The Real Chillary
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Post by The Real Chillary on Jun 22, 2020 16:33:33 GMT -5
With all due respect, there is still a large part of the wrestling fanbase that worships Chris Benoit.. Which pretty much says everything you need to know about the majority of wrestling fans. I hate looking down on fellow fans, and I don't see myself better than anyone by any stretch as I'm far from perfect, but wrestling fans generally embarrass me. This isn't just about fandom, it's the business in general. deadspin.com/espns-30-for-30-on-ric-flair-glorifies-decades-of-sexua-1820305314I'm not doubting you, I agree. Imagine the crapthat went on during the 80's that wasn't made public. Especially when rats were a common thing, I imagine there would have been alot of abuse and predatory behaviour back then.
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Post by stc13 on Jun 22, 2020 17:05:07 GMT -5
I guess I'm in the minority, but this just feels unnecessary to me. What Sammy said was stupid, unjustifiable, and offensive. But I felt like this was handled appropriately - he and Sasha seemed to have a productive, real conversation, and it sounds like he came away better for it.
This happened 4 years ago, before AEW ever existed. While I absolutely believe people should be called out for their bad actions, I also firmly believe people can and do grow, and one bad action doesn't disqualify a person's entire life. In my career I have worked closely with incarcerated groups and men who have served prison time, in many cases who have been convicted of very real and very bad crimes. But many of whom have also made every effort to leave those mistakes behind and not let those acts define their lives.
Maybe this is just touching a nerve for me. But I find it unsettling that we've moved the goalposts, where the public seems more interested in getting their pound of flesh and seeing a "bad" person punished in the court of public opinion than they are in actually facilitating growth in that person. And that we've blurred the line between criminal activity and bad behavior. I don't support the idea that a bad act years in the past should be held over someone indefinitely, nor do I like the idea of workplace being judge, jury, and executioner when the issue seemingly was genuinely addressed by the impacted parties.
Like I said, I realize that this may go against the current, and respect those who feel otherwise. But this doesn't sit right with me. I think I'll be taking a break from AEW.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 22, 2020 17:20:47 GMT -5
I guess I'm in the minority, but this just feels unnecessary to me. What Sammy said was stupid, unjustifiable, and offensive. But I felt like this was handled appropriately - he and Sasha seemed to have a productive, real conversation, and it sounds like he came away better for it. This happened 4 years ago, before AEW ever existed. While I absolutely believe people should be called out for their bad actions, I also firmly believe people can and do grow, and one bad action doesn't disqualify a person's entire life. In my career I have worked closely with incarcerated groups and men who have served prison time, in many cases who have been convicted of very real and very bad crimes. But many of whom have also made every effort to leave those mistakes behind and not let those acts define their lives. Maybe this is just touching a nerve for me. But I find it unsettling that we've moved the goalposts, where the public seems more interested in getting their pound of flesh and seeing a "bad" person punished in the court of public opinion than they are in actually facilitating growth in that person. And that we've blurred the line between criminal activity and bad behavior. I don't support the idea that a bad act years in the past should be held over someone indefinitely, nor do I like the idea of workplace being judge, jury, and executioner when the issue seemingly was genuinely addressed by the impacted parties. Like I said, I realize that this may go against the current, and respect those who feel otherwise. But this doesn't sit right with me. I think I'll be taking a break from AEW. I don't blame AEW the fault lies with the pc snowflakes. Usually over stuff that happened years ago or said years ago. Get back to work and get a life people.
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Post by wheeljack83 on Jun 22, 2020 17:22:06 GMT -5
I think suspending him was OK, though I would've said suspend him for a period of 3 months and donate his pay to the women's center.
Just for example, I recall that Scorpio Sky made some regrettable homophobic comments from years back that I believe kept him from getting hired by WWE. Since that time he has already apologized and acknowledged those comments as wrong. If he were to get punished again by AEW for that when those comments have already been public knowledge, Scorpio apologized for them AND Scorpio has been on his best behavior since he made those, as far as I know, i think that would be wrong. But whatever. I'm not the thought or word police right now.
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Post by sonstuds on Jun 22, 2020 17:37:59 GMT -5
Ric Flair is an alleged sexual assaulter. Stone Cold Steve Austin is a wife beater. The industry still worships them and allows them to get work and welcome them with open arms. With all due respect, there is still a large part of the wrestling fanbase that worships Chris Benoit.. Which pretty much says everything you need to know about the majority of wrestling fans. It was crazy to me reading a Chris Benoit thread a few years back that was full of "I never met the man so I can't judge him" type of posts. Call me cynical but I doubt the dentist down the street would receive the same response if he did the same crime. But hey Louis CK is still one of my favourite comedians so maybe I shouldn't throw stones.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 22, 2020 17:44:28 GMT -5
Wow. I was out all day getting tattoo work done, so came home and am just finishing playing catchup.
I agree 100% with stc13 and LK3. While ultimately this is probably not enough to actually get me to stop watching, I'm not going to pretend that thought didn't enter my mind, and we all know how much of an AEW superfan I can be.
All I can really say that stc13 and LK3 haven't already said, is that I don't think I know a single person who couldn't have something dug up on them. Male, female, transgender, non-binary, gay, straight, bi-sexual, pansexual, not one. Literally everyone has done or said something somewhat stupid at one point in their youth. To suspend him for something said years before the company even existed because someone pointed it out. Wow.
I'm not saying it was a good joke, a smart thing to say, etc. Obviously it was stupid. Dude apologized, called Sasha to apologize. (And I can only imagine how much she could have ripped him a new one. I love Sasha, and I would be absolutely terrified of making that phone call he made). They resolved the situation satisfactorily between them. Hell still have him do sensitivity training if you want. If you have to suspend him, put a timeline on it. But to flat out say his entire future in the company is in jeopardy because of one comment? Wow. Unless there is an internal history within the company of him making stupid comments that we don't know about, or something else Tony is aware of that we aren't, I can't even.
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Post by OTC Waxbender on Jun 22, 2020 18:45:02 GMT -5
What's that saying about accepting the things you cant change and all that?
I think all 3 parties (Sammy, Sasha & AEW) came to an agreement and plenty good came of this bad situation. Womens center is getting a much needed donation, Sammy is getting his slap on the wrist while maintaining a career (lets be honest, he'll have work after this especially with the way it was swiftly and honorably handled regardless of opinion of intent) and AEW keeps their image as the moral standard to some extent.
I think we can all agree that Sammys part in this is probably over so long as he complies. As for complaining about legends who are still revered after their past actions/statements, that is a totally different story. My initial response is to say go tweet about it and start a movement if you feel so strongly. Idk why people do that though. It's like the younger sibling that says "but so and so did/does it" when they get in trouble as if events rooted in the past somehow cancel out or take precedence over the present situation. Lol.
However I think the more logical answer is that you can't tear peoples idols down for them. They have to do that themselves. In other words you'll be fighting a losing battle if you're trying to convince a person that someone they hold in the highest regard is not worthy of that admiration. You see it with any kind of fanatic. Some people can't differentiate the man from the character he plays any different than the people who cant differentiate the past mistakes that went unpunished with the current rehabilitated persons who are trying to do better in the present.
TLDR: It was settled peacefully and should remain so until another allegation(hopefully doesn't) pop up. Everything else is just a toy.
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Post by BCizzle on Jun 22, 2020 21:03:52 GMT -5
the far left are who is going crazy at Sammy for this James Gunn also initially lost his position from the same far left people going after him. the far right just bickered enough to Disney who buckled and brought him back, which shouldn’t be a crazy surprise considering they employ tucker Carlson so I still don’t get your point. This isn't accurate. It was a far right guy who went after James Gunn. Gunn is apparently a Republican but hates Trump. A lot of left wing people defended him and wanted him rehired. The far right didn't bicker at all. Now as for Sammy, he said something stupid, but this never ending witch hunt crap drives me crazy.
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Post by K5 on Jun 22, 2020 21:18:13 GMT -5
the far left are who is going crazy at Sammy for this James Gunn also initially lost his position from the same far left people going after him. the far right just bickered enough to Disney who buckled and brought him back, which shouldn’t be a crazy surprise considering they employ tucker Carlson so I still don’t get your point. This isn't accurate. It was a far right guy who went after James Gunn. Gunn is apparently a Republican but hates Trump. A lot of left wing people defended him and wanted him rehired. The far right didn't bicker at all. Now as for Sammy, he said something stupid, but this never ending witch hunt crap drives me crazy. after going back and reading into it, you’re right. my bad there.
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Post by toki on Jun 22, 2020 21:37:00 GMT -5
first of all, what he said originally was incredibly harsh and uncalled for. that being said, all parties hashed it out and settled the score. he learned his lesson, and manned up by talking to sasha about it directly. i do think the suspension is a little unjust being that it was 4 years ago, but you also have to look at it from a company standpoint. with everything that's coming out about all these peoples' past, it would have done them more harm if they did nothing about it. i love aew, and though it does suck that sammy is being suspended for something that happened long before the company was even a thought, i won't stop watching because of this. it also proves a point to the rest of the guys to be a lot more careful with what they say and do. i don't particularly like the overly pc culture nowadays and especially the people that dig things up just to damage others, but it also brings consequences to absurd actions in the long run.
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Post by bWo on Jun 22, 2020 22:03:38 GMT -5
Have any of you ever watched a comedy roast? Based on A LOT of the comments in here, I'm guessing not.
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Post by toki on Jun 22, 2020 22:06:44 GMT -5
Have any of you ever watched a comedy roast? Based on A LOT of the comments in here, I'm guessing not. none of the accused are stand-up comedians. they should stick to their day jobs.
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Post by bWo on Jun 22, 2020 23:08:22 GMT -5
Have any of you ever watched a comedy roast? Based on A LOT of the comments in here, I'm guessing not. none of the accused are stand-up comedians. they should stick to their day jobs. What was Sammy Guevara accused of?
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Post by Bandalero on Jun 22, 2020 23:23:39 GMT -5
none of the accused are stand-up comedians. they should stick to their day jobs. What was Sammy Guevara accused of? He made an ill-fated fratboy-type comment about Sasha Banks when he was 22 (4 years ago) on a podcast. Someone dug it up and now he's paying the price. Apparently he connected with Sasha and apologized so it's water under the bridge, but I'm sure AEW management is asking him to lay low for a month or two until this blows over. He's got such a bright future, I hope it does.
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Post by toki on Jun 22, 2020 23:25:28 GMT -5
none of the accused are stand-up comedians. they should stick to their day jobs. What was Sammy Guevara accused of? if you've kept up with this thread you wouldn't need to ask of such. i'm not here to argue with you, but rather state the obvious to your unnecessary question. us being familiar with comedy roasts has nothing to do with a male professional wrestler stating that they would rape a female professional wrestler, regardless of whether or not it was meant in a joking matter. good day.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 23, 2020 3:32:46 GMT -5
It was a crappy thing for Sammy to say, but I don’t think it was something to be indefinitely suspended for
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Post by @brit_figs on Jun 23, 2020 5:15:25 GMT -5
what a vile thing to say, im honestly so shocked at all this coming out now.
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Post by finnbalor1 on Jun 23, 2020 6:07:29 GMT -5
Not gonna get into if I think he deserved the suspension of not I just hope he comes out of this a better person(seems like he's already took blame and apologized to the person not just the public so imo not much else he can do) and this doesn't follow him around the rest of his career.
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Post by JTG on Jun 23, 2020 7:24:10 GMT -5
It was a dumb thing to say, but that’s the recurring theme of social media these days. Things you say offhandedly years prior can come back to haunt you down the line. I hope this continues to give athletes, celebrities, etc. a loud wakeup call that what you put out on the internet is there forever.
I really like Sammy so it’s sad to see him get called out for saying something really bad, even under the guise of a joke. With that said, the wording of his suspension makes it very clear that upon the completion of sensitivity training his position in AEW will be re-evaluated. Despite it sounding harsh, this is a PR measure for the company to show that they do not take situations like this lightly. I don’t for one second think Sammy will lose his job though. He’s done everything right since this news broke and he seemingly shows true remorse. I look forward to seeing him on Dynamite again in the future.
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Post by rowdy1971 on Jun 23, 2020 8:52:16 GMT -5
Hopefully the higher ups at AEW talk to their younger talents about what can happen with their new found success. There are a lot of young guys on the roster who are now getting popular and things like this will happen, if it's the truth or made up. The talent are now making money that they probably never thought they would have and with that comes snakes, crooks, cheaters, and manipulators. AEW just better hope that none of their "vice presidents" get called to the table with accusations. That would really be hurtful to their product.
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