - 2012 before podcasts took over. Many wrestlers over the years have mentioned about Flair's antics.
Triple H even said during his HOF induction for Flair, hinted about Flair's antics, and the audience all laughed and yelled, "Wooooooo!!!"
But now, in the year 2021, because Cancel Culture has made it fit and cool, we have to hate Flair - and Dreamer for that matter - for something that happened 20 years ago and even farther back than that.
It's perfectly fine that the world has changed now and that it is unfit to behave like that and have it be allowed, but back then it was a different time. Not saying it was right, but it was still a different time. Cancel Culture punks can't understand that.
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Post by hbkbigdaddycool on Sept 17, 2021 10:12:59 GMT -5
I believe Flair has had four wives so his track record with women isn't the greatest.
I remember Shane Douglas saying in a Kayfabe Commentaries shoot like 10 years ago that he remembers even in his first run in WCW in 1989 that Flair would go to the bars, pull out his penis and show it to the girls there.
To me personally, I just find it funny in that we are supposed to be mad about this now because it was talked about on a Dark Side of the Ring episode, when in fact wrestlers, wrestling insiders, and fans knew about Flair doing this for the past 25 years or so. That's the part that gets me.
Apparently not everyone knew about this. The issue isn’t people mad about this now though. It’s the ones that are acting like everyone should laugh it off and are overreacting. Like if a stranger came up to you and rubbed their dick in your face, would you be happy about it? It’s also, not that strangely, a lot of the same people that rush to defend any male wrestler accused of sexual abuser. Honestly makes me question how some wrestling fans treat women or would if they had enough confidence to do so.
Let me guess, you are in your mid 20s, drinking a fancy coffee right now with your hair up in a bun, while you type this??
See, I can accuse you of something too, just like you just did of me.
To say that we fans who are sticking up for Flair would treat women badly is just ridiculous.
For the record, I am not sticking up for what Flair did, I am just saying that this happened 20 - 30 years ago all the time, and NOBODY had an issue with it then. Wrestling fans would laugh, wrestlers would laugh, everyone knew. Is that right?? No. And I said that before on here. But it happened then. You can't change it now.
But here's the thing, Flair's name is in the mud for a while but a year from now 90% of the wrestling audience will be over it, and still love to see Flair come out on TV. A small percentage - like yourself - will still hate it because a TV show taught you about something every wrestling fan knew for the past 30 years!
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Post by CM Tusk on Sept 17, 2021 10:18:13 GMT -5
Apparently not everyone knew about this. The issue isn’t people mad about this now though. It’s the ones that are acting like everyone should laugh it off and are overreacting. Like if a stranger came up to you and rubbed their dick in your face, would you be happy about it? It’s also, not that strangely, a lot of the same people that rush to defend any male wrestler accused of sexual abuser. Honestly makes me question how some wrestling fans treat women or would if they had enough confidence to do so.
Let me guess, you are in your mid 20s, drinking a fancy coffee right now with your hair up in a bun, while you type this??
See, I can accuse you of something too, just like you just did of me.
To say that we fans who are sticking up for Flair would treat women badly is just ridiculous.
For the record, I am not sticking up for what Flair did, I am just saying that this happened 20 - 30 years ago all the time, and NOBODY had an issue with it then. Wrestling fans would laugh, wrestlers would laugh, everyone knew. Is that right?? No. And I said that before on here. But it happened then. You can't change it now.
But here's the thing, Flair's name is in the mud for a while but a year from now 90% of the wrestling audience will be over it, and still love to see Flair come out on TV. A small percentage - like yourself - will still hate it because a TV show taught you about something every wrestling fan knew for the past 30 years!
Never accused you, just a blanket statement for a lot of people that defend these actions. Full stories don’t come out till years later. Not everyone knows everything. “True wrestling fans” have to research every aspect of pro wrestling for the last 40 years? The “it was a different” time argument doesn’t work. It just means more people did it back then back it was acceptable. I also stated I’ve know about Flair for a long time and I have my own opinions. The Bill Cosby stuff happened years ago, are you saying it’s ok? Sexual assault is sexual assault, regardless of the time period. Also I’m in my early 30s, I’m bald, and I just enjoyed a damn fine glass of orange juice.
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Post by hbkbigdaddycool on Sept 17, 2021 10:24:27 GMT -5
Let me guess, you are in your mid 20s, drinking a fancy coffee right now with your hair up in a bun, while you type this??
See, I can accuse you of something too, just like you just did of me.
To say that we fans who are sticking up for Flair would treat women badly is just ridiculous.
For the record, I am not sticking up for what Flair did, I am just saying that this happened 20 - 30 years ago all the time, and NOBODY had an issue with it then. Wrestling fans would laugh, wrestlers would laugh, everyone knew. Is that right?? No. And I said that before on here. But it happened then. You can't change it now.
But here's the thing, Flair's name is in the mud for a while but a year from now 90% of the wrestling audience will be over it, and still love to see Flair come out on TV. A small percentage - like yourself - will still hate it because a TV show taught you about something every wrestling fan knew for the past 30 years!
Never accused you, just a blanket statement for a lot of people that defend these actions. Full stories don’t come out till years later. Not everyone knows everything. “True wrestling fans” have to research every aspect of pro wrestling for the last 40 years? The “it was a different” time argument doesn’t work. It just means more people did it back then back it was acceptable. I also stated I’ve know about Flair for a long time and I have my own opinions. The Bill Cosby stuff happened years ago, are you saying it’s ok? Sexual assault is sexual assault, regardless of the time period. Also I’m in my early 30s, I’m bald, and I just enjoyed a damn fine glass of orange juice.
Yeah, well.... I'm 40, I have hair, and I can't drink a full glass of orange juice because I am diabetic now..... so that part of my life sucks now.
But no, sexual assault is never okay. And maybe some wrestling fans don't know about Flair's antics, but for the most part it was very well documented even in documentaries.
Again though, the problem lies in that Flair was World Champion most of his life, he would have girls throw themselves at him at hotels, bars, restaurants so in his mind in 2002, he still thought the women would want him like that.
Like I have said numerous times, it's not right what Flair would do, but to me it's just funny that everyone is supposed to be mad at him now because a story aired on a popular TV show on VICE about wrestling's underbelly antics and stories, when a lot of those same fans already knew of the Flair stories.
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Post by ℍ𝕒𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕠 𝕂𝕚𝕝𝕝 on Sept 17, 2021 10:31:37 GMT -5
I will say out of all of this: I feel like Dreamer was taken out of context and he did not know the fight attendant’s personal account. As far as Tommy knew, all that happened was the flight staff was passing by and got a look at Ric Flair naked. Dreamer was pointing out that she wasn’t a victim because she raw Ric Flair with his robe open. I think he was ignorant to the fact that allegedly Ric sexually harassed the flight attendant, and the interview showed that. Dreamer does not seem like the type to blow off an actual harassment like that and I think if anything, he would’ve just stayed quiet about the whole thing had he known the extent of the situation.
I know when they edit all together it can seem like Dreamer is blowing the accusations off, but its very possible that his interview was filmed before hers, or the directors didn't want to taint his personal account by showing him the interview from the flight attendant, or a number of other things. I feel like the record should be set straight about Tommy and I think he should do it himself.
I saw some people also upset with Dustin about the episode. Man, where does it stop? The dude had a serious drug and alcohol problem at this time and he was still reeling from his divorce from Terri. I thought the story was really embarrassing but I didn't think he acted remarkably inappropriate -- especially when we see the other accounts of the episode.
As for Ric Flair and Scott Hall -- hard to defend. I can only see them saying it never happened or ignoring it completely. I personally do not recall another story from these two harrassing women. I do remember Scott Hall being awfully creepy on Twitter to some young women in wrestling, most notably Paige. She was like 22 when Scott Hall was tweeting her all sorts of very forward stuff. That whole thing was weird. No excuses for these stories, though. The fact that the WWE settled out of court with these women is very suspect and leaves me to believe that something of sustance did happen. Maybe it was just do with the dangerous flight but it adds up to me as "hush money" for maybe something bigger than that.
I will say -- the fact that I've never heard an accusation against Flair sticks out to me. I haven't heard another story about Ric harrassing a woman like this. He is a part animal, and was 100% inappropriate, unacceptable and disgusting by today's standards. But this is the first accusation out of the forty year history of Ric and I think that it speaks for something.
I don't know. Its a hard place for fans when something like this happens. Can we keep idolizing someone who did something bad? I'm not trying to come across like I'm defending anything about this story but its just so shocking that accusations like this lay dormant for almost 20 years and all of the sudden the world is ready to pounce on their backs.
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Post by hbkbigdaddycool on Sept 17, 2021 10:47:11 GMT -5
I also wonder now if Ric Flair knew about all this ahead of time??
Like, clearly someone may have given him the "heads up" on this documentary, so that's why he went to Vince and asked for his release, so it doesn't pain the WWE in a dark way with him being signed to the company??
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Post by LA Times on Sept 17, 2021 12:08:21 GMT -5
I also wonder now if Ric Flair knew about all this ahead of time?? Like, clearly someone may have given him the "heads up" on this documentary, so that's why he went to Vince and asked for his release, so it doesn't pain the WWE in a dark way with him being signed to the company?? Flair is supposed to be coming into AEW soon, most likely as Andrade El Idolo's new manager. If Tony Khan brought in Nick Gage just because he was on DSOTR, he might still go ahead and bring in Ric Flair.
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Post by Deep Figure Value on Sept 17, 2021 12:25:48 GMT -5
I've mostly made peace with the fact the people that portray the characters I like to watch on television are going to generally skew toward unsavory-to-downright-deplorable character traits, because that seems to be a common theme in the entertainment industry. I think it's possible to find a balance between enjoying the work that's meant to be presented, while still rejecting the behaviors that take place once the cameras stop rolling. I think we're far along in life and society that we can act appropriately when these things come out about current talents, and adjust our perspectives to acknowledge them appropriately when they retroactively arise about more tenured talents. I also think that it's okay, in the case of such incidents as this, to adjust our perspectives with time. That's how you grow as a person.
On the production side of things, I think that it would be for the best to stop celebrating these individuals as stories like this come out or come to be seen in a more clear light with the passage of time. There's absolutely nothing to be lost in 2021 by not featuring the likes of Ric Flair or Hulk Hogan on one's television program. If the success of anybody's program or event is dependent on talents who only serve as a window into the past, then that's a discussion for a different thread.
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Post by cordless2016 on Sept 17, 2021 12:29:51 GMT -5
I believe Flair has had four wives so his track record with women isn't the greatest. I remember Shane Douglas saying in a Kayfabe Commentaries shoot like 10 years ago that he remembers even in his first run in WCW in 1989 that Flair would go to the bars, pull out his penis and show it to the girls there. To me personally, I just find it funny in that we are supposed to be mad about this now because it was talked about on a Dark Side of the Ring episode, when in fact wrestlers, wrestling insiders, and fans knew about Flair doing this for the past 25 years or so. That's the part that gets me. Apparently not everyone knew about this. The issue isn’t people mad about this now though. It’s the ones that are acting like everyone should laugh it off and are overreacting. Like if a stranger came up to you and rubbed their dick in your face, would you be happy about it? It’s also, not that strangely, a lot of the same people that rush to defend any male wrestler accused of sexual abuser. Honestly makes me question how some wrestling fans treat women or would if they had enough confidence to do so. Nobody is saying laugh it off, or defending Flair for his actions. What’s ridiculous is the plane ride from hell story has been know for 20 years. Meltzer was literally giving us accounts of everything as soon as they landed (and this wasn’t the only time “Flair was being Flair”). Nobody jumped on Flair then, but because a show that is known for picking and choosing how their stories are told brought it up again, we should cancel Flair now? This wasn’t something only Flair, or the wrestling industry was known for doing. It was rampant in Hollywood and the music industry for decades. No, it wasn’t right, but to go after someone now for something they did two decade ago when the public was well aware of it at the time is ridiculous. Punish him at the time if you don’t agree with his actions, but don’t wait 20 years to punish him. And I’m a 30 year old accountant for anyone interested, so I don’t fit the “mid-life crazy boomer” label people like to throw out at those who don’t want to “cancel” someone at the drop of a dime.
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Post by Nivro™ on Sept 17, 2021 12:59:08 GMT -5
I don't see anyone condoning or excusing what he did. The people that are "defending" his actions aren't defending the actions but the timeline that it happened it. Its been well known the kind of acts he did & the lifestyle he lived. If you weren't offended then, you shouldn't be now. We live in a completely different world than we did 20 years ago. Im not saying it was right back then either but there still was that "boys will be boys mentality" We as humans & Americans evolve. Think about how things changed for women from the 30s to the 50s...or African Americans from the 60s/70s to the 90s. You don't go back and "cancel" someone that made their wife stay at home barefoot & pregnant in the 30s but in 2021...yeah. if Flair pulls his junk out in 2021 and swings it around. him. He gets what he deserves just the same as Hogan got what came to him for his actions. Also the posting of the Douglas video is hilarious. Outside of Ole you couldn't have found a more biased person against Flair. That being said, I question what bar Douglas hangs out at that is full of children. Sounds like he could have his own DSOTR episode.
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Post by Deep Figure Value on Sept 17, 2021 13:23:12 GMT -5
I think people are too hung up on the notion of "cancelling" someone, as if it needs to be some grandiose gesture. Ric Flair is an old man who did and likely still does terrible things. None of us need to be locked in to our initial reaction 20 years ago - it's very easy to have not batted an eye at the age of 16 (like me) while still being able to look back at 36 and say "you know what, f*ck Ric Flair", and the same goes for those who would enable him, whether their initials are AEW or WWE or NWA. Just...stop inviting him. Don't sign him. Stop putting the focus and the lens on him, leave him to his own defenses, and put him out to pasture, at least in that regard.
Soulless corporations can grow, too.
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Post by CM Tusk on Sept 17, 2021 13:25:18 GMT -5
You guys know that most the people making a big deal about it probably weren’t fans 20 years ago, right? Hell, a lot of people probably didn’t start watching till after Ric retired. Not everyone knows every wrestling story about wrestlers being shitty decades ago. I bet they don’t know the Debra/Austin stuff or that Warrior was a hardcore homophobe and racist. It’s not like you get into wrestling and someone hands you a book of all the dark secrets.
Also, will people shut the hell up about “cancel culture”? It’s not a real thing. Hogan just hosted Wrestlemania. Warrior is in the Hall Of Fame. Austin has a monthly show on Peacock. Outside people who do hardcore stuff like rape or murder, no one in wrestling gets “cancelled.” They still get bookings. Ric is still going to AEW. Dreamer will still work Impact. People talk about over reactions but then get real bent out of shape when people want people to face consequences for their actions. It’s ok to be outraged when you learn someone did something sh*tty, regardless of what time period it was.
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Post by Artie Kendall on Sept 17, 2021 13:55:22 GMT -5
Just want to say - RVD is still the realest. No BS coming from him, no shying away.
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