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Post by Negan™ on Jul 7, 2016 22:14:01 GMT -5
Not sure why my previous thread was locked but please read the OP here before replying forum.wrestlingfigs.com/thread/335471/dating-advice
Alright, so where do I start off? I guess I'm looking for serious advice about this girl I'm talking to.
Long story short: I met this girl online, we went on a date like a month and a half ago, it went well, I've been talking to her on-and-off online since. We became friends on Facebook and I'm really into her, and I'm not sure if she feels the same way.
What do you guys do in my situation? A few days after the first date, I asked her out for a coffee and she didn't respond to that part of my text. I took this as the old "You're a nice guy but not for me" kinda thing. She still talks to me and likes my pictures on Facebook. So I'm not sure where I stand with her.
I really wanna move on for my own sake but every girl I meet, I just compare them to her. It sounds crazy I know. We're both still on Tinder and I just keep thinking to myself "If she meets someone else, I'll be gutted." and that's true.
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Post by Nathan from Aus on Jul 7, 2016 22:18:01 GMT -5
Sounds like you're in "The Zone" champ
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Post by ~*Young $ Money*~ on Jul 7, 2016 22:25:54 GMT -5
Sounds like you're in "The Zone" champ Definitely in that zone!!! anyway try asking her what she's doing one night and try to hang out with her. DO you have her cell number? Call her once in a while and talk to her and ask. Harder for her to ignore it that way. If that all don't work, hop back on the saddle. |
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Post by IRS on Jul 7, 2016 22:28:55 GMT -5
I... stand by my advice from the first thread.
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Post by Mongo Bears on Jul 7, 2016 22:39:14 GMT -5
If you haven't met her face to face then you stand nowhere with her. Sorry.
I don't really understand this whole internet relationship scene
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Post by Deleted on Jul 7, 2016 22:40:38 GMT -5
Not sure why my previous thread was locked but please read the OP here before replying forum.wrestlingfigs.com/thread/335471/dating-advice
Alright, so where do I start off? I guess I'm looking for serious advice about this girl I'm talking to.
Long story short: I met this girl online, we went on a date like a month and a half ago, it went well, I've been talking to her on-and-off online since. We became friends on Facebook and I'm really into her, and I'm not sure if she feels the same way.
What do you guys do in my situation? A few days after the first date, I asked her out for a coffee and she didn't respond to that part of my text. I took this as the old "You're a nice guy but not for me" kinda thing. She still talks to me and likes my pictures on Facebook. So I'm not sure where I stand with her.
I really wanna move on for my own sake but every girl I meet, I just compare them to her. It sounds crazy I know. We're both still on Tinder and I just keep thinking to myself "If she meets someone else, I'll be gutted." and that's true.
What should I do? Just ask her where you stand... and ask her for an honest answer. |
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Post by theMOESIAH on Jul 7, 2016 22:46:09 GMT -5
Man, I was hoping this was from the ball straight call guy...
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Post by Negan™ on Jul 7, 2016 22:48:21 GMT -5
I have her number but only cause she called me once and asked me where I was. It would be creepy if I told her I saved it... lol.
Btw, we're not really "friends". It's not like I see her every day. So I wouldn't say I'm the 'ZONE'. She's a really nice person so maybe she just doesn't want to be rude by not texting me back sometimes. That could be it.
Honestly, I'm at the point where I feel like just telling her I'm really into her. At least then I'd know where I stand. After all I'd rather be told "no" than be constantly wondering if I should text her, etc. The chasing is exhausting. And I'm talking to other girls on Tinder as well, so at least I could say I tried with the one I liked.
I don't think I could forgive myself if she got into a relationship with someone else and I didn't speak up.
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It's kinda karma in a way cause a few years back, this girl was really into me and I didn't exactly feel the same way. We talked to each other nearly every day online and she wanted to meet up with me. At the time, I wasn't comfortable meeting people on the internet either and she lived an hour away from me. Anyway, she eventually got pissed with me not answering her calls (or "leading her on", as she'd probably put it) and now she's been dating this other guy for like a year now.
I feel like I'm in her shoes now.
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Post by Negan™ on Jul 7, 2016 22:49:03 GMT -5
If you haven't met her face to face then you stand nowhere with her. Sorry. I don't really understand this whole internet relationship scene I went on a date with her. |
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Post by Negan™ on Jul 7, 2016 22:53:47 GMT -5
Not sure why my previous thread was locked but please read the OP here before replying forum.wrestlingfigs.com/thread/335471/dating-advice
Alright, so where do I start off? I guess I'm looking for serious advice about this girl I'm talking to.
Long story short: I met this girl online, we went on a date like a month and a half ago, it went well, I've been talking to her on-and-off online since. We became friends on Facebook and I'm really into her, and I'm not sure if she feels the same way.
What do you guys do in my situation? A few days after the first date, I asked her out for a coffee and she didn't respond to that part of my text. I took this as the old "You're a nice guy but not for me" kinda thing. She still talks to me and likes my pictures on Facebook. So I'm not sure where I stand with her.
I really wanna move on for my own sake but every girl I meet, I just compare them to her. It sounds crazy I know. We're both still on Tinder and I just keep thinking to myself "If she meets someone else, I'll be gutted." and that's true.
What should I do? Just ask her where you stand... and ask her for an honest answer. I just don't want to make a fool out of myself, that's all.
She works in the local shopping mall and it would be pretty hard facing her if I got rejected.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 7, 2016 22:58:33 GMT -5
Just ask her where you stand... and ask her for an honest answer. I just don't want to make a fool out of myself, that's all.
She works in the local shopping mall and it would be pretty hard facing her if I got rejected.
...the longer you keep this up the more foolish you will look... dude we have all been there.. go for it god dammit |
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Post by @.@ Hempsterdance @.@ on Jul 7, 2016 22:58:59 GMT -5
I've said it in almost every thread like this, wfigs is not the place for this kind of thing.
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Post by Negan™ on Jul 7, 2016 23:13:57 GMT -5
I've said it in almost every thread like this, wfigs is not the place for this kind of thing. Why not? I'm sure plenty of people here have been in my situation. |
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Post by Negan™ on Jul 7, 2016 23:17:27 GMT -5
Out of curiosity, how will I look more foolish? I can potentially save myself a lot of dignity if I just say nothing as she'll assume I wasn't that into her.
I'm leaning more towards "going for it" anyway. Its not like I have anything to lose. I mean, I'll probably feel embarrassed but I'm sure I'll get over it.
...the longer you keep this up the more foolish you will look... dude we have all been there.. go for it god dammit |
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Post by @.@ Hempsterdance @.@ on Jul 8, 2016 0:31:43 GMT -5
I've said it in almost every thread like this, wfigs is not the place for this kind of thing. Why not? I'm sure plenty of people here have been in my situation. most the time it erupts into a nonsense thread and just makes the op feel unsatisfied. You are better off going to a friend or talking to a parent about relationships not a toy forum. |
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Post by ¡Twist Of Cinnamon! on Jul 8, 2016 1:48:44 GMT -5
Move on. Best way to get over one girl is to get under another.
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Post by Darkhawk on Jul 8, 2016 2:54:15 GMT -5
From what I learned over the years, people will always get your text. She saw you texted her and ignored you, I know it sounds harsh but it's true man. I'd go ahead and ask her straight up where you stand and whether she wants to give you a chance or not. Don't be upset if she doesn't though, you'll find a much better girl I'm sure of it. And you were fine before you met her and you'll be fine after you move on.
I hanged out with a girl I met online a few months ago and we had an awesome night together, but then she started to not talk to me as much and just wanted to be friends, so I told her I didn't want that and moved on. Weird thing is she added me on Snapchat and Twitter and hasn't bothered to unfollow me yet. She had a BF later on but I found recently they broke up, so yeah karma's a bitch lol.
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Post by 0,Y on Jul 8, 2016 3:31:52 GMT -5
Man up, stop with all that fancy internet dating bullcrap and meet people the old-fashioned way.
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Post by Valbroski on Jul 8, 2016 5:18:30 GMT -5
First of all don't fixate on your age and lack of experience because then you're just going to over think and question your every move and thought. It sounds like this chick isn't into you the way you are into her. The reason why you can't move on from her is because you barely gave it a chance. You need to have more will power to become open minded when meeting other girls and not default them to the standard of the previous girl. Also don't look for meaning on these kinds of things with facebook likes. Her acknowledging your existence on social media shouldn't automatically be read as further interest in you as relationship potential to her.
You have zero obligation to this girl and you're in your 20s so my advice is to force yourself to move on. If you really struggle with this then get off facebook for a few days or a week to help stop thinking about her. Everybody finds somebody at their own time, it'll happen for you just have confidence and patience.
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Post by rowdy1971 on Jul 8, 2016 8:30:51 GMT -5
JUST ASK HER OUT!!!!!!!! IF she flip flops on an answer, then you know. Move onward and upward.
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