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Post by bad guy™ on May 2, 2008 16:42:02 GMT -5
I feel...like...so dead right now. See, Im not very big on the 'relationship' thing. I cant claim I have had a solid relationship, and hell, I've been called a player at times which hurts, but it is true. I like a lot of girls for a lot of reasons. Well this was different. A couple years ago I met this girl at a school orientation. Fine as can be, and she was rather nice. We talked for a couple hours, and eventually she gave me her number. Originally I thought to myself 'Cool, for once Im not asking.' But I figured it would not last long. I was wrong. For the last two years she has repeatedly told me how I am her best friend, and I felt the same way. But I noticed the more I talked to her over the years and the more I was with her, the less feelings I had for other girls. I figured there was something there but I was not sure. A couple weeks ago I was talking to a buddy of mine and he simply put it than I was in love with her. The more I thought about it, the more he made sence. I knew I had to tell her though. And I figured even if she did not feel that way, she would atleast let me down easy. So yesterday I go to her and simply put it, I told her I was in love with her. Today, she tells me she does not think we should be friends anymore. I asked her why, and she just walked away. The title (a song by Spilled Canvas) says it best.  |
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Post by Kliquid on May 2, 2008 16:44:51 GMT -5
Maybe she's just confused... Let it be for a little while.
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Post by Jacob on May 2, 2008 16:47:47 GMT -5
It sucks, doesn't it.
Been there before, been there a hundred times. I think I must be lucky in love. It hurts buddy, but you gotta stay strong.
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Post by BcBlingin- Scooter Glenwood on May 2, 2008 16:59:20 GMT -5
I feel...like...so dead right now. See, Im not very big on the 'relationship' thing. I cant claim I have had a solid relationship, and hell, I've been called a player at times which hurts, but it is true. I like a lot of girls for a lot of reasons. Well this was different. A couple years ago I met this girl at a school orientation. Fine as can be, and she was rather nice. We talked for a couple hours, and eventually she gave me her number. Originally I thought to myself 'Cool, for once Im not asking.' But I figured it would not last long. I was wrong. For the last two years she has repeatedly told me how I am her best friend, and I felt the same way. But I noticed the more I talked to her over the years and the more I was with her, the less feelings I had for other girls. I figured there was something there but I was not sure. A couple weeks ago I was talking to a buddy of mine and he simply put it than I was in love with her. The more I thought about it, the more he made sence. I knew I had to tell her though. And I figured even if she did not feel that way, she would atleast let me down easy. So yesterday I go to her and simply put it, I told her I was in love with her. Today, she tells me she does not think we should be friends anymore. I asked her why, and she just walked away. The title (a song by Spilled Canvas) says it best. Been in pretty much the exact situation. I fell so hard for this girl it was crazy.. I was like not attracted to any other girl I would see. Not much you can do in this situation unless you still wanna be just friends with her then you can talk to her and tell her you understand but you still wanna be friends. |
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Post by bad guy™ on May 2, 2008 20:13:56 GMT -5
Man, thanks guys. Im just not sure what hurts more. The fact that she turned me down, or that SHE wanted the friendship to be over. |
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Post by Kody on May 2, 2008 20:19:00 GMT -5
RKO her.
(sorry, someone had to)
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Post by duan on May 2, 2008 20:31:31 GMT -5
grow a set lolol
let it settle for a bit.
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Post by WFK on May 2, 2008 22:38:04 GMT -5
Honestly it could be worse. I liked this girl for a really long time ( a couple years) and we were really close and over spring break this year she decided to get married to a guy she barely knew...and we're all in high school |
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Post by Hulkamaniac on May 3, 2008 3:40:51 GMT -5
You're how old?
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Post by madi90 on May 3, 2008 3:44:01 GMT -5
LOL the irony of this topic, your all Anti-emo and you cry like an "emo kid"
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Post by No Brokeback on May 3, 2008 4:23:26 GMT -5
A- you NEVER go up to a girl that you haven't been in love with and say you love her, not unless your that skunk, Pepe Lepew. Even so, you can see how that works out with the cat always running away.
B- If a girl that I was friends with came out and said she loved me because talked a bit, it would freak me out, depending on how serious she was. I would probably go and tell all my friends about how insane she was and we'd all make fun of her, and then joke about it.
C- If you want her back though, if you desperately want her to be your friend again, invite her to a game of Tic-Tac-Toe, there is no girl in the world who would deny playing that game unless they were a sinner. If a girl doesn't want to get three x's in a row, you know something is wrong, and she's probably a bitch.
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Post by bjd on May 3, 2008 5:13:57 GMT -5
Everytime I've tried to ask a female friend out, it has not worked out well... the end result was usually pretty devestating. Its best to find a random girl, get her drunk, nail her, and then go from there.
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Post by No Brokeback on May 3, 2008 5:16:56 GMT -5
Everytime I've tried to ask a female friend out, it has not worked out well... the end result was usually pretty devestating. Its best to find a random girl, get her drunk, nail her, and then go from there. Seriously, younger guys mostly just DON'T KNOW how to read into if a female likes them. They don't know the signs at all, they figure if a girl smiles at them they think they are somewhat interested in them, which is completely wrong. I'll actually start a topic about that right now. |
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Post by bjd on May 3, 2008 5:19:21 GMT -5
If a girl puts her hand in your ass crack at a karaoke bar when you're singing "Faithfully" by Journey, she is interested in you.
(True story)
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Post by Hulkamaniac on May 3, 2008 5:40:30 GMT -5
Everytime I've tried to ask a female friend out, it has not worked out well... the end result was usually pretty devestating. Its best to find a random girl, get her drunk, nail her, and then go from there. Seriously, younger guys mostly just DON'T KNOW how to read into if a female likes them. They don't know the signs at all, they figure if a girl smiles at them they think they are somewhat interested in them, which is completely wrong. I'll actually start a topic about that right now. I think most guys in general don't know how to pick up the signs. One of the worst things you can do (regardless of whether you've got an innie or an outie) is profess you're undying love for someone who doesn't feel the same way. At best it's awkward and at worst it's devastating. |
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Post by John™ on May 3, 2008 5:47:03 GMT -5
wait for about a week and then call her see how shes doing and ask her why she just walked away and if she says i just want to be friends then thats all that will happen but it sounds like you two are close and you like her alot
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Post by CBT on May 3, 2008 15:02:33 GMT -5
Seriously, younger guys mostly just DON'T KNOW how to read into if a female likes them. They don't know the signs at all, they figure if a girl smiles at them they think they are somewhat interested in them, which is completely wrong. I'll actually start a topic about that right now. I think most guys in general don't know how to pick up the signs. One of the worst things you can do (regardless of whether you've got an innie or an outie) is profess you're undying love for someone who doesn't feel the same way. At best it's awkward and at worst it's devastating.  Proof right there. |
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Post by Nirvana is Happiness on May 3, 2008 15:16:47 GMT -5
Im sorry, im not trying to be mean, just making sense of this. If she wants to be a bitch to you just because you told her how you felt, just forget about her and move on, there are other prettier and nicer fish out in the sea.
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