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Post by HHH316 on Dec 14, 2013 3:00:21 GMT -5
I'm kinda in that boat now. I was recently offered a job with a company my former job rivaled. I've been working on a freelance basis for them for a couple of months now & they'd like to give me a permanent spot.
The pay would be good. About 25% more a year than I made at my previous job. I would be doing pretty much the same thing, with a few more minor responsibilities. The issue I'm having is I left my last job because it burned me out pretty badly, & the reason the position opened is for a lot of the same reasons.
I'm working strictly as a freelancer now, so the money can be high one month, then low the next. I like the idea of having a set income every month. I also realize that in this current economy, I'm lucky to have such an offer. The worry I have is that I pushed myself too hard at my last job, & ended up suffering a big injury over it. I'm just hoping lightening wouldn't strike twice.
So knowing full well what you are walking into (including things you won't like) would you take the job?
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Post by A Flair for the Gold on Dec 14, 2013 3:14:47 GMT -5
i'd swallow my pride and take it. if i wsas in your possition that it. i havr 3 kids, a houde payment, atop other bills. i'm burnt the hell out at my current job, and i'm just a long term tepm. been so for 7 months. people that started in september are getting hired on before me. job security sux. who know what othjer opportunities we have. like i said, do it for the greater good and financial security at least.
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Post by The Mask of Truth on Dec 14, 2013 3:46:05 GMT -5
Do it for the C.R.E.A.M
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Post by jayrod2009 on Dec 14, 2013 8:33:19 GMT -5
Yep. Been there! I worked in North Dakota all of 2012 moving oil rigs. Didn't want to, hate the cold, but needed the money. The work sucked! 14 hour days, -40's in December, January, and November... But the pay... Woooo the pay. Who could say no to $1,500-$2,200 a week! I have 2 kids, and i can tell you thatd why I did it. For my children. I hated being away from them, but i provided. I'm long gone from the oil feild now, but we still have money saved up from it.
Its all about the kids. We want them to have more than we ever did! I say do if
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Post by Yeezy's Mullet: Team X Blades on Dec 14, 2013 8:46:05 GMT -5
It's not as simple as "bite the bullet and take the job" imo. I mean are struggling right now? Don't get me wrong, more money is always great but will the increase in pay outweigh how much, if at all, you end up hating your new job? Money isn't everything. You gotta think about it on both ends. If you're going to end up getting burnt out to the point where the hatred for your job consumes you and effects your whole life then there's something to think about.
If your back is against the wall and you NEED that money to provide for you or your family then taking a job with more money is always a no brainer. But working a job you can't stand for an extended period of time does something to you man.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2013 10:19:16 GMT -5
Nah.
I could never work somewhere I wasn't happy. Not long term anyway. Even if the pay was better.
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Post by /X Metal Sorenges x "Mac Oh J~ on Dec 14, 2013 10:38:16 GMT -5
It's not as simple as "bite the bullet and take the job" imo. I mean are struggling right now? Don't get me wrong, more money is always great but will the increase in pay outweigh how much, if at all, you end up hating your new job? Money isn't everything. You gotta think about it on both ends. If you're going to end up getting burnt out to the point where the hatred for your job consumes you and effects your whole life then there's something to think about. If your back is against the wall and you NEED that money to provide for you or your family then taking a job with more money is always a no brainer. But working a job you can't stand for an extended period of time does something to you man. I can wholeheartedly agree with this Yeezy Mullet on this one.
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Post by Jack on Dec 14, 2013 11:03:28 GMT -5
I agree with what some of the above have said. Swallow your pride bud and take it.
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Dec 14, 2013 11:35:40 GMT -5
I would not do it for a million dollars. I have no idea why people think it's about pride. It has nothing at all to do with pride. It's about being happy.
I spent six years of my life working a job I hated, loathed, despised and detested. To say it burned me out would be an understatement. Most days the absolute worst thing that happened to me every day was that I had to go to work. I hated it. It consumed my life. The hours were long, the pay was crappy and you got zero appreciation. One time a customer complained about me. Management investigated and found that the customer's complaint had no merit at all. They called me into the office and told me they had investigated and found the complaint to be without merit. Then they went ahead and put it in my file anyway because that was their policy. Next time a pay raise came around I was turned down because customer's complained about me. That's just one example. I hated that job.
So if that job called me back today and wanted me to go back to work, same hours, same work, but better pay, I'd say no. They could offer me $500k a year. I'd still say no. They could offer me $20 mil a year. I'd still say no. Being miserable and burned out every day of your life is not worth it. If you quit a job because you were burned out and hated it and it hasn't changed (and it sounds like it hasn't since the person quitting now is leaving because they're burned out), then you shouldn't go back ever. That's just my .02. I've lived long enough to find out that money just isn't worth it.
Now, all that being said, if that job called me back and wanted me for just a short period of time (3-6 mos) for an ungodly ammount of money, I might consider it. Short term suffering for long term gains is one thing. Long term suffering for long term gains isn't worth it.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2013 11:38:59 GMT -5
I'd say no. I rather do a job I love, be great at it, pump more hours into it, get promoted and rewarded, get loved by higher up and stand out while doing things I like. If you take just a job you don't like, it'll be minimal effort and you'll just end up being "one of the workers".
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Post by @.@ Hempsterdance @.@ on Dec 14, 2013 11:48:02 GMT -5
ive taken jobs strictly for money, it never works out.
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Post by Ian from 616Entertainment. on Dec 14, 2013 12:51:23 GMT -5
Honestly man, no, I personally wouldn't do it.
You know from experience what burn out feels, and it's one of the worst feelings. The money would be nice, but after a while, you're going to wish you hadn't taken the spot. 25% is a substantial raise but is it going to be enough money to sacrifice your happiness?
That "don't take work home with you" sh*t never works. You're going to be annoyed constantly.
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Post by Darkhawk on Dec 14, 2013 14:55:49 GMT -5
If you were unhappy with the job in the first place why would you go back to it. I would easily say no it's not really worth it.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2013 17:03:18 GMT -5
That depends, what are you asking me to do?
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Dec 14, 2013 18:05:34 GMT -5
That depends, what are you asking me to do? Wash a fat man's balls 5 times a day.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2013 18:08:19 GMT -5
That depends, what are you asking me to do? Wash a fat man's balls 5 times a day. I was gonna do it 8 times a day. DEAL!
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Post by HHH316 on Dec 14, 2013 19:52:05 GMT -5
Thanks everyone for your responses.
I haven't made a decision, but if I had to choose right this second, I probably wouldn't take it. I had a meeting with the boss today & we are just keeping the lines of communication open. They are REALLY in a bad spot right now, so I'm trying to use that against them & see just how much they are willing to bend over backwards for me.
The money is the only motivator for me here, but I'm a single guy with no credit card debt, no car payment, or kids. So I'm not in a spot where my back is against the wall to make a choice.
I'm also about to *hopefully* have a surgery next month that they don't know about, so how flexible they will be with me over it will be a big factor.
Again, thanks guys for your feedback. I really appreciate it.
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Post by Hulkamaniac on Dec 14, 2013 20:24:16 GMT -5
If you don't need the money then don't do it. Unless you need the medical benefits for your surgery.
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Post by billthomson1984 on Dec 14, 2013 20:31:46 GMT -5
If you don't need the money then don't do it. Unless you need the medical benefits for your surgery. This totally, I joined a new company like 3 months ago as they promised me a ton which has strictly been all lies and am unhappy as hell but I get paid a little more for doing 3 days work compared to the 5 I used to do but the promises of me being able to earn more have completely gone to crap. Especially when someone less capable then me is getting more opportunity then me as well.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2013 21:35:29 GMT -5
I would not do it for a million dollars. I have no idea why people think it's about pride. It has nothing at all to do with pride. It's about being happy. I spent six years of my life working a job I hated, loathed, despised and detested. To say it burned me out would be an understatement. Most days the absolute worst thing that happened to me every day was that I had to go to work. I hated it. It consumed my life. The hours were long, the pay was crappy and you got zero appreciation. One time a customer complained about me. Management investigated and found that the customer's complaint had no merit at all. They called me into the office and told me they had investigated and found the complaint to be without merit. Then they went ahead and put it in my file anyway because that was their policy. Next time a pay raise came around I was turned down because customer's complained about me. That's just one example. I hated that job. So if that job called me back today and wanted me to go back to work, same hours, same work, but better pay, I'd say no. They could offer me $500k a year. I'd still say no. They could offer me $20 mil a year. I'd still say no. Being miserable and burned out every day of your life is not worth it. If you quit a job because you were burned out and hated it and it hasn't changed (and it sounds like it hasn't since the person quitting now is leaving because they're burned out), then you shouldn't go back ever. That's just my .02. I've lived long enough to find out that money just isn't worth it. Now, all that being said, if that job called me back and wanted me for just a short period of time (3-6 mos) for an ungodly ammount of money, I might consider it. Short term suffering for long term gains is one thing. Long term suffering for long term gains isn't worth it. Man what did you do? And good luck dude.
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