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Post by PJ on Jul 3, 2013 17:12:49 GMT -5
I swore I wasn't going to get sucked in but then I read this... I'll find an appropriate way to fix this one day, not today, not tomorrow, or sometime in the near future, but someday I'll find the right way. Right now she wants nothing to do with me , but after time has gone by, I'll find an appropriate way to make everything as right as it can be. I did show up unexpectedly, which did raise questions. That caused her to ask her friends what they thought and I'm assuming they said things similar to what was said in this thread. I can understand her listening to her friends that she's around all the time instead of me who was only around every once in a while. What she doesn't know is that I no longer have a romantic interest in her or that I picked up the lesbian vibes about her, thus questioning my intentions. Having said all that, I believe that if her and I sat down one day and I explained all of that to her and she got a better understanding, then I believe there is a small, very small chance that we can get past this and be good again. If not, I will go through the rest of my life with this being one of my biggest regrets. Seriously you need to stop. There's no way to make it right. And what I gathered from these last comment is you are obsessing over her whether you want believe it or not. You just need to accept it and move on, before you end up doing something really stupid. No good will come from you trying to "fix" what has happened. If she reaches out to you someday...then sure but under no circumstances should you be reaching out to her. As far as regrets go if that is your biggest regret in life then you've had a good life. I'd much rather that being my biggest regret over what will become your biggest regret if you pursue this with her any further. Have you ever heard this saying? "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions" |
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Post by Nick the Quick on Jul 3, 2013 18:42:56 GMT -5
quote]Seriously you need to stop. There's no way to make it right. And what I gathered from these last comment is you are obsessing over her whether you want believe it or not. You just need to accept it and move on, before you end up doing something really stupid. No good will come from you trying to "fix" what has happened. If she reaches out to you someday...then sure but under no circumstances should you be reaching out to her. As far as regrets go if that is your biggest regret in life then you've had a good life. I'd much rather that being my biggest regret over what will become your biggest regret if you pursue this with her any further.
Have you ever heard this saying? "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions"
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Comments like this are why I stopped commenting in this thread last week. I can tell from the responses who can relate to this situation and who can't. It's much more complicated that anyone here, even me, can truly understand. Possible lies and lack of knowledge created this to begin with, so to say, "there's no way to fix it" is a little bit ignorant. If I didn't think there was even the smallest chance that one day this could be fixed, then I never would have made this thread to begin with.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 3, 2013 20:31:56 GMT -5
Comments like this are why I stopped commenting in this thread last week. I can tell from the responses who can relate to this situation and who can't. It's much more complicated that anyone here, even me, can truly understand. Possible lies and lack of knowledge created this to begin with, so to say, "there's no way to fix it" is a little bit ignorant. If I didn't think there was even the smallest chance that one day this could be fixed, then I never would have made this thread to begin with. lol, it's pretty easy to understand your situation, you got friendzoned because you told a girl you barely know that you were in love with her and yet you refuse to move on with your life despite her not wanting to have anything to do with you. I can personally relate to the situation because I almost made the same mistake as you but thankfully realized that I wasn't really in love with this girl, it was just merely an infatuation. It just really hurts to be single right now because I discovered true love and I'm currently dealing with the reality that I can never be with this other girl who I've known most of my life. You want to know why I can never be with her? Because she doesn't exist anymore, she became a man. I did nothing wrong and yet I'm going through hell right now but I'm trying my best to move on and seek out someone else, I suggest you do the same.
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Post by Valbroski on Jul 3, 2013 21:53:37 GMT -5
quote]Seriously you need to stop. There's no way to make it right. And what I gathered from these last comment is you are obsessing over her whether you want believe it or not. You just need to accept it and move on, before you end up doing something really stupid. No good will come from you trying to "fix" what has happened. If she reaches out to you someday...then sure but under no circumstances should you be reaching out to her. As far as regrets go if that is your biggest regret in life then you've had a good life. I'd much rather that being my biggest regret over what will become your biggest regret if you pursue this with her any further. Have you ever heard this saying? "The road to Hell is paved with good intentions" Comments like this are why I stopped commenting in this thread last week. I can tell from the responses who can relate to this situation and who can't. It's much more complicated that anyone here, even me, can truly understand. Possible lies and lack of knowledge created this to begin with, so to say, "there's no way to fix it" is a little bit ignorant. If I didn't think there was even the smallest chance that one day this could be fixed, then I never would have made this thread to begin with. [/quote] Actually no, it's pretty cut and dry. You just choose to believe what you want to believe despite asking for other peoples opinions in the first place. |
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Post by RSCTom on Oct 17, 2013 8:24:04 GMT -5
...so how has this been going?
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Post by Sleeping Like An Angel on Oct 17, 2013 11:40:22 GMT -5
...so how has this been going? Probably a big shrine in the corner of his room. |
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Post by RollinsFan44 on Oct 17, 2013 12:30:58 GMT -5
...so how has this been going? The true question is, how're you doing man? Haven't seen you post in a while, is everything going okay since you've moved from Ringside? Hope to hear from you soon! Benji. |
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Post by The Dave on Oct 17, 2013 13:23:50 GMT -5
...so how has this been going? Right towards jail time would be my guess. |
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Post by Nick the Quick on Oct 17, 2013 13:33:49 GMT -5
...so how has this been going? I haven't seen or made any attempts to contact her since, still (and always will) suck that things ended up this way. If I could take back what I did, I would, but I can't. Thank you for asking. |
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Post by Sleeping Like An Angel on Oct 17, 2013 13:37:42 GMT -5
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I'll find an appropriate way to fix this one day, not today, not tomorrow, or sometime in the near future, but someday I'll find the right way. Right now she wants nothing to do with me , but after time has gone by, I'll find an appropriate way to make everything as right as it can be. I did show up unexpectedly, which did raise questions. That caused her to ask her friends what they thought and I'm assuming they said things similar to what was said in this thread. I can understand her listening to her friends that she's around all the time instead of me who was only around every once in a while. What she doesn't know is that I no longer have a romantic interest in her or that I picked up the lesbian vibes about her, thus questioning my intentions. Having said all that, I believe that if her and I sat down one day and I explained all of that to her and she got a better understanding, then I believe there is a small, very small chance that we can get past this and be good again. If not, I will go through the rest of my life with this being one of my biggest regrets.
