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Post by BoJack Hogan on Jul 8, 2016 19:48:43 GMT -5
She doesn't like you like that. She'd respond to you asking her out and definitely wouldn't have ignored that part of the message. She doesn't have the heart to break yours. She can't be with you......right now......or ever.....because she doesn't want to. I would be a little let down about it but my heart wouldn't be broken. I only met her once.
Besides I have other options who've agreed to go on a date with me. Admittedly I'm not as into them as I am with her, but still.
I just don't get why she still talks to me and likes my pictures and stuff if she's not into me in the slightest bit? Plenty of girls have turned me down and just moved on from me. I was fine with that. When I'm not into a girl, I wouldn't give her "hope" (so to speak) by texting her and liking her pictures.
Maybe it was the wrong time to ask her out again before. We talk on Snapchat and sometimes the text can disappear if you open and close it too quickly.
You may very well be right, but I still feel like its worth a shot. I will be completely fine with it either way.
This isn't a great answer, but that's what girls do. They like pictures, and text you. I'm sure she likes you, just not in that way. It won't hurt to ask, and maybe she will say yes, but the main thing that just about any guy will tell you is that girls are crazy. Much of what they do defies logic. The ones who moved on simply had no interest, but she likes you in some way, so you're stuck in the female web of crazy. So many girls don't know what they want at any given time, which would account for much of this behavior. At the same time, if they don't want you now, they can't be sure that they will never want you, which would account for being on the hook. Good luck, and I really do hope it works out for you.
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Post by gawd6sic6™ on Jul 8, 2016 20:21:11 GMT -5
I would be a little let down about it but my heart wouldn't be broken. I only met her once.
Besides I have other options who've agreed to go on a date with me. Admittedly I'm not as into them as I am with her, but still.
I just don't get why she still talks to me and likes my pictures and stuff if she's not into me in the slightest bit? Plenty of girls have turned me down and just moved on from me. I was fine with that. When I'm not into a girl, I wouldn't give her "hope" (so to speak) by texting her and liking her pictures.
Maybe it was the wrong time to ask her out again before. We talk on Snapchat and sometimes the text can disappear if you open and close it too quickly.
You may very well be right, but I still feel like its worth a shot. I will be completely fine with it either way.
This isn't a great answer, but that's what girls do. They like pictures, and text you. I'm sure she likes you, just not in that way. It won't hurt to ask, and maybe she will say yes, but the main thing that just about any guy will tell you is that girls are crazy. Much of what they do defies logic. The ones who moved on simply had no interest, but she likes you in some way, so you're stuck in the female web of crazy. So many girls don't know what they want at any given time, which would account for much of this behavior. At the same time, if they don't want you now, they can't be sure that they will never want you, which would account for being on the hook. Good luck, and I really do hope it works out for you. Maybe she enjoys you... and likes you... but doesn't want a relationship. Just don't force anything.... if she wants more she'll go for it or allow you to. Stay friends and play your other cards.
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Post by TheLastDude on Jul 8, 2016 20:23:25 GMT -5
She doesn't like you like that. She'd respond to you asking her out and definitely wouldn't have ignored that part of the message. She doesn't have the heart to break yours. She can't be with you......right now......or ever.....because she doesn't want to. I would be a little let down about it but my heart wouldn't be broken. I only met her once.
Yes, you would be heartbroken. You seem extraordinarily hung up on a girl you "met once". Look, I'm not looking down on you here...but you're coming across as all kinds of sad and pathetic. You're looking for excuses (Snapchat acts up, she still talks to me, etc) instead of understanding the cold, hard truth: she doesn't seem to be into you. It hurts. We've all be stood up, jilted, dumped, let down, and blown off...it happens to the best of us. You're not alone...and there are a ton of women out there. I'll put it to you like this. If she missed that text where you brought up going out again, and she WAS into you, in the last month she would have tipped you a hint like "Hey, just wanted to say I had a good time the last time we saw each other, we should do that again sometime"...you know...feeling you out and checking to see if you were ditching her. That hasn't happened. Would it be better if everyone were straight up and just said what they thought and felt? Sure...but this is 2016. I don't blame her for seemingly hoping you forget about it. She doesn't know you won't show up to her job and pull a Van Gogh on yourself trying to prove your love for her.
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Post by Epic Z on Jul 8, 2016 20:39:52 GMT -5
Don't tell her that you are "totally into her" if you guys only went on one date and barley talk than that would come off as super creepy.
Just be causal. Message her a funny link to a article or something and say "Hey I thought this would be something you would find funny" and get the conversation going. Once you are talking say "We should go on another date sometime" if she agrees than set up a time and congrats. If she says no...well that sucks but you weren't creepy and you at least know where you stand.
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Post by Negan™ on Jul 8, 2016 22:27:25 GMT -5
I would be a little let down about it but my heart wouldn't be broken. I only met her once.
Yes, you would be heartbroken. You seem extraordinarily hung up on a girl you "met once". Look, I'm not looking down on you here...but you're coming across as all kinds of sad and pathetic. You're looking for excuses (Snapchat acts up, she still talks to me, etc) instead of understanding the cold, hard truth: she doesn't seem to be into you. It hurts. We've all be stood up, jilted, dumped, let down, and blown off...it happens to the best of us. You're not alone...and there are a ton of women out there. I'll put it to you like this. If she missed that text where you brought up going out again, and she WAS into you, in the last month she would have tipped you a hint like "Hey, just wanted to say I had a good time the last time we saw each other, we should do that again sometime"...you know...feeling you out and checking to see if you were ditching her. That hasn't happened. Would it be better if everyone were straight up and just said what they thought and felt? Sure...but this is 2016. I don't blame her for seemingly hoping you forget about it. She doesn't know you won't show up to her job and pull a Van Gogh on yourself trying to prove your love for her. I'm not extraordinarily hung up on her. I fancy her, yes. That's about where it ends.
Your last paragraph makes no sense. If she wanted me to forget about it, why would she bother interacting with me at all? Sounds like you're just trying to be "that guy" to me.
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Post by BIG MCLARGEHUGE on Jul 8, 2016 22:56:38 GMT -5
Yes, you would be heartbroken. You seem extraordinarily hung up on a girl you "met once". Look, I'm not looking down on you here...but you're coming across as all kinds of sad and pathetic. You're looking for excuses (Snapchat acts up, she still talks to me, etc) instead of understanding the cold, hard truth: she doesn't seem to be into you. It hurts. We've all be stood up, jilted, dumped, let down, and blown off...it happens to the best of us. You're not alone...and there are a ton of women out there. I'll put it to you like this. If she missed that text where you brought up going out again, and she WAS into you, in the last month she would have tipped you a hint like "Hey, just wanted to say I had a good time the last time we saw each other, we should do that again sometime"...you know...feeling you out and checking to see if you were ditching her. That hasn't happened. Would it be better if everyone were straight up and just said what they thought and felt? Sure...but this is 2016. I don't blame her for seemingly hoping you forget about it. She doesn't know you won't show up to her job and pull a Van Gogh on yourself trying to prove your love for her. I'm not extraordinarily hung up on her. I fancy her, yes. That's about where it ends.
Your last paragraph makes no sense. If she wanted me to forget about it, why would she bother interacting with me at all? Sounds like you're just trying to be "that guy" to me.
I'm sorry man but you're being super creepy.
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Post by Johnny Mason on Jul 8, 2016 23:03:07 GMT -5
Creepy thread lol. I don't see why people have problems talking to girls. Ask her out, if she says no move on.
Also, if I was you I would try to find dates in real life...
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Post by TheLastDude on Jul 8, 2016 23:06:04 GMT -5
Yes, you would be heartbroken. You seem extraordinarily hung up on a girl you "met once". Look, I'm not looking down on you here...but you're coming across as all kinds of sad and pathetic. You're looking for excuses (Snapchat acts up, she still talks to me, etc) instead of understanding the cold, hard truth: she doesn't seem to be into you. It hurts. We've all be stood up, jilted, dumped, let down, and blown off...it happens to the best of us. You're not alone...and there are a ton of women out there. I'll put it to you like this. If she missed that text where you brought up going out again, and she WAS into you, in the last month she would have tipped you a hint like "Hey, just wanted to say I had a good time the last time we saw each other, we should do that again sometime"...you know...feeling you out and checking to see if you were ditching her. That hasn't happened. Would it be better if everyone were straight up and just said what they thought and felt? Sure...but this is 2016. I don't blame her for seemingly hoping you forget about it. She doesn't know you won't show up to her job and pull a Van Gogh on yourself trying to prove your love for her. I'm not extraordinarily hung up on her. I fancy her, yes. That's about where it ends.
Your last paragraph makes no sense. If she wanted me to forget about it, why would she bother interacting with me at all? Sounds like you're just trying to be "that guy" to me.
AHHHH! There it is!!! The super defensive deflection post! I'm going to take the under and say you're oh, 16. And there is most likely no girl. Or at least no girl you've talked to yet. If this were all true, you'd have taken some of the good advice that has already been posted. Since you'd rather keep hemming and hawing...I'm going to say thanks for the lulz, but we already have a banter thread. bad guy™ I'd say this thread has run it's course again my friend.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2016 23:10:48 GMT -5
Honestly man, do what you feel is best. Wfigs isn't a great place to get advice about women.
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Post by motleyspoisongun on Jul 8, 2016 23:24:44 GMT -5
you do understand that girls can talk to a guy & like their pictures and its strictly platonic, right? her liking your pictures & talking you from time to time is not her leading you on or her giving you hope..its your delusions that are giving you hope. you are trying to look for things that arent there. get over it man. shes probably had 3-4 guys inside her since your 1 date. and if shes only texting you after you send a bunch of texts 1st shes only talking to you cause she either feels bad for you or hopes that chit chattimg with you will get you to stop bothering you or shes just bored at that moment & is killing time. if you need a girl to spell it out for you that she doesnt like you & blatantly tell you "no" then you're in for years of this happening to you cause not all girls are like that. if you are coming off to her the way you are here, shes not gonna straight up tell you shes not interested because she feels bad for you & hopes you get the hint which you havent
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Post by TheLastDude on Jul 8, 2016 23:38:46 GMT -5
Honestly man, do what you feel is best. Wfigs isn't a great place to get advice about women. I wouldn't say that entirely. The problem with advice threads is that usually: A) The person asking for advice refuses to accept what's plainly obvious B) They get pissed off because it's not the advice they wanted to get C) People offering advice can't offer really good and/or helpful advice because the OP leaves something out Take this thread for instance. The OP very easily could have neglected to mention that the original date went horribly and that's why she doesn't want to go out again.
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Post by bad guy™ on Jul 8, 2016 23:53:23 GMT -5
Gonna do what my idol T R W would do in times like this. Minus the witty GIF.
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